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Do you also want him to help you lift your pinky finger? Jk, but if he said to do work, then I would guess the answer to what one can do is just that. I know it's hard. But everything else is an excuse.

@Leo Gura Well I appreciate your work and the fact that you're answering people's questions and comments (which is super cool because you absolutely don't need to do that/don't have anything from it (I think)) and I also wouldn't like it to be shut down.

The time has come for them to see the light of the day ?

Damn, I wouldn't have the audacity to ask my bf for material stuff. Either he genuinely wants to buy me stuff himself, or not. But tbh, a gift, or a flower, or any other sign of appreciation here and there, would feel nice, ngl. At least I would see that I'm not taken for granted. But yeah, she might indeed not be hinting you to buy her coat. Idk. Only time will tell. But if it turns out she was on fact hinting you to buy her a coat, given you don't know each other yet, is a red flag. ? But don't be too paranoid, see with the time.

Happy birthday!

And why does younger guys rarely approach said women? Does it have to do with a girl (like she maybe gives off some type of (mature) vibe that is attractive to older guys, and not younger ones) or does it have to do with guys, as in, younger guys are more scared and embarrassed to approach girls their age, whereas older ones are more bold? I don't know but it kinda insults me when someone who is 10+ years older than me approaches me.

Yeah, kinda sad lol. She could have just disappeared and never showed that intimate side of her ever. But then she gave in and made such videos, aka chose the path with least resistance, that are now on the internet forever...

No, for doing porn. I think they have made memes out of her newborn child, like: "poor child, his mother's nudes are all over internet", "he's gonna get bullied in school when he grows up","that child better be home-schooled",etc... But why are they not making same comments for Bella? She also has nude photos of herself all over internet, forever. I'm not saying that is a wrong thing to do, but that has some consequences.

Wait why are people praising her that she made a bag and left? They are saying that she was a smart troll and making money our of it. But then I saw that she was filming herself getting... You know. So how is that smart? She was making easy money out of porn, and that is smart now? I know Lana Rhoades was doing the same but she was shamed for it. I am genuengly confused, if someone cares to explain?

Hahah maybe, I understand. I also understand why someone might hold such beliefs as well. We have to take into account the history that has treated women like a property and basically just a thing that only produces kids. (this is also my theory as to why we see more aggressive/masculine women nowadays, especially on the west, earning more money, being more ambitious etc...). Times are thankfully changing now and guys are following as well.

@Loba Girl, I am all for girl power and supporting each other, but so far by the comments I have seen, you might be holding some extreme negative beliefs about men. We're not here to argue that ALL men are bad, but we question certain stuff and get answers from opposite sex so we can better understand them. Though that's okay, I'm not perfect either, this is why we're on this site after all - to improve.

@Raptorsin7 Well I refuse to be told what my value as a female is and how it increases or decreases with age. I define my own value, thank you.

@PepperBlossoms Caring and considerate (high emotional intelligence), leadership, protection, open minded, humour (but knows when to be serious), passion, physical attraction, knows how to flirt. Man these are the best qualities.

Did it ever bother you? Seems like you're a catch to more experienced ladies hahah

I actually do not want to have negative beliefs about this topic. And I mostly have positive experiences (I don't hold extreme negative beliefs at all) and wonderful male friends. But I just don't get intentions of much older guys... Why do they approach much younger girls? (apart from looks) What is wrong with girls their own age, or girls around their age range? Why they have a need to be with someone with much less experience than them? That obviously creates an imbalance in power and dynamics. He has more advantage than her in this case. He can easily use his accumulated knowledge and sell her any kinds of stories (because he knows that she doesn't know better because of her lack of experience), only if he wants to. And he has to be a saint not to do that.

I didn't get approached by younger men so far. Or at least they didn't let me know they like me, even if they do. Though I wasn't talking about girl being older than a guy. I was talking about guys who are SAME age as girl, who do not approach said girl.. I mean... They are the same age, it's not like they are so much out of their league to be scared to approach.

@Preety_India I think you have made your point by the second paragraph. Glad you're owning up to your own dating life as well. Happy for you.

Omg you're right. Then I'm offended! ?

Right? ?

100th comment.

Well I'm working on not being bitter. But first step to change is admitting that you are.

I also thought he was younger by the way he talked lol. Yes... So true. Thank you.

True true, but he was using "I am older and therefore more experienced, I know what I'm talking about, you can trust me" card. But yeah...

@Federico del pueblo I have had ex who told me sex without condom is not something that should concern me (he knew I was so scared of becoming pregnant) because he is good at "pull out" game, so pregnancy wouldn't happen. He told me his exes never got pregnant and they didn't use protection either (but he failed to mention that those girls have used birth control too). He suggested I could trust him because he is more experienced and therefore knows what he's talking about. But everyone around me kept telling me that withdrawal method is not good if you don't want to be pregnant. So I was conflicted. And I was 20 and thought I could trust him to know better for my own sake, considering how vulnerable and inexperienced I was. This is why I might be a bit bitter.

Maybe I have this belief because of this.