Breakingthewall

If the container is limitlessness it's not a container, container implies a limit. Then why do you want that they collapse into union if they doesn't exist? Why are you telling me that I'm trapped if there are no distinctions between anything? So, if anyone says anything, you arrive fast without any nuance saying that he's wrong and trapped because he's making distinctions and awakening is unity. Then you make the distinction between being awake or bounded. Can you understand that that's irritating to read again and again?

Then there is something, a limit, that contains the structure. So the container is different than the structure?

Then there is a distinction between being bound up and free?

Where is the distinction that makes you think that all is within? Maybe could be outside? Outside of what? Inside of what? Inside implies outside. Notice that everything that you are saying are mental structures, and for you they are enlightenment

Then why do you said that I'm trapped? Where is the distinction between being trapped and free?

Im making a distinction between false spirituality, that affirm that reality is one but there are falsehood and truth, and distinctions are false while they make distinction between those false distinction and the truth, producing individuals with a flat mind who convince themselves about the falsehood of the reality, placing themselves in a superior position repressing themselves like mormons

Dry, flat and lifeless, exactly like non dualistic spirituality

Yes, you are superior. It's what matters right? That's the real goal of your spirituality. You are a wonderful example of what the op wanted to point. A narcissist. That is what non duality creates

How could be an illusion if there is only unity?

What mind, if there is only unity?

It's very obvious reading you what is your game. I shouldn't answer anymore, it's humiliating to participate

Sure deep sleep is the truth and being awake is falsehood. Go to sleep in the truth then , and stop to repeat non dualistic slogan for escapists

Sorry, now I took my dose of diazepam and I can read you. Lets start again. Tell me , o wise.

Sorry for being rude, you are my non dualistic friend, like a pet who repeat the same lesson, and I love you a lot pet. Don't get angry

Non-dualistic spirituality is simply escapism. It tells you that your human reality is an illusion and that what you are is consciousness; in other words, it tells you that you must create a new mental map and that this is enlightenment. For this, the main tool is Vipassana-style meditation, where you must observe your thoughts, which are maya, and thus identify with the observer, which is empty consciousness, what you truly are. All of this is a mess that only creates spiritual narcissists who are impossible to deal with. It's better to have a drug addict or a workoholic friend than a non-dualist; they are more authentic.

Probably this is the other side of the absolute, the purest, the unlimited without quality. For me it's always with quality, like the unlimited means all the qualities merged, the fact of being is affirmative, it's like brilliant, expansion, glory of being. But probably this could have a part of projection

I believe it's not necessary to break down physically; it's enough to do it mentally. To truly live as if death or catastrophe (for example, a serious illness) could happen in a minute. Which is absolutely true. I didn't, I read some about Ramakrishna time ago and I didn't get it a lot but now thinking about it seems that he's the mystic that really understood the creative power, the positive affirmation that being implies, and the absolute beauty of the form. About Kali, destruction has something like erotic, but I'm the sense of totally giving yourself, like from destruction the new emerges, the pure being in a clean form forged in the pain and fight. Kali steps Shiva because from the absolute, the dance of form always arises, creation without limit, absolutely wild, without control, unfathomable depth from the unlimited vitality of the unlimited abyss manifest itself. Kali is the absolute mystery taking forms, dancing with itself staring you with the face of a demon that hides a god.

To break the shell of the ego, you need, let's say, a special configuration: a tendency toward openness, a desire for surrender, for dissolution, for being one with reality. Even so, it's difficult because the desire to be an individual is always strong. It's very difficult to stop being an individual and become the limitless because you are an individual who wants to be an individual.

Love is just a word that we use to describe a feeling that we have towards something. The point is that this feeling is just being without the restriction of the negative, the preservation. And this feeling is never absolute, it's always "almost". If you open yourself totally to what you are, that is exactly what you are but without restrictions, it's absolute being , unlimited, and it's absolute love, you will say: alleluia! The fucking prodigal son is again at home

Yes it is. If you are open to what being is, it's total, everything. More love than the biggest love that you imagined in your wildest dreams

The matter of love is simple: what we call love is being. As self-preserving (living) entities, we are closed to destruction and open to preservation. What we perceive as preservation, we perceive as connection, being, that is, love. What we perceive as destruction, we do not. This causes our perception to be closed; it's inevitable. If perception is completely open, everything is being, connection, that is, love.

For me the point is that worldly things are the openess. What closes you off isn't the mundane, but fear. Without fear, there is no difference between noise and silence, mundane or divine. Meditation is necessary to break, for a time, the shell that isolates us, but later, it is in action that reality manifests itself. Imo the point is going through the absolute silence , the absence of anything, the total nihilism, to arrive to the total connexion, the perfect dance of creation and destruction, that is the manifestation of the unlimited. That's why I chose Kali as avatar, because the unlimited is always manifested in the form, and is in the form where we are to find ourselves, even that form is pain. Openess at the end means openess of the heart. The heart is the absolute, when the heart is open, emptiness is full because it is. Being is everything, that is what openess means, being open to being, being translate in absolute creative power, and that power is in you and you are in it. It's not silence like tranquil emptiness, it's the absolute glory of the absence of limitations

It's simple, be absolutely selfish. But being absolutely selfish means giving your best, expand your energy, connect with others, taking risks, merge with the whole, giving yourself to the reality. Because anything else is going against yourself.

The angle from which this issue is being approached is wrong. It's not about defining reality as love, but about understanding what we call love. Love is what it means to be alive without barriers. And being alive means being, but in a dual state. Normally, when we talk about love, we refer to the feeling between two beings or realities, which excludes everything that isn't them. This is because we close off our reality in order to survive. We block out everything that is negative for survival, but we open our perceptual field on certain occasions: children, partners, art, etc. Love isn't something special; it's reality without barriers, the unity of being without limits. It's being without closing ourselves off. Being human, closing ourselves off is inevitable. Enlightenment is achieving total openness at certain times. Then you realize that what you are in essence is unlimited being, and what that being implies. Implies everything, and you could call it unlimited love, or call love the fact of being

It's not that he's right or wrong, it's that he never opened the door to the totality in his life and thinks enlightenment is "this." So if someone asks him about, let's say, "mystical" things, he responds with superiority, saying that it's all emotional nonsense. Or if you ask him about psychedelics, he dismisses them because he took LSD when he was 18, so he already knows everything. It's like a blind man saying that sight doesn't exist, and all those who claim to see are just naive children deceived by some guru. It's very easy to see that he's closed due a heavy ego that is attached to the mind thinking that this is the no mind