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Don’t converse over text at all except maybe sending a funny meme if she doesn’t text back after you said hey it’s x from y place (then she replies and you say…) let’s set up plans for this week what’s your schedule like?.. Use texting to set up a date/hangout and no more.

Hell, I’ve been hit on by straight guys. In case you don’t already know, some straight guys actually have sex with guys. Why? Because they like sex a TON and we all know how much easier and more prolific it would be to have sex with guys. Not that often. Though I only have one person in mind too. Hint: sneeze — though that may not be the right person I just know he had several accounts, he may not have actually been scheming with narcissistic larping, though that has certainly happened as well. Forums attract people with vulnerable narcissism.

Yeah I’m dumbfounded that a guy who can fuck a lot would find himself in this situation. And what exactly is the problem? Just break up and move on — if there’s no problem getting (hot) pussy then clearly he will find another woman. There are so many amazingly good women anywhere in the developed world that it’s insane.

Yeah I’m a mod, we’ve seen it happen, lmao.

Same here brother. It’s like double sex. Or one step further than all the way.

That’s really funny because my IV dose was also 70mg. And yeah it was a k hole and a half — strongest one I ever experienced. 50mg would’ve done it. I actually think ketamine at k hole (ego death) doses is way stronger than any psychedelic except 5-MeO-DMT at ego death doses.

Interesting. Funny thing about being completely straight is it’s impossible to be offended by any potential talk of being gay — which is exactly why I sometimes wonder about homophobic guys. So no offense taken at all. You used to think ivankiss and I were the same guy? I don’t frequent this forum as much as some (just post a lot when I do), so I don’t remember a lot of what he’s said, (though I remember his name). What exactly makes us seem so similar? For us to be the same guys we’d (I’d) have to be the biggest larper / vulnerable narcissist on the planet I’d imagine.

Yeah as a belligerently straight guy I always eat the asses of my girlfriends. I mean literally how could I not? They often don’t get it lmao — “you really like my ass don’t you?”

Yeah it can work or it can make it worse. Ketamine (at a sufficient dose) is probably slightly more efficacious, but even that is risky — high potential payoff though. Ketamine can cause severe bladder damage though — but there have been no cases of it at 600mg daily dose for clinical pain management, however this is spread out throughout the day so it may be prudent to never exceed 100mg every 4 hours, or perhaps 200mg every 8 hours, or maybe even 50mg every 2 hours, we just don’t have enough scientific info yet to tell which. And it takes 150mg (intranasal) for a strong k hole (not that a k hole is necessary for spiritual or psychological growth/healing — Leo only experimented with 30mg, I believe).

Yes the intellect can lead one to great error. Any belief about self has no truth value.

It’s not about acting stupid — that’s in the eye of the beholder. It’s about being honest and still expecting things to go your way until proven otherwise.

Literally not at all. In fact rejection isn’t even rejection. It’s just what happens based on conditions, often randomly. And the least respectful and dignified thing one can do is thinking one is better than someone. So if someone does that to you, just have compassion for how mixed up they are. If you don’t compare, everyone will respect you. Even if they don’t like you. And not everyone will like the real you. When you’re authentically yourself, some will love you and some will hate you and some will be indifferent, but the only people who will fear you are those who compare (again, if you do not compare).

I always thought (or at least used to) if you’re not an ass guy you’re secretly gay and just pretending to like the thing society says is what guys are supposed to be into — e.g. “oh yes, erm… I would like to suckle on those breasts, don’t you know it” [thinks to oneself: I seem straight, right?]. That said, boobs are awesome. But girls are even (sometimes) surprised and bewildered when guys like boobs a whole lot — just about everyone understands the alluring power of a big firm ass though. The straightest people I know, including me, are all ass guys. I’m sure it can vary though. I’m American so the Eastern European thing is irrelevant on this one as far as I can tell. Unless I have Eastern European in my blood.

