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Sure thing ! I feel these few will be enough to get go and to get a taste of this genre, get yourself going with these, see if you like this particular taste or not, then perhaps we will add more. Personally speaking, nothing beats this genre when it comes to contemplation, introspection with music. This music alone takes me to a meditative or yogic state. I love it❣️

Do you Read? Start reading if not, pick good books I mean books which have some key insights about life and are more pragmatic in general, and most importantly let's be more patient, self-criticism is good but only good as long as you are looking for loopholes to make yourself better once you find one, the next important thing is to work I'm not saying make yourself 100% in fulfilling that scarcity but alteast work 50-60% where u start to embody it (a quality), then you might jump onto some other aspect of your life, but key would be to not overdo yourself with a lot of things to work upon try to keep one thing at a time, and yes it's not gonna be easy but sometimes we gotta hold our horses and get a shit done first. That's really good. Also, be more grateful for what you have, what you are, where you live, about yourself, about the food you eat, about the friends you have, about your parents, about brothers and sisters if you got any, about nature, about the breathing process going on when you wake up everyday, about the day and experience you had from the day, contemplate about the things you did in the day, if you got any pet around spend time with them, notice how animals/birds are behaving when it's a sunny day or when it's raining, feel grateful for the essence of this Being in general. Don't judge but just witness at times, tell your sense of judgement to go on hold for sometime maybe for 10 minutes , 15 minutes. See, notice, witness the process of LIFE. See how it goes. READ. READ. READ. Just make it a habit, read good pieces start researching about your interests and read. Stay Blessed.

Can u you please clear the meaning of suffering here, I mean in which context you used it? put light on this. And whatever you mean by suffering is it good or bad to suffer ? I mean are there negatives or positives as per you of suffering ? And if there's any what are they? And if you wanna elaborate pls also tell, as per you does suffering has anything to deal with evolving as a human being ? I'm asking all of this bcoz I can't understand what you meant by suffering here, because for me either it's suffering or joyousness/happiness whatever u consider the opposite both equally stands true existentially so pls clear on this.

@Leo Gura Oh thank-you very much Sir !!!! Have you ever tried listening to Indian Classical Music, I'll say give it a shot, ?

Offcourse not, I'd say there's no constraint to being wise, like you can't say either you are Wise or Not Wise, this term is similar to consciousness, I prefer to say it more conscious or more wise and yes whatever you said is definitely more Wise. Let's keep it to that right now.

I reckon the right thing should be at the right place and at the rt time, if it's missing over here on the forum let me just drop this bay real quick, ?

@MvrsMeanwhile you can read- The Order Of Time by Carlo Rovelli, you will get some juice with some extra sweet pulp, just read.

Yepp, sure thing !! It's fairly alright, and it's normal but don't take it otherwise, and boredom is good at times it's actually the calling that "Bruh time to switch some gears" more conscious gears. The thing with becoming more "Conscious" is that you don't become more conscious either by reading or writing this word, you gotta embody ( more awareness more understanding ) by actual practice, making mistakes over and over again and evaluating every time yet not loosing temper. Start enjoying the process of becoming more Conscious, I can bet you will love it when you'll reflect back on your PROCESS.

@Sandeep Reddy Welp, it's interesting isn't it, and what's more good is that you are conscious of yourself and contemplating about your "addiction". An addiction isn't an addiction until it becomes to feel like it's life and death (generally speaking), I mean food, aren't we addicted to that? offcourse we are but it's the mere perspective and the need attached to it, see ? Just notice this the next time you go for watching a porn or masturbating, Notice the period before doing the activity and just after you finish it,what the heck was it ? And be it whatever, did you like/love that ? And if you did why is it so ? There no point of acting like a victim, you are not alone if you got the D*ck that's all where it begin and all you need. Now when you said, you use it as an escape, so let's just find another escape but this time be more vigilant while finding it find a good ( of higher value) one, it can be some sports activity or some other productive work of your interest where you feel like out of the world and really love doing it, I found Basketball ( when I was 18 ) couple of years back, and I was like fuck all of that- girls, porn, masturbation, does all of that has any value in front of my game ? No wayy, not at all, nothing used to give me more satisfaction than improving in my game every single day, the thoughts like masturbating and watching porn, flirt with girls don't even strike. It was like Fck world sorta feeling for me. So what I will suggest you is to find any productive work or a work of higher value or a Life Purpose whatever you want to call it here but it has to be a more conscious one and productive one through which you grow and evolve, and you will see the difference. Best Wishes. Stay Blessed.

