Hi. I live in Poland.. People here are really closed to each other, if they go to a party (nightclubs), they mostly do that in small group of friends. Making new friends at the party hardly ever happens. I go out partying a lot too, however sometimes i go alone (when none of my friends are able to go too). I've been single for some time, and of course I was thinking about meeting someone, but picking up a girl in the club is something that I still find very intrusive (yes, I had bad experiences in the past when I really liked someone, and the girl didn't find any interest in me). So I thought that maybe someday someone will just approach me at the bar or at the dance floor and say "Hi, how are you?" or something like that, but it never happened. I always dress good, and I feel at ease at the party, I dance a lot, and I'm not sitting in the corner. I'm really opened towards people and I know how to make a good conversation.
I visit my family abroad every year (western europe). I noticed that people there are more opened to each other. Maybe girls are also more confident in picking up guys at the parties there and in other western countries than in Poland? What do you think? Had girls flirted with you at the clubs?
P.S. I think that the issue here in Poland might be cultural, girls might think like "Men must fight for me, I don't need to do anything"
Cheers
