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@NoSelfSelf What do you mean? Doesn't being funny bring joyful, lighthearted atmosphere in our relationship? Doesn't knowing what I want out of life career-wise indicate what type of person I am? Doesn't being open-minded bring some kind of non-judgmental attitude I offer? What should a girl offer to a guy, in your opinion, besides looks? If looks is all girls should offer, I strongly disagree with it.

How is there asymmetry? Not all of them. I have started this process a while ago. Though even when I uncover hidden core limiting beliefs of mine, what do I do with it? How do I change it?

@Leo Gura Got it. Thanks. It's true that you can pretty much meet amazing people anywhere. Just gotta somehow attract them. Lots of things have to match up. I tried online dating before and I absolutely hated it. I don't know how much I am open for it again. Even though it's more convinient and easy, guys online are something different lol. Most of them were not the ones I find attractive at all, and some of them were just simply behaving creepy when I was open enough to go out with them and meet them face-to-face. This is through instagram. I even once installed Tinder out of curiosity and went out with two guys from there and yeah, they were not serious.

@Raphael Omg the guy I've been waiting for, DM me!

@Leo Gura Makes sense, lately all the friends I made were girls. Though honestly, I don't see people in my life that met a lot of guys and then found the one. It usually kind od happens on a first/second try for them. Besides that, where do you think high quality people are hiding? I hoped university would be the best place to meet such people but Corona had other plans. Might join some social organisations for young people if anything.

@Jacob Morres I have to find him physically attractive, max 5 years older than me, has to be a student or if he is not then he has to be doing something in his life that brings him joy or is at least ambitious, eloquent, good communicator, understanding and considerate, funny but knows when to be serious, open-minded to deep spiritual topics. Because only when he's open minded, can we do self-development together.

Tf...

If you have trouble with eye contact, try saying inside your mind (as if you're talking to her) something self-comforting ("I am handsome, that's why you're looking at me"). Don't say it out loud, just think it while holding eye contact. Or think of someone you find attractive while holding eye contact. I used to think of a crush while my friend was taking photos of me and I always managed to create that attractive/sexy eye contact with camera. It works.

A joke so unfunny and stupid that it becomes funny.

@Yulduz I can relate to you in a way that you have a hard time setting boundaries and being afraid not to upset a guy for having your needs. You have to work on that. It's so important to feel comfortable expressing yourself freely. This guy is done. He wants to make you his world which is not a trait in a guy you're looking for. Nor is it a healthy one. He isn't grounded by himself and needs someone else to fulfill him. My ex was like that, and I felt also uncomfortable as you do now. It's extremely bad to put that kind of pressure on anyone. Noone is responsible for their happiness, only they are. So don't believe this bs. You can just be open and write everything that is on your mind. That should be enough. After that just block him and enjoy your amazing life.

Yeah, still having problems loading the page on the phone. Less so on the computer, but it's still bad.

@Emotionalmosquito exactly. I think it's so hard for us to understand because we're naturally biased. We like pleasure over pain. Whereas (and I didn't have direct experience of God) God loves everything equally.

@mandyjw Oh, my misunderstanding. All good!

@Roy Good one

@mandyjw Aha. Well, no need for those type of reactions, I didn't know. I just sometimes see some people just repeating what Leo is saying, and it makes me think they don't actually believe it, they just adopt what he's saying. That's all. Thanks. @Arcangelo I see. Sorry! The same answer could be applied here as well.

@mandyjw ?

@Arcangelo you're just parroting Leo's words, without you actually experiencing it. I wanna know from your point of view what is true. Not what someone else would say.

I don't know who in their right mind would want to experience that. Or wished to experience that.

@PurpleTree Imagine being in a position where you can control basically anything and anyone and you don't use that opportunity to make millions with little to no effort? Why grind and suffer in life when you can make your life be on easy-mode? Only a person with strong and high integrity and high consciousness wouldn't abuse their position. Which is basically not so many people. And plus such people wouldn't even want to be politicians in the first place.

I would have been more shocked if politicians didn't make 100s of millions of dollars. That would have been news.

It would've been weird if this wasn't true. I don't get why people are surprised. People are selfish. Anyone in their place would abuse their position of power to their benefit. With as little effort as they can possibly get away with. Come on...

I mean... It gets difficult yeah, but there are examples of famous women in today's society that are 40+ and look stunning. And are still desirable by other people.

I don't know how and when I chose the life/body/family and this whole experience that I have today. I don't complain too much, it just intrigues me that I somehow chose all of this.

How? God knew what creating certain things would entail. Creating one human being weaker than the other would entail that they would be more vulnerable and receptive to harm.

Do men have natural need to overpower/dominate women?