@Thestarguitarist14 Yeah, and I know that's profound experience talkin' rt there, like it's NO bullshit.

@Preety_India Let's think it this way, What's the whole of point of being in a Relationship? Isn't it the case that this very idea of being in a relationship is based upon the foundation of Selfishness. Why I can't live alone? What if in this process of training to be less selfish, you completely lose this idea of being in a relationship at first place ? Will you admit this facet of your being ? Just like you know some mystic living in the Himalayas. Does he think it the same way? How does those people (Yogis) think about selfishness, relationships ??

Yeah true that. Yes, even then I mean look at all these celebs, for us from our POV it may seem like they are lucky or something but nothing comes so easy thru some sort of magic or spell, it boils down to the work you are willing to put. We say oh look at that guy X he's so lucky, but you are not that guy aight, so you don't know what all he did and wht he had to go thru to be where it seems all so lucky to you, maybe he h'd to hustle more than you are hustlin' in yo life, but the most important thing is he fought so that people can label him as "lucky". That's what makes LUCK so juicy because it's the projection of it what we look upto and crave for, it's a way too abstract of a term in my opinion.

@universe Well explained, now I can see the "luck" making more sense to me.Thank-you.

@Thestarguitarist14 Yes you are true about your point, but that's you being experienced by pick up saying, like you know how it works, because you are aware of the trade offs you had to go through, and now you think it's better to work on yourself and then let women chase you. I woulda loved to ask ya 6 months back when you already were living that rock n roll lifestyle ? see ? But look that's near to perfection shit. I saw this Martin Freeman video on YouTube couple of years back where he is saying "Never chase women let the women chase you" that's b.s. When you start working on yourself consciously to evolve this very idea of getting laid with random chicks vanishes automatically imo, Then it becomes a priority to attract a value girl, so a guy who have done some value work on himself will pacify himself to not just fall for anyone and will wait till the right girl clicks, but since he will only resonate with that girl's frequency he was being illuded by this fantasy "He does not chase women" , but see it's not the case , if you want woman you want woman, periodt. It becomes a matter of patience and being more wise in your selection. Ask a guy 'A' who's not willing to work on himself for 6 months because it's so boring for him ( bcoz he is unaware of what he can be yet, he's being naive), it's not easy to work on yourself consciously for a fairly long time. How many pass this Test? This guy 'A' wants woman/en right now, so either he go with his cold approach or stay passive in his comfy little sofa, ?

@Arcangelo @Thestarguitarist14 @shallotsometimes So can we say then that luck is not something bestowed on you, you create it? Be it relationships or any other domain of life. @somegirl What is your idea of "luck" tho, how do you define it?

Don't really know but if it has to be only luck in play, I would rather call that couple utopic lovey dovey romantic love birds,

@erik8lrl Grateful to have you here bro, thank-you for nuanced insights about China.

Well, let it roll let's see how meta we can go about this question?

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Dayummmm, I like that juice rt there, thank-you for this insight.

Yes I got you. But that's you sayin it from your POV. I think we got a legit point here. And more so what I don't get it is why it's so important to always be in relationship (be a bf/husband) to experience sexual pleasures at first place. Everybody is like: okay I see you, but I'm getting laid with you only after 10 dates and cute little evening spent together, then perhaps we'll move onto the sexual stuff. I'm like let's do the "real thing" first and show me what you got, then perhaps I'll see if I have to move on to a relationship or not. But no it's always the contrary always, I don't get the way it works, when everybody knows what the end goal is ( for a guy to get the pussy imo), why too much of tantrums for what reason?

MICHAEL ROSEN, wht r you doing here... Congrats to Actualized.org ❤️ for hitting 1m subs mark?

Is it like saying I'll let you jump into the well of hell to measure it's depth for yourself, ??

Anyway...I LUV MY MAN Mike tho, his arrival was inevitable to this thread, yo. ???????????? And this crying meme is the craziest ever made, periodt. ?

Welp, I don't know Sir never been with one, you gotta tell me ?