Breakingthewall

It's not that it's this or that. is that reality is absolute but there is an apparent ego that makes it seem relative and limited. if you transcend that ego, everything collapses into one, and you realize the absolute limitless that you are. it can happen doing 5 meo or fucking with prostitutes while snorting cocaine, but it happens that in the second case it doesn't usually happen, and taking 5 meo there is a tendency for the dualities to collapse and to realize the absolute infinity. if you realize the absolute 100 times taking 5 meo, or fucking whores, you're more likely to realize the absolute when you're home cooking or when you wake up in the morning, or meditating. It's not so mysterious and you don't have to be a monk or have your teacher teach you koans, and talk In misterious way, it's simpler

You think that God is duality, and beyond God is nothing, and nothingness is enlightenment, right? But where is the difference? Nothingness is god, that's the point .

depends. I have moments in the middle of the night, or sometimes meditating in which duality completely collapses, and in my mind there is emptiness without limits, certainty that this emptiness is Everything. total certainty that there is no outside, the collapse of multiplicity. the sensation is of total freedom without limits, but after a while there is a reaction. the mind begins: then there is nothing... but that nothing is something, right, or maybe it is simply nothing and looks like something... etc. it is difficult to stay in that state. and then there is confusion, but the evolution is fast. 4 months ago all the mental space was much dirtier. 8 months ago, there was suffering, fear and rumination thoughts, 2 years ago, my mind was bit a hell and if i were alone a couple of hours i got full of hate. it is a process of tendency towards a clean mind, which seems quite fast

Your subjective meaning of life leads you to the depression. you are conditioning your happiness to other people's attitude towards you. this is a guarantee of disaster, of having an unhappy life. you must dig in and change your priorities. The reality is that everything you need is within you. It is not easy to get to this completely, but you have to try to get close. you voluntarily tend to the opposite extreme. disaster guarantee

The energy pattern that forms your apparent being, the person you are, has specific characteristics. This pattern changes as your life goes by. reincarnation would be the restart of the resulting pattern after the course of your life. many traditions and many mystics have spoken of reincarnation, I think we should to have an open mind to it

so that when the woman is pregnant you continue to bring food to the bonfire. and to keep the family together while the children need constant care. otherwise the specie would not have come out ahead

Could be. but it is not that the alternative is worse, it is that it is inconsistent, false. cannot be maintained. so the truth is the only option, and if the ego doesn't like it, it will have to adapt

The thing is: i want the truth, not because it's good or bad, but because it's the truth, and I'm going to take it whatever it is. If I don't like it, the problem isn't the truth, it's me. I have to bend myself as not to feel disgust for the truth, I am subordinate to the truth, not the truth to me. So, I want to open up to the truth, whatever it is

China is a great economic power. but its cultural thrust is zero. If China wakes up as a civilization, as a culture, and has something to contribute to humanity, welcome. for now it doesn't seem like it

Yes. Anyone who wants to continue in the normal human condition must constantly use avoidance and evasion mechanisms. if he were honest with himself, his natural state would be deep depression.

there are people who need to suck the energy of others to feel good. they don't realize it, they just act. They usually have low self-esteem. That guy looks like he was trying to get over you, I guess because he sensed he could. you always have to stop people who try that, so you create a pattern and you get the vibration that you are not someone who can do this with. if you allow it, the vibe will be that. so you have to deal with it. next time you say: hey, do you mind stopping touching me? and that's it . always direct, and always err by excess than by default. in the end it becomes a pattern and it comes out automatically

If you are valuing people for the content of their ego-mind. that means you are focused on your ego-mind. when you deal with people try to capture their essence, their vibration. do not judge if what they say is correct or not. if you want to hear advanced things watch videos or read books, but in dealing with people you have to capture their totality. there are transparent and honest people, beautiful inside, who vibrate with an energy that i like, others are false , or sad, others boastful, but the content of what they say is the least important.

@Nilsi hey you're starting to be irritating. you obviously have nothing to say. I am delighted to contrast opinions, to discuss with those who think differently, I even accept being called a fake and trying to prove it, but I am not going to waste my time with your nursery school idiocies, so from now on, either you say something with some sense, or I do not answer you

Man, i expected more, even from you

that's what I said before that make you be so indignant. begins to dissect. Say where the fake is. let's see if you leave me in evidence

Ah no? Are you sure? Still waiting for some positive input from you. But not anything that you have learned from any zen master who teach you meditation or like that. Some direct experience please. It's obvious that you think I'm a fake because you can't understand what I'm talking about. If I'm wrong, please, dismantles my arguments, shows where I am deceived, or deceiving others. but it is not enough to say: you are an idiot. You have to be a little more specific. I'm waiting

Common sense is great for what you use to talk, for the things you say about improving society, people's lives, the environment, but that's not what it's about here. this is about the truth. not of the truth to live better, or whatever. the truth because it is the truth.

maybe it's that you're far from understanding. consider that possibility

I'm still waiting for some input from you

I didn't preach construction.... anyway, he started a tread asking for opinions, and that's mine

In any moment you have to do, if you are in this work

I think that his ego is so heavy that it needs a bomb. I think that because i feel identify. You fall again and again in that patterns because you are enjailed in your mind. It's like a trap and it's almost impossible to scape. All your mental tricks to try to get free gets you more deeply in the jail, because you are trying to scape constructing more walls

@Someone here you do not understand, the same as @Nilsi . your ego is a solid energy pattern. you can give millions of mental laps that you are not going to break it. hardly anyone can ,and they live with it. other people, like you, can't. as neo in matrix, there is something that does not fit. people like nils will tell you their love stories and such without having the remotest idea that it is reality, what they are, but they have read some books, they study zen or whatever, and they have the need to believe that they already have. look at their posts. say something? zero. their problem has no solution, since they think they already have it, yours does, since you understand everything, but you cannot break the barrier that you are yourself. it is impossible! seriously, you're not ramana maharishi, neither am i, nor almost anyone. the barrier is steel, and it's you. The Indian thing is an excuse...if you want it, anyone sends you a letter, although I shouldn't say this, it's obvious. drugs are not to show you the truth, they are to show you the lie. the lie is you

Yeah Osho said, there is no goal in life, life is the goal itself. But the question is not what is the goal in life but why life is. Leo would say if I'm not wrong: to maximize love. But why to maximize love? Well, of course, nobody can give me the answer except myself. Any idea about that is an obstacle.

Do with empty stomach. It's very important . Totally empty, if not you would regret