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So she doesn't want to be your girlfriend. Anything other than an enthusiastic Yes is a No. If she truly wanted to be with you, why would she risk losing you by experimenting with other guys beforehand. Does she think you will always be available for her, and will always wait for her, once she runs out of options? F that. This also has to do with your self-respect. Why would you allow someone to treat you as an option?

@patricknotstar To get you to stop talking to her. Because once you get her number, you're satisfied, and so you leave her alone lol. It can also be that she doesn't want to tell you No (scared of your reaction, because you're literally a stranger to her), so to be polite she gives you her number.

Good luck finding gals who would be willing to put up with that kind of dynamic. They certainly won't be okay finding out they are not the only ones a guy is sleeping with.

@Identity Nothing is lost. What is meant for you will find a way back to you. See if you can maybe go back there... Or just drop it, if she doesn't appear again. Someone else will come. Whoever comes will be perfect for you.

I feel like there were no real changes, at least ones I wanted the most. There were several "coincidences" (serendipity) but in the end of the day... Not something I would scream out loud with a smile on my face "This works exactly how I want it to!". Maybe I'm just negative. Maybe I'm just impatient. Maybe I just don't have faith in the universe. My ego is fragile. It's so vulnerable. Why am I like this. I take everything so personally. I don't want to anymore. It's so tiring. It's exhausting. I want to be different than how I already am. ✅ I want to take life less seriously. ✅ I want to not take anything personally, because what people do is a reflection of them, not how I am. ✅ I want to be able to control my life more. The way it is now is so... Random. Not really THAT random, but... I want to have more control over it. It makes life interesting. ✅ I want to be happy. I want my default mood to be happy. ✅I want to heal my spirit and eliminate my limiting beliefs by etf tapping. ✅S thinks of me. ✅We were about to meet, soon. I think I get seriously triggered when someone insinuates that I am stupid. It triggers me because deep down I think I kinda am. This is freaking sad. I don't know where this belief came from. But I noticed it long time ago. I just get triggered, I start sweating, and my mood goes downhill. I start getting mad and want to prove them I am not stupid. This is ridiculous. ✅I want to change my limiting belief that I am stupid.

@Identity Then what exactly is holding you back? By the sounds of it, you have had several occasions where you were met with girls of your taste, who seemingly saw something in you too (like that girl with mismerizing eyes). Why not contact her after that, for example?

@Identity So you're craving for connection, but do not want anything serious/relationship?

@Someone here Would like to have a child before I am 30. I am still not 100% sure about child thing, but if/when I will be ready, that would be my ideal. I think why I was hesitant to have a child is because I saw so many bad examples of how parents messed up their children. I think it should be forbidden by law to have a child unless you are mentally and emotionally stable, I really believe that. Also I don't like how irresponsible some people are - they just get together to have a child and then as soon as a child is born, father leaves... That makes me so mad. They bring a child into a broken family and they mess up that child's life before it even began. And I see it all the time. I wouldn't want that. Having the right partner is freaking crucial. This is why I am so picky.

This actually makes me believe my manifestation is coming soon. Also, it tells me that I don't need to worry or doubt myself. Everything I want also wants me. Maybe more.

Yes. This sounds awesome. ++1

I also had an amazing time in university today. I was having a practice actually. I just felt fulfilled after that. It's amazing. It didn't even bother me that I was there longer than I should have been. I loved it. I also found one guy there pretty intriguing, he seems cool and has his own way of behaving and he just stands out. He's very interesting and cool actually. I love loved everything that happened today. I'm so grateful.

Omg... This is amazing. One guy just randomly came up to me as I was walking home (normal looking guy, my age), and asked me if I have ever been with a shy guy. I was taken aback so I asked "What is that question?" and laughed cause I needed to process what just happened. And then I answered "Not really" and he was like "Well this is your chance to be with one. Would you take me out for a coffee?". And I was like "ME take you out for a coffee?" implying that it's weird that I would want to take a guy who asked ME that question initially. And he quickly corrected himself by saying "Well I can take you out actually" and... Well, I said I was taken. lol God this never happened to me. Well, it actually did once but this is like enxt level... I was literally just walking, I wasn't standing so he could saw a chance to approach me. I was walking very fast and (in my opinion) seemed like I was rushing. But well, I'm grateful. He seemed like an okay guy, I sensed his energy and he didn't seem like he had bad intentions.

