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@Roy She obviously thought she was secure and "cool" about it, but in the end realized she is not. Continue doing and watching what you were warching, I guess that's normal and natural, just make sure that she doesn't have a reason to doubt yout love and devotion for her. All she cares about is that you absolutely adore her physically and as a person. When girls get angry and insecure about their bfs watching porn, most of the time it's because they doubt their love for them. They interpret it like by you watching porn it means that you have lost attraction/love for her so you're doing these kind of things. We just like to get assured over and over again that we're desired by you.

@Federico del pueblo I have diligently studied and analyzed every fap post out of 103628194 of them and now I'm writing a book regarding this important subject that every guy needs to read - Interconnection between enlightenment and fapping (limited edition). ?

Yes, I have made it my morning routine, apart from skin care. ???

This is like 1063728th post about fapping/non fapping and everything in between.

On point ?

I totally agree... But now that I think about it, imagine your very basic human need to feel safe, being in danger. You probably don't care about anything other than to survive. Usually when there's a threat to your basic human survival, people regress.

To be fair... If my life was on the line like it is in Ukraine now, it probably wouldn't even cross my mind to understand the agressor. I would be so damn pissed/scared and would just try to survive.

@Blackhawk You have like 0 willingness to understand situation on a holistic level and refuse to see someone else's perspective and just double down even when someone points out your obvious bias. We all have biases we might not be aware of, but at least we can try to be aware of them and not let them cloud our judgement too much. I don't know why someone even tries to explain to you the bigger picture cause even when it's elaborated well to you, you still stubbornly refuse to try to understand and just lazily say "Well he's a demon, end of the story." At this point it is obvious even to you that you're just here to plead your bias towards West* and have no interest in changing your beliefs whatsoever.

What are you scared you will manifest, as a result of letting your laziness/indecisivness and bad habits take over your life, or as a result of failing to define and pursue your goals? Can you vividly imagine that miserable and painful life you're running away from, the absolute worst case scenario? Or maybe you know about few people who have made bad decisions/lack thereof who have made their life an absolute hell on earth. Share a story if you know of such cases.

Sounds pretty terrible. But since you're conscious what you don't want, based on this you can focus your energy on avoiding this at all costs and towards the path you want to be on.

Agree. I have two friends that do not go out often (almost never) and just spend time hiding in their house and avoid any social events, especially when there are new people there, and it kinda makes me sad that they've literally wasting their time away. It's like they have already turned 50. Also agree. But what you if you genuengly cannot find someone for that, even though you want to and are socializing? I was also thinking about that and I'm slighly irritated that I'm unable to get attracted to just anyone, I'm very specific in that sense. I need to be very comfortable with a person and to find them physically appealing, which doesn't happen often. Do you have the same problem?

Oof, this hit home, lol. I don't know if you meant it in this way, but I kinda fear merrying the wrong person and then having kids with someone very bad and then being tied down by them for the rest of my life. I mean, yes, there are coparents and that works, but you have to be very careful who you're deciding to have children with. Or it can make your life a hell (I'm just now remembering some stories regarding this). Same. This is why I don't dive too deep into spirituality. I can do maybe some stuff, but I don't know if I want to go too deep. At least now I'm not ready. It can be dangerious. Maybe in the furture. For now it's good that we focus on taking care of material stuff first.

How would you waste your youth? What would you consider a wasted time?

The fact that you're making effort to be open-minded tells me that you most likely won't end up in that situation. But of course, you have to be self-conscious enough to see your own biases, bad habits, arrogancy etc. What is the dealine you are giving yourself to achieve what you want? Good motivation Yes, though it can also be helpful to imagine what would happen if you don't take action towards goals you want. Yes, it's negative motivation, but some people work better under pressure lol

@Aleister Crowleyy Oh, why do you think they took it down?

@Aleister Crowleyy What's on your pfp?

I think I have one person on this forum who inspires me kinda. In a specal way. Very different than anybody else. It's pretty cool what I feel just by seeing how they express themselves. It is so similar to me. It motivates me to be who I am as well, in a weird way. I don't know how it works exactly, but I know it does something. Won't reveal gender nor where they are from.

Yeah we're supposed to be enemies, you forgot ?

The reason would be...?

@Aleister Crowleyy As you can see, it's not anymore ?

You could maybe try that technique in different settings, like on a bed with a girl you like. ? It could be more effective. Jokes on you, today I am very happy and nothing can ruin it.

Which in translation means - being choosy. Not EVERYTHING has life altering consequences. Getting pregnant though, is pretty life altering. You know what? Have a nice day. You seem pretty aggressive and bitter.

Well for my personally, I wouldn't be content with being given only physical approval. I want commitment and respect. I want to be seen as a girlfriend, not sex object. This is why it hurt when all they see in me is physical potential. I have so much more to offer. How do you classify people? Based on what? Are you saying that it's possible for a guy to change his mind after already classifying someone as sex object?

@Aleister Crowleyy If you had an ability to be pregnant because you had sex, you'd be pretty damn choosy too.