Breakingthewall

How do you know that? What is consciousness for you? Some thing that is the foundation of the reality? Maybe a creator who is dreaming?

All of that is a lie; it's just things people think to feel safe. All this spirituality that's being promoted is nonsense and doesn't liberate anyone. On the contrary, spiritual people are more trapped and more narcissistic than a materialistic atheist. Let's see, if it were true that we're here to learn, wouldn't we be going somewhere from somewhere else? Where would we be going? If there were no limits, we would never have started, and we wouldn't be progressing toward anything, nor would we be dreaming things for a reason, since we would have done it an infinite number of times, and we would be a psychotic god on a demented circular mission. Forget everything and open yourself to your nature. Your nature is not an structure like being a dreamer, it's what reality is, being without limits. That's everything, there is nothing to know, just open yourself totally now. That's all.

What is fun? The narcissists? Not so

Why are you laughing?

Spirituality is opening yourself to the living essence of the absolute, in which the totality sees itself as life, being, the boundlessness that it is, and simply being expresses: hallelujah. The absolute light, creator of reality, which is reality itself, the living source that you are and that manifests in you now, bursting forth into life, universes, realities, all of them full of being. All that you talk about is just conceptual; you can't open yourself to the totality, which is normal since it's not easy at all, but it's good to understand this and not get stuck on meaningless nonsense, for you and for the people who's close to you. But anyway, life is hard. That's life

The main factor that makes real meditation impossible is the need for self-definition, for identification. This need is inherent to the human being; it is a mechanism of social cohesion that allows the group to function as a single entity. Real meditation is not achieved through techniques, but through stepping out of the psychological matrix of identity. The real work is not in the practice of meditation, but in self-exposure, coherence, and integrity. Loyalty to yourself as absolute value. When the psychological axis shifts from the need for self-definition and validation to integrity and transparency, the mind becomes silent. Only then does meditation make sense, as one gains access to the primordial layers of the psyche: the drive for permanence, the fear of harm and disappearance, the need for control and other bases of the human psyche Directly perceiving these underlying patterns is what eventually allows the psyche to open. “Openness” means the absence of limits. Limits define, and create a sense of control and security. The absence of limits is initially terrifying, unsustainable for more than a few seconds. The system automatically contracts again. Anyone seeking liberation must seek this rupture. At some point, it becomes more tolerable, until it is perceived as freedom. Identity is then replaced by effortless openness, as it is revealed to be a mental process. not false, but not fundamental, not absolute. Openness is not an “open mind,” but the fact of being perceiving itself without mental limitations. It is something simple and, at the same time, complete. Not definable because there are not limits. This is the state where life becomes beauty, perception becomes deep and the heart becomes open.

Perhaps everything is so difficult for you because you've clung to a narcissistic, misguided, and insane spirituality that claims you're creating reality, when this is absolutely not the case. If a false idea forms the foundation of your mind, your whole life tends toward the wrong paths, and this translates into dissatisfaction. Ask yourself a question: how do you know that you are dreaming the reality? If it were the case, why are you creating this really and not another? There must be a reason. This reason would be a limit, because it would limit the other possibilities. Then the entire reality would be limited for a reason.

Absolute love is just the absence of contraction. You could call it openess, oneness, absolute being , creative power, god . You perceive it as a divine feeling in comparison with normal contracted state, but it's just being without limits. We are closed to absolute love due evolution. It's necessary to be closed in order to move to greater complexity. Alive beings divide the reality between good and bad in order to self preserve, reproduce, evolve. This division is closeness, and it's natural and necessary. Enlightenment is just removing this closeness in some moments, and perceiving always that this closeness is just a temporary structure with a purpose, being able to see through it easily

The mind and the self that desires and fears are expressions of reality. They are as real as the body or anything else that exists. Spirituality denies the self as an illusion, but it doesn't deny the body because it is tangible. This is a primitive and deceptive way of thinking. The self is reality expressed as self, and its impulse and focus are those of reality. To deny it is to deny reality, and moreover, the one who denies it is the self.

The mind has a parcel of control that is not small.