It's extremely cringy to hold wrong stance regarding certain topics, and knowing you're wrong, but not admitting it because "that would mean I am too nice and weak". It's extremely cringy to me. There's nothing noble in hurting people (offending them in this case) intentionally just to show off how assertive and "not nice" you are. It comes off very wrong. Because it doesn't come from a good place. I've had a friend who intentionally disagreed with me on most of the topics (even some that I thought he would agree on) just to "train his assertiveness" on me. Ugh, so so freaking cringy. There's other ways of doing this. You can for sure be nice and assertive. There is no black and white in life. You probably decided to be like this because you figured being "too nice" leads to all sorts of nasty stuff. I know, cause I've been there. But we have to realize... We weren't nice (or people pleasing) because we truly wanted to be, but because we wanted something in return. It was not an authentic expression of ourselves. People saw through that. Now you don't have swing to the other side of the pendulum just so you can show others how they can't treat you how they used to. The art is knowing when to be a little more assertive, and when to be nice. Nice doesn't equal people pleasing. If things were that black and white and simple in life, we wouldn't be having most of the problems we have today. Don't let the world turn your heart into a stone.

I love Gigi Hadid style. Love love love. ✅ I want to create something that is inspired by her sense of fashion. Elegant style but with strong accents of color or pattern here and there. Creates perfect balance. It just goes together. So chic. She also reminds me of myself. She also has chubby cheeks, doesn't have very prominent cheek bones. But is still beautiful and unique because she doesn't look like every other model with snached cheek bones. Boring.

I got "fired" from this organization for not being active and productive enough. The funny thing is... I actually wanted this to happen. *I manifested this! I was talking to my mom about wanting to leave this organization because I'm so disappointed with everything, and then... Poof, it happened. I am happy and relieved that I'm out of there. For the longest time I've been wanting to leave. Now I can focus on things I actually love.

✅ I want to be famous. I don't think it's because I was not loved. I was loved. I only have good memories from my childhood. I just feel so good when I receive positive attention. I feel so so good, I don't know what I can compare it to. I just like how some high status people behave I think. They are special in some sense. They are famous for something, usually (I'm not talking looks, I'm talking talent). They have some inspiring energy that I want to radiate too.

If a girl says she wants to sleep with condom on, respect that at any cost. She has given you her condition and you don't cross that boundery in any circumstance (even if you run out of condoms). If a girl says she is not up to having sex, respect that also. Don't try to change her mind because it will only make her more resentful and even if you finally convince her somehow, in the back of your mind you will know she didn't enthusiastically agreed to do it, so sex will therefore suck for you guys. If a girl tells you she doesn't like something you do, stop doing that. It shows you respect what she SAYS.

It indeed is Yeah, absolutely.

To give you guys a picture, this guy gets tons of attention and comments from girls below his videos and photos. He's a musician, insanely hot (has abs, blond messy hair), who has some kind of vlog thing going on too. So he's like "mini social media celebrity" I would say. One day I saw he was playing my favorite song on electric guitar and I decided to comment below without giving it much of a thought. He replied and then later on messaged me. He was very flirty and was mentioning "us" and how we could meet each other. He wanted us to go to one festival together that is held in my city this summer and wants us to buy tickets together. But though he didn't contact me after that. I wonder if it's even worth thinking about getting with him because he probably gets offers left and right by other girls, sometimes girls who are literal tv hosts. I can't imagine me winning over such a big competition, but then again, maybe that's my limiting belief and I could be sabotaging myself thinking this way. Because we ultimately give ourselves value and "league" we think we fall under. What do you think?

What about kissing?

No, you're free to have opinions, sure. I would just be careful of using such strong words that are directed at one person, let alone a whole group of people. I mean, in the end of the day, words like "Slut", "Idiot", B word etc can be harmful to people, they hold some heaviness. There are other ways of expressing one's opinion for sure. That's all.

Well, it is misogynystic view of thinking. Mysoginy is every attempt to put women "in their place" and make them feel bad, degrade them, insult them, for doing what male would be doing (but in men case, minus social judgement). What do we call men who sleep with +40 people? Male slut? Or a chad? Probably the latter.

My looks? What else he could know about me on social media? Social media is for posting photos, therefore that's all he knows about me. When we meet, he will get to know me as a person a little more.

True true. Well tbh, I don't know that. I don't know if he messages other girls and flirts with them all the time, everywhere he goes.

Lol. I literally don't care what people think of zodiac signs. I find it interesting to think about and it has some truth to it, BUT I also take into account the complexity of each individual I meet. I don't base my entire opinion based on someone's sign. I'm not like "Oh you're Sagittarius, we can't work, bye". I mean.... I'm not THAT crazy. ???