Hey Leo,
I know it's kind of arrogant of me to "try to help you" in spite of the fact that you asked us not to do so but I feel a very strong desire to do it... Propably you've already thought about this: (?)
How connected is your suffering to the ammount of food that you eat? It is possible to eat all the 3 Meals that you usually have in a day in one go. If you can eat a lot of food without your suffering growing a lot maybe this could reduce the daily time you have to deal with it..