Look, this is very complicated but I think that you have level enough for this revelation: if you don't work, don't make plans, then it's very possible that you arrive to a position where there is no food, no house, no medicines , no friends for you, and you (illusory or not) don't want that. I still remember when you were crying all day (as it's normal) because your new born son had a heart disease, and sure you bring him to the best doctors that your abundant money could pay,.and do you well. Some people can't do that because they are poor. Then, what is the purpose of spreading now all this bullshit? If you don't believe In it. You said that you work as a financial analyst right? That is speculation to get money, and you have to do it very thoroughly to keep your work, because are others who want it. Then, why all those lies? Narcissism? Seems clear

Let's see if I can explain this idea because it's extremely complicated. Look, when I'm alive, I want a good life, and when death comes, I won't care about it anymore... because I will be dead! Crazy right? Then now, when I'm alive, i don't want being a homeless with sickness and eaten by rats, that's why I work hard in all fields that I can, same than all living beings. Then tell me , oh superior. What would I do? Nothing? Because I'm nothing? Those bullshit could useful for you, maybe you are a millionaire of anything, but most of the people have to move fast and right

Ojhhh you are so profound, and so superior. Where do you live? In a cave? And do you feed your kid or not? Tell me, oh enlightened. You are another example of narcissist passive aggressive non dualistic unbearable and impossible to communicate anything. Spirituality nowadays

I already told you, I am a process that is happening , and we call that process body/mind. Im the reality in the form of a process , like anything else , and what I am is manifested as a body mind that is going to turn of the phone because tomorrow has to move fast to not get eaten by the rats

I am the body, I can point it. That's just a facet of you, necessary for survival No, the controlling self is absolutely necessary. Nowadays society if protective, but even so, you need control, visión, understanding and projection in order to not having a life that is horrible, like being a homeless rotten by rats in winter without no one who matters if you are alive or dead. I choose to avoid it

All non-dualistic spirituality is a farce and worthless; it doesn't liberate, it closes you off, it's better to forget it totally. True spirituality is an act of surrendering the self to the totality, an act of opening the heart to immensity that includes accepting destruction and suffering. This is an act of total humility, and it is precisely the opposite of what non-duality preaches: nothing is real, only you, consciousness, is real and can't be touched. It is absolute narcissism, anti-spirituality. Non duality say: the reality is a duality between the consciousness, that is the truth, and the form, that is falsehood, maya. You, the consciousness, are dreaming it, it is not real. This is the definition of narcissism.

There is no god and reality is not a dream. If you move your sight a millimeter, this movement must be coherent with the whole of the form, and it's the result of the synchronicity of the whole of the form. What you can do as a self is move yourself towards the openess, and believing that reality is a dream and you are creating it is a closure

No, there is true spirituality, the movement that you can do to opening yourself to your unlimited nature. It's a movement that implies the dissolution of the limits of the mind and the openess of your heart, that is closed by our inevitable bias through self preservation. But non duality is nothing of this, it's just a mental shift to scape from reality

What we call "you" is the body mind structure. There is a part of that you, the self, that is created by multiple neurological paths by evolution, that is a center that decides and wants, that appears as the center of the experience, in order to create more complex structures, that's what reality does when it's possible

Your life is not a line, it's a circle, a cycle of creation and destruction of form, which is how reality manifests. Reality is not consciousness experiencing things, but rather consciousness appears in reality when forms become self-preserving systems with a certain level of complexity. Nobody is creating them, they appear because there are no limitations. There can't be any God at control, the only control is the necessary coherence for the appearance of any form. Reality is conscious, not reality is consciousness. Very different. If you don't get this, you will be closed, as the non dualistic

Obviously, and denying it is absurd. Spirituality consists of opening yourself to your total nature from the relative form that is happening now, which is biased by the need for self-preservation, not in denying the existence of that form. This is merely a mental shift that doesn't lead to true openness.

You are so profound and your advices are so generous There is a thing, the form, and is caught in the desire of preservation that is inherent to the form autopreserved that we call life. You could say that this is nothing to feel profound, but still it is

If the container is limitlessness it's not a container, container implies a limit. Then why do you want that they collapse into union if they doesn't exist? Why are you telling me that I'm trapped if there are no distinctions between anything? So, if anyone says anything, you arrive fast without any nuance saying that he's wrong and trapped because he's making distinctions and awakening is unity. Then you make the distinction between being awake or bounded. Can you understand that that's irritating to read again and again?

Then there is something, a limit, that contains the structure. So the container is different than the structure?

Then there is a distinction between being bound up and free?