Tangerinedream

Yes surrendering. to me ‘submitting’ is being controlled and complying, obeying authority, conforming. I think a person who wants this has psychological trauma, or it’s simply all they know, and venturing beyond that would be frightening, so they would rather submit than habe personal freedom. A woman being submissive is outdated. It’s giving away your power.

The idea of the feminine being submissive was created through repression. Through 1000s of years of feminine repression, they became submissive as a bi-product. A wild and untamed feminine is seen as a threat. the feminine submits during sex aka gives the body to be penetrated. Submissive in that regard yes. But submissive personality is what the shadow masculine also wants. true feminine is free and flowing and not to be repressed

it depends on the people and what they feel more hurt by. it also depends to what degree the emotional cheating is. there is chatting with a friend and then there is having feelings for someone and being more deep with them. usually anyone having an emotional affair will eventually lead to something physical regardless of man or woman. if emotions are involved it just means it's more "serious" for example getting drunk and sleeping with someone who you just met Vs having deep feelings for someone else outside of the relationship and forming a connection over a long time eventually leading to sex and affair.

Yeah pandemic life is hard. That’s why it’s important to have a few quality friends in your life, and I’m not talking about dating. I hadn’t been to meet friends since before November. Last night we met and had a great time, just the human connection, dancing and talking lifted me right up ? all I see on the forum is talk about how to sleep with whoever, but nobody is ever talking about making meaningful friendship connections. Just time with people who you can be yourself without worrying about ‘am I good enough for this girl/boy?’

Just a friendly reminder to go out and experience real life relationships... ❤️ ... too much theory and and overthinking doesn’t make up for ‘real’ life experiences. Go out and make new friends, attend parties, create a social circle. get off the forum, get off social media and go live your life. you are young, these are the good times in your life, so put on a smile and it will be alright...

It’s a common occurrence. Had the boy been drinking or taking drugs?

Tonight I went to meet with a few friends for the first time in a long time because of corona. I am high on life and forgot how good time with friends can be. ❤️.

Leo is looking very thin in the latest blog video It’s concerning... these extreme fasts and diets are bordering on anorexia Leo even reported in the video that he couldn’t manage to work and could barely stand up, and that he was so hungry the entire time. Please people be careful when following these extreme diets and starving yourself!! becoming so obsessive and having it consume your life is not good.

I understand the wearing a mask, keep distance etc. But what I can’t understand is the half lockdowns and rules that change every week. I am also in Germany, and everyone is really tired of this. Do a full hardcore lockdown or allow places to open with restrictions. First they allow only hairdressers to open, (which to me makes no sense in the beginning since it’s close contact to the body, as if hairdressers are front line workers) They banned the use of fabric masks and say you can only wear surgical masks or FFP2 masks. So, citizens rush to buy the new disposable masks... One of the ministers complains that nobody is using the testing centres and that they are empty. 1 week later the rules change again and now you must show a negative corona test to go to the hairdresser, or to go in a ‘non essential’ shop. But to go in supermarkets or pharmacies etc. No test is needed! My hairdresser friend had 80% of the customers cancel after the new test rule. All the workers are back on ‘furlough’ Now all workers must be tested 1 or 2 times per week. Self tests are available for purchase between 5-20€... but - they are very inaccurate, and they aren’t valid for entry into shops anymore... so wtf is the point of them? now all the test centres are packed out, you can’t get an appointment and everyone is more stressed. Then they decide this week that surgical masks are banned and you must wear only an FFP2 mask. (people need to buy more new masks) there is talk of a full lockdown again on the horizon, and this would be better than these half lockdowns. But it won’t happen because people can’t stay home, as we see 1 year later. people are out in the streets and parks, mixing in groups, but you can’t go to the gym? When the sun is shining herds of people are meeting without masks, yet I must show a negative corona test to go for a haircut when the man/woman is wearing a mask and disinfecting all of the tools. They keep making it more strict and adding more rules, people can’t keep up and end up rebelling and stop caring

Hmm yes I’m the same tbh. I find these days it’s hard to form friendships, because they need just as much connection really. I found people to be very flakey, not commit to plans. It would make it very difficult to form a friendship with someone when they can’t make a plan with you 2 weeks into the future! Luckily I am quite close with my 2 sisters, we talk all the time. Then I have 2 good friends. friendships take effort and time to build, and both people have to do it. Most people don’t want to make effort.

@flowboy @StarStruck I can see how it might be more difficult during the lockdown, especially when it’s freezing cold and people are wearing masks. This will change as it gets warmer so more people will be hanging around outside. It comes down to having confidence to talk to somebody. I can understand it’s hard for single people right now. Starstruck, forget tinder, it’s really shallow and messes with people’s self esteem, same as Instagram. Maybe focus on making some new friends who you can hang out with, rather than just dating. Maybe join a fitness group or something? People are doing fitness groups outside during the lockdown.

100% agree. It was through my most toxic relationships that I was forced to face myself. It was easier for me to blame the other person, but I was just as much to blame. Doesn’t have to be a romantic relationship can also be a friendship that triggers you. One of my best girl friends and I, had many arguments in the beginning. She would confront me and I would defend myself In return. Her issue was needing to control everything, my issue was being closed off and avoidant. This would create a clash. We worked through it and came out as stronger friends because of it.

I’m sorry you are going through this and feeling isolated. Do you have some friends you can connect with? I am also in Europe and the lockdown is never ending, hopefully things will get better as summer approaches.

There should be no image in your mind of what you want the person to look like. Only think about traits and how loving they will be. When picturing who you want to meet, picture no face and no age. Only energies. It’s like trying to see someone’s face in a dream. Do the hard emotional labour and you will meet your dream girl eventually ❤️

The way I see it is you find a conscious partner by going through emotional hell, fall in to the pits of despair because you looked so hard at yourself. then get out in the real world, travel and live your life and the universe will bless you with your equal... which by this point you won’t even be searching they will just show up, and probably in the form of someone you never expected.

see, searching for a perfect person. Everyone is trying to find the right person, but nobody is trying to be the right person.

Because everyone is searching for a ‘perfect’ person. Sorry but no human is perfect and people age no matter what. everyone is so busy searching they don’t appreciate what they have in the moment.

Then you should go against societal norms. Maybe get out of that town?

You think you will be enlightened and still thinking about your selfish needs? how about meeting a partner who you actually care about for who they are? instead of just a womb to be impregnated so You can get your ‘family’