Consciousone35

I would love to lucid dream sometime

I’ve been trying to lucid dream for a while but have yet to do so. Astral projection does sound pretty interesting

Qanon is just ridiculous conspiracy theory after ridiculous conspiracy theory. They take good people into a rabbit hole of madness.

https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-best-ways-to-learn-self-discipline?no_redirect=1 This Quora page has a LOT of motivational discipline tips and exercises. I especially like the one where you mark a calendar with a red x every day you get your goals done and tell yourself not to break the chain of red X’s. What’s your favorite discipline advice, tip, or exercise on this Quora page? By the way, for quick discipline tips I like to search things like “Discipline exercises” or “How to get disciplined” on Quora and you can find a lot of good and motivational advice. Feel free to post other pages with good advice as well

https://rainn.org/statistics/scope-problem Only 5 out of every 1000 sex offenders will spend a day in prison. Clearly something is very wrong with society and the way our system deals with sexual predators. As my life purpose is helping to get sexual offenders punished more and help launch investigations into sex trafficking and pedophile rings, how can I utilize spiral dynamics to accomplish these goals? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

I agree that focusing on ending child abuse could be the Yellow solution that will gut sexual assault once and for all. However taking Tier 1 approaches isn’t a waste of time as I’ve already given a serial predator a record and made it harder for them to hurt others, but I can see however getting to the root cause of child abuse is more effective. I guess I could help organize campaigns that lower and educate about child abuse and introduce memes that get both Tier 1 and Tier 2 thinkers to view child abuse for the abomination and shame of the entire human race that it is, a crime that doesn’t get punished that creates sexual assault, war, genocide, and immense suffering. Thanks for pointing out flaws in my thinking on the matter and how I can improve

I actually look forward to doing the hard work and using spiral dynamics to fight sexual assault. I’ll watch the video and see what I can take away from it

How is noting that it’s literally impossible to cure psychopathy and pedophilia ineffective thinking? Maybe in the future we could create some technology that can alter the brain of a psychopath or a pedophile to cure them but currently with what we have it’s impossible. No current psychological technique, spiritual practice, or technology can cure psychopathy or pedophilia.

I honestly don’t think most sex offenders can be healed, only get scared into not harming anybody. For example we know that it is impossible to cure psychopathy and pedophilia

There have been studies that show how pedophiles view the world, interviews with them, etc.

If you would simply throw “love” at the man I got a permanent record on, he would probably just laugh or play along. The thing is child abuse and a poor upbringing can lead to not even being able to feel love. By creating things like better wealth equality and stigmatizing humanity’s secret war on itself that is child abuse we can help to reduce the number of people who become sexual predators however the sex offenders of this era are too far gone. Throwing love at them won’t be effective at all, making sure they get sent to the human zoo if they commit crimes can help them become reluctant to sexually assault people because they fear the consequences. Currently literally no consequences exist for many sexual offenders.

Pedophilia is completely different from OCD. Pedophilia is a sexual disorder. Interestingly there are pedophiles who don’t molest children and actually are against those who do, I believe they’re called “virtuous pedophiles.” It appears that those who commit sexual assault view others as simply being objects. I think perhaps starting movements to reduce child abuse could help lower the rate of sexual assault. Also creating a #metoo 2.0 could help create a culture where sexual predators become too scared and where victims more easily report.

Many sex offenders have criminal backgrounds so yes, poor childhoods contribute to increased sexual assault. Doing societal social engineering that discourages child abuse could help then. Such as ad campaigns that show how child abuse literally leads to shrunken brains. That would require putting money into and creating such campaigns. Perhaps I could help form movements that are against child abuse?

Pizzagate is a load of crap. Also sex offenders aren’t mentally ill, they simply crave power over others and lack empathy

Pedophiles and sex offenders see people as simply objects that provide them with sexual gratification. And I don’t see how someone who’s life wasn’t any worse than anyone else’s was once a victim. The tough lady who decided to stand up to her abuser, he wasn’t her only abuser. He was her second abuser. Her first was a pedophile who sodomized her literally hundreds of times, who convinced her own family that she was the problem because he knew how to act kind and charming. If anyone is a victim it’s her, but she’s not going around sexually assaulting others, actually she now has a baby she’s excited to raise.

I agree we should fix the education system, however what will that do to fix sexual abuse?

How would fixing the education system when countries like Russia, China, and Japan, the countries with the best education systems in the world, all have massive sexual assault issues?

