the_israelite

Hi this is briefly my problem and i would like your opinion of it, hopefully the answers will be helpful to other people as well i am 21 years old and i never had a girlfriend. I started doing pick up around a year ago, and slowly started improving unbelievably with the opposite sex. As of late ive been coming to the conclusion that despite the unbelievable personal development I experienced, especially when it came to confidence, self esteem and just generally overcoming the shy introvert within, I had arrived at the conclusion that what I really want is a long term relationship and i cant seem to maintain one. over the past year i have dated around 15 women (which is amazing since until than it had only been 2) and I Have got quite good at attracting them at least in the beginning but every time it seems that one of 3 things happen: 1. The girl bores me to death and i immediately think of how to end it. (this happens the most and i just feel that all the girls have the same dull personality) 2. The girls is WAY too attached and i am not feeling comfortable in her presence 3. The girls that I do enjoy their company, and i enjoy their personality nver feel the same towards me, and end up losing any attraction they had after around 3 dates Is it all in my head? am I too needy? should I just be more patient and try again? I feel as if these things come much easier to other people and i would really appreciate your advice!! ps. sorry for the mediocre english

@Dhana Choko Thats an interesting thought, though i dont feel as if I cant be happy without a relationship. I have been doing personal development for many years and I feel as if understanding the opposite sex was the next phase in my personal development, and not the main goal. My happiness and life goals always came before. Also i would love to understand why i find most women to be dull and boring, and why these negative thoughts keep coming up. also thank you for the advice, it is well appreciated