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@mr_engineer You sound very inexperienced and therefore ignorant of the issue at hand. Sperm-wars? incel-shootings? remove these words from your vocabulary and commit to getting better with girls so you can find yourself one nice girlfriend. It won't be easy but definitely worth it for the self-development you'll achieve. The sex itself is not what it is about. I hope you will be able to read your post one day and cringe at it.

I get what you're saying but it's not totally true. It definitely does not have to be this way. There are more "pure" and spiritual components at play as well. But yes, the better you get with girls the better you can capitalize on these aspects.

I know what you mean: just loving a girl will get you nowhere. Though girls are most definitely highly attracted to authentic expressions of (romantic) love. Such as passionate kissing, love in tone of voice, masculine protectiveness, ownership and being in tune with her emotions and "agenda" and also/especially vulnerability! @Leo Gura When you say "survival value" you make it sound like every guy needs to be the stereotypical Chad douchebag or some kind of successful millionaire. Which will result in newbies acting in all kinds of creepy and even sociopathic ways. If a guy wants to get good with girls. He either needs to get in touch with his authentic masculinity and/or with their femininity when a guy is overly masculine (though this is rarer). There are no shortcuts, strong men are made not born. But...! A cheat code I use before dates and before nights going out is to masturbate but not to cum. This will put me easier in touch with my powerful masculinity and sexual charisma, and my femininity is also still with me. I've done it so often that I actually can watch soft porn in a pretty disciplined manner, never feel painful blueballs and I also don't cum immediately when having sex. (after a while your balls seem to forget they were on the brink of cumming.) So for the more feminine guys, I highly recommend trying this technique and noticing the difference in how you feel and act and how girls react to you.

When I came across that dude I thought that he was a genuine, conscious, and wise dude. But I guess when you take up on the role of "shaman" things will get to your head. Really being a shaman is an enormous responsibility, and when you're shamen for damaged drug addicts this increases the risk and responsibility a hundredfold. Shamans should do background checks and reject unstable and immature people but of course that is not his mission. If you're unstable or immature you're better of doing more frequent but "gentle" therapy sessions with small to moderate doses of lsd/shrooms/dmt rather than a full dose of 5meo. Also, I followed that guy on Facebook and saw a post of his praising Qadaffi. Pretty weird and fucked up.

Diluted vinegar for cooking is fine, drinking a tablespoon seems just stupid to me. not all organ/body tissue reacts the same. Obviously, the stomach and throat are such that they can handle extreme levels of acidity. But is this also true for inside your rectum? In some folk remedies, people use a cloth with vinegar to hold up against painful areas. They mostly just end up burning off their skin. My point is just not to use undiluted vinegar when plugging because this brings an unnecessary risk.

Try training your voice and if you have good energy you should speak into her ear with your nose pressed against her. Because I am in such a good mood today I'll share these club cheat codes with you: Cheat code 1: before club masturbate but don't cum. I recommend using pics instead of vids because they are less stimulating and thus it will be easier for you to control yourself (also avoid painful blueballs). Then go to clubs and project your energy on some random girls. The cool thing about clubs is that it's socially acceptable to fully project your sexuality unto some stranger girl. You'll be polarizing but that's what you want. Cheat code 2: microdose LSD Cheat code 3: Enter God mode by combining cheat code 1 and 2

Yep, this is what I am doing for years. My last trip was my deepest yet. I realized my life is an imagination with zero substance. There is only so much fear I can tolerate in the come-up phase, so I take it slowly. During the Come-up, I am like "what hell am I doing to myself". And after the trip I am like: I want to go again! again! Though sometimes it's hard to tell the difference between pussy-footing and responsible dosage setting and trip pacing. I try to be as intuitive as possible in deciding when to trip again. On average it's something like once a month, maybe a bit more.

I have this fond childhood/teenage memory where I concentrated so hard during a chess game that it felt like my brain would shake out of my head. It was pure bliss after I won. I never concentrated so hard ever again in my life.