In short: virtually every society deals with sexual assault poorly. I focus however on my society: America. Our current legal system and police system doesn’t take sexual assault seriously enough. My life purpose is to help reduce his much sexual assault occurs

A very interesting and essential video that talks about how “self help” and “personal development” can become nothing more than repackaged procrastination and even a drug of false progress. Notice how so many self-help “gurus” never actually talk about resolving past trauma or learning to play the system? Instead it’s just get up and work hard and get “motivated” with the next seminar. So much of self help sounds a lot like Scientology. Instead of actually helping people it’s filled with personality cults who simply advocate working really hard and who conveniently ignore things like the dangers of burnout and crunch and the importance of taking breaks. Yes working hard is great but you also have to work smart. I’m sure most millionaires work hard but they also are smart with how they maneuver around the being of Capitalism and bend it to benefit them almost like magic. Calling self help “gurus” gurus is an insult to actual gurus. These guys are nothing more than cult leaders who self false hope, false progress, and false optimism to people. Don’t get me wrong, personal development is important but there are a lot of false personal development gurus who just indoctrinate people into becoming pawns of the system while they laugh all the way to the bank. I notice there’s a growing trend of simply working really hard to become successful. Again, working hard and being disciplined is great but there are people who work hard with 9-5 jobs, and they struggle just to afford healthcare. I have helped get a repeat sex offender a permanent record that could help make sure he won’t be allowed to live near schools and how did I do that? Over the course of months I smartly got evidence from his victims and smartly contacted the authorities and gave them that evidence. Getting the evidence took time and patience, I didn’t just “work really hard.” I thought of how I could provide proof that this guy is a repeat sex offender who would hurt children just to get revenge on his girlfriends who escaped from his brutal outbursts and extreme sexual offenses. I took my time and made sure I was doing things professionally and smartly. And now that heinous person could very well end up in jail eventually for his crimes. I had a lot of motivation to see justice be served but I didn’t approach it with the mentality of “work really hard,” instead it was “work hard and work smart.” The clip in the video where there is a montage of self-help “gurus” almost gaslighting people to work very hard has the atmosphere of a fire-and-brimstone preacher. So while you’re doing your personal development make sure you’re not falling into dopamine trips of false progression. Although I was never into self help videos I was very much into personal development and I adopted a “work really hard” approach and I burned out to the point where it took a year to recover and get back into personal development. First I helped get charges against that sexual predator and that encouraged me to try to be my best and set up a life purpose of helping to reform laws and launch more investigations that help more sex offenders get punished instead of walking away scott free. My therapist said I’m too hard on myself and should tip my toes into my goals instead of having impossible standards. I followed their advice and now I’m becoming more productive than ever. There’s more to becoming successful and helping the world than just working hard, you have to work smart and take the time to reflect. Stop wasting your money on these cult seminars and get a therapist who could help you solve the real problems in your life that make you feel down and get into personal development in the first place. Good luck on your personal development journey and hopefully this great video will help you avoid false prophets!

Can you explain how I could adopt a Tier 2 approach to sexual assault? I assume Tier 2 would rely on going into societal systems and improving them and bringing them to higher tiers, right?

Figuring out what makes offenders and trying to prevent them from becoming offenders in the first place would take a whole generation to do. #metoo did quite a bit in helping offenders get scared, perhaps I can try to launch a social movement that focuses on exposing sexual predators? I’m thinking maybe somehow I could help launch a #metoo 2.0 that views sexual assault as a societal issue than can be cured?

Since my proposed solutions may be flawed what could I do to make something that’ll be effective and take off?

A large part of the solution is to use Stage 2 thinking to help reform laws and engineer society to take it more seriously and perhaps even create a cultural meme where reporting on and exposing predators is seen as brave and honorable. Can you tell me how I am misunderstanding reality?

Definitely with the current system not only do survivors have to report, they have to fight just to get those who hurt them to face justice. Out of the entire group of women the offender I got a permanent record on, only one was willing to fight. I actually had to contact his other victims and even still only some of them even reported to the police even though they all confirmed to me who he is. Clearly the way our system deals with sexual assault is beyond incompetent and needs changes. However it’s a tricky topic and it’s quite a journey to use spiral dynamics to help evolve the system to deal with this heinous issue. The issue is most survivors simply want to get past the trauma and simply reporting leads to flashbacks. Sexual assault is one of the most traumatizing things that can happen to you. There needs to be a system in place where victims are encouraged and congratulated for reporting in our culture instead of being dismissed as they often are.

I could very well try to resurrect #metoo. I also want to help fund investigations into pedophile rings and help reform laws that make it to where reports of sexual offense are taken more seriously. There are a lot of things I could to help out this massive issue, nearly all of us know someone who is the victim of a sexual predator. I’ve learned a lot from getting that psychopath sex offender a permanent record. Keep in mind he was someone who not only sexually assaulted multiple women, in one instance a child, he would threaten to murder families and children if his victims wouldn’t fulfill his demands, and he did things like beat up his victims, break into their houses, do meth, bash their heads against the wall, try to kill their fetuses by kicking them even though he was the one who got them pregnant against their will, so many things I’ve forgotten some of it. It’s important to gather evidence and report it to the proper authorities so investigatons can be launched. I could help set up a system where it’s easier for Sexual Assault survivors to report. Survivors not reporting is a huge issue because it can cause them to relive the trauma. I can use spiral dynamics to set up systems where it’s easier and less stressful for survivors to report but how would I do that, any ideas?