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Overall Disorganized/Fearful Avoidant Got fearful-avoidant for both my parents, but got secure for my partner.

@Leo Gura So not because of physical or neurological changes in the ear but rather from the subjective experiential increase in awareness? I have always been able to see the "vision tinnitus" easily - the little pixel like dots that are visible as part of your visual field when you focus on them, wonder if there is a correlation.

@somegirl Ofc that's always my main focus. May I ask what the other thing you could think about would be? Thanks for the input folks. To bridge the gap between differing opinions a little, I think we can all agree on that the point is for me to give her the best experience possible

@Leo Gura Spot on what I am feeling.

@Leo Gura Ok, thanks for the tips. Let me point out, she doesn't seem particularly sexually repressed. She is comfortable with dirty talk, touching me, going down on me and has had many sexual partners in the past.

If so, you have any tips on what might be some good steps to take?

Thanks for the input guys. Some additional points: The relationship overall is good. We both love each other a lot. The sex over all is actually good as well with us connecting well emotionally and enjoying it. The thing about stressing out over orgasm count can def be a real issue but not really something I'm doing when sleeing with her. If I did, I would have been stressing out about it every night for months on end. Still, it doesn't feel right that she is not getting to cum. She is often at work until really late (9-10 hours sometimes) and stresses out about it a lot. Also I noticed she currently has no regular activities or social circles except from hanging with me, in the new city we live in. Could that be the problem? I haven't talked to her about this because I don't want to put pressure on her, and because the sex overall is still good. Thanks.

@Leo Gura how common is this type of medium level infidelity among GFs? Should I worry about it?

Is there a causal relationship there? / Musician with mild tinnitus

@Leo Gura To me this advice seems to be lacking the prospect of possibly killing your social status in school during the learning process. I think one should tread more carefully when doing these things in a school or work environment.

Just start taking notes and structure them, with time it will sort itself gradually. I write down important ideas and observations day by day in my iPhone. 1-2 times per month I re-read, copy-paste and structure them into Microsoft OneNote. Through this process I automatically observe new patterns and make more distinct note taking-categories and get overview of where my life is headed. This habit automatically puts my life in the right direction and also generates solutions to all my problems and hangups.

Thanks a lot!

I am looking to get into Erotic Hypnosis, performing it on/with a girl I am seeing. Maybe somebody has some experience or knowledge to share?:)

@Leo Gura It is disgusting to see the closedmindedness and dogma among reputable scientists regarding this matter. I'm even saving some debunk and skepticism footage for future reference, as a coming showcase in how resistance to new scientific paradigms manifests.

@Leo Gura Love this one.

Finally a scientist who is able to think epistimologically. Although there is a somewhat positive correlation between brain size and degree consciousness, I would be interested to hear how he motivates that considering he is saying that the brain limits consciousness rather than creates is.

Kinda like saying life is harder for wealthy people.

It is not too late, and acting can teach you a lot about yourself (I'm actually doing a lot of improv teather for that reason). Best of luck if you wish to pursue it!

@Hardkill Look up Lue Elizondo man, if you don't reconsider then I don't know what.

This is insane - ever since the first video with Lue Elizondo from 2017 I have been following this topic. It's remarkable.

I am going to travel asap after vaccination. I have been kind of isolating myself working on my life purpose the last 5-7 years. I want to meet new people, adventure, date people and basically get the most of the 20-something-year-old lifestyle that I can. My plan is to also work from my computer 2-3 hours a day when away, as I currently have the opportunity to make money that way. I want to catch up with the life experience some of my peers seem to have gotten "for free" when partying at college, etc. What are you tips for going about doing this? I want to really explore/develop my social aspects fully. I'm thinking of volunteering at workaway. I love to know if anyone has some good tips for how to get an adventure while doing this. <3

I did this, practicing 3 hours a day for its own sake thinking "If I practice 3 hours a day no matter what, nothing can stop me". I got mad chops but I still realize how inefficient I was. To me I learn quicker when indulging in a genuinely inspiring project - with a clear, motivating end vision. Tracking hours gets toxic and can't compete with genuine inspiration and holistic pursuit.

Honestly this comment is profound.

@GreenLight Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is what you are looking for, look into it. Fits perfectly with self actualization, and is highly highly effective self defense.

I don't take Omega 3 tablets because of the risk for heavy metal contamination. I avoid fish for the same reason. @Leo Gura How do you get enough Omega 3, and the correct ratio between the different types of it?