When I was out of a job, playing chess was the only thing I was daily doing that I felt helped my brain stay challenged, sharp and engaged. I also think chess played a big role in keeping my old grandpa relativly sharp

I think most PUA's are overdoing this. I recently went out with my old PUA coach (not paid but just as buddies). And I was shocked at how try-hard and cringy he seemed when he kept persisting by constantly coming up with new things to say. He has spent years training this talking skill but I noticed how inauthentic it was to him. He is generally a "successful" PUA and I learned a lot from him but in my opinion, is a more silent "energy/chemistry focused game" way superior to constantly speaking. Also, I just don't believe in persistence on girls that are not open/interested.

I've seen it grow wild in some parts. It's really a beautiful plant. It got this aura to it. Same with opium poppies and peyote. Something about them makes you know they have these sick mystical powers.

Tap into the Godly visual beauty of the flowers and keep it at that(;

Personally, I just embrace the quiet, if there is a click this will build pressure. Ideally, you'll let her bask in your energy and let her release the pressure by making it a back-and-forth interaction. Or what about saying "I don't know what to say" when you don't know what to say. Also, observational remarks can be good. "you must be very creative". (when she has an unusually creative outfit for example).

@Vercingetorix Good! Not depending on anyone is the most powerful thing here. I daygame alone mostly because of that. And honestly having a wing in daygame who is not an experienced pro will only hold you back. It will just increase the cringe and not to mention you'll have to share. But I also have a special bias because I do mostly day game in a city where I relatively often stumble into people I know. Therefore I put a lot of value on subtility and situational awareness to avoid drawing attention. Only when I am at the very point of doing the approach I go into full "not giving a fuck-mode". For me personally, a big lesson from daygame is that I have to prioritize my mental health. My main struggle was not to feel like a crazy person for doing this. I was either going to quit or continue in a way that is respectable, cool, non-cringy and even beautiful. (all for me in a highly subjective manner). This means that now I push myself less, go home when my energy is off (when girls react more closed-off than usual and this pattern doesn't seem to improve), I don't persist when she is not open or impressed by my presence and I keep within my integrity and authenticity as much as possible. Integrity > standard pick-up theory.

Hmm... When I do an approach, I often in the first few seconds intuitively know if she is "open" to me. AKA whether we click. Personally, I never persist with a girl that doesn't click. Because I authentically lose interest in her, in my mind if a girl is not impressed by my presence I'll just think she is dumb and defective as a woman or we simply don't match, and that's perfectly fine and normal. If I approach and she looks away from me, that's a big no-no for me. Like, that's an immediate "bye have a nice day!". My intuition is obviously not perfect but I do sense these clicks with girls. Sometimes a girl will click very well but has a boyfriend. Or it will click but I do bad game. That would be a more "true" loss. I know some girls will subtly test men by acting like a cold fish. Though this is not most girls and personally I find that very unattractive. Most feminine girls won't help themselves but to express their "openess"/interest in all kinds of tacit ways, acting feminine for one. But also her sprinkling in some shit-tests. Ironically these are some of the most explicit indicators of interest. Personally, I put a lot of value on click. For me having a click trumps all in getting girls.

I have recently been doing some 5-meo-malt. Each time I can really feel my lower back energies. Maybe it's nonsense but I can Intuit that my awakening will go hand in hand with an explosion of energy from my lower back. I am afraid I will not be able to handle the intensity of energy (nor do I really want to). Any tips, what should I do?

I sense it in my spine but I don't want it to "escape" or burst out. I don't feel ready

I Intuit something like that. Like: no awaking for me without releasing this energy. Where can I find people that offer these services? Sounds cool but I don't desire that intense energy. I just don't desire a kundalini release or awakening but my lower back energies do act up when tripping, so I am afraid I don't have much of a choice in this matter. In the past I actually did some kundalini yoga, but now I kinda regret it.

Recently I started going out, I notice I do get some attention from girls: stares, shit-tests, and dancing. Though it's so chaotic in the club I just end up losing them by literally losing them. How do I make a girl attach to me? And more generally: what to do with girls in clubs that show openness and interest?

@something_else @StarStruck @Leo Gura Thanks, I do