Looks good. With that much lifting yes for good progress (if that’s what you want) you will need a lot of calories — you could try cooking up some rice for each week. Possibly even make fried rice with a bit of egg. And I’d eat (probably brown, preferably) eggs daily but not in excess — they are extremely nutrient rich but more than about 4 a day may give you a bit too much of some nutrients (can’t remember what they are but I think it might be choline or selenium, or maybe something like cholesterol). Dairy is highly cost effective but does not work well for some, especially men who are building or keeping a physique. Keep protein intake high enough and perhaps above 80 grams a day for best health and results. 100-120+ for most anabolic state but only for marginal (but definite) benefit at the expense of x% or in this case 50% more protein consumption, and protein is the most expensive macronutrient by far. And it’s not like 40-70 grams a day is malnutrition or anything.

Your pupils would look a bit scary. They’d have to know you’re on it and be fine with it

@Emotionalmosquito Oh and from seeing Flowboy’s response, it seems I must have missed some stuff you wrote and I’d bet more guidance is in order than what I gave: a “wage slave” job is completely what you make of it. If you take it in stride and work hard and give great service etc, with a great contagious good attitude, people will respect you and you’ll respect yourself and others too. And any coworkers who have a bad attitude will sometimes even start to want to be more like you. Wherever I work, bad attitudes are scarcely seen — idk if that’s just luck but I’d bet it’s because a good attitude is contagious. You’re looking at work in an incredibly toxic way dude.

Not necessarily the same topics you’d talk about with male friends, just the same level of significance / it’s not a big deal just because she’s hot. Still don’t talk about stuff that tends to give you bad reactions with the category of person you’re currently talking to (social calibration). It’s not just claiming it was only a joke. Have a very laid back and non serious attitude and vibe throughout so that you’re not merely claiming it’s a joke, it basically was a joke, because it was not serious / you were just kidding. And no need for apology because that’s something you do when something serious happens — if she was literally seriously offended though then yeah casually apologize, of course. Most important thing is to have fun, yes, and to embody confidence and value. Listen to what they’re saying too and do this with others and engage with them confidently and you will learn a lot and derive value from conversing that way and so when you do it, it signals you’re high value, essentially because you’d have to be of high value if that is how you usually are… and if you start doing it you might not be able to believe that you are high value at first but you eventually will.

Converting faith into power in the relative world.

Yes and as soon as something gets a bad reaction you play it off as a joke and drop it like a hot potato. But over time the things that you say with no filter get increasingly calibrated.

Well for anyone who goes from no action to player, getting there is generally one of the hardest things they’ve ever done. So you’d have to make it happen but once you do you’ll no longer think there aren’t any girls for you. It’s the only way really to take things into your own hands and not just rely on a perfect situation that will never come to fall into your lap.

Guy 1: Will talking about menstruation keep me from getting laid? Guy 2: Yeah definitely stop doing that if you want to get laid. Guy 1: Aww but pretty please can I? Pleeease, I really need my menstrual conversations.

He’s spot on.

“Pulling off” weird topics as in using them to get laid? If so, that would be way off man. I’ll assume you just mean like not having it blow you out completely — sure it often won’t but it often will so just don’t be needlessly creepy and weird. Good game is quite simple and it involves basically being as normal (polite and courteous) as you can possibly be, while also expressing yourself freely with no reservation and with the knowledge that sex is already a done deal until proven otherwise. Saying whatever comes to mind. The stuff that comes to mind that you’d say is going to calibrate over time and eventually it will mostly be stuff like… things happening in the environment (or whatever the thing that just happened reminds you of), jokes and a bit of sexual flirting, her appearance/age/ethnicity, optional high-value non-bragging showcasing of yourself, random topics the conversation naturally leads to, and logistical questions (lethal weapons; the phrase “how do you know each other” allows you to approach any groups regardless of how many girls or guys are in it)… but basically you say whatever you’d say to a guy friend or your dad, plus flirting and if you get stuck, 99.9% chance you aren’t believing that sex is already a foregone conclusion and you’re now trying to make it work rather than expressing authentically while merely moving forward with leading.

If you don’t have the experience to know this already, think about where you’re learning about the game — you might want to find a better source for it because whatever you’re currently reading or watching is way off.

You do realize many if not most men aren’t attracted to males at all right? As in sex with men for those guys would be less fulfilling than masturbation, by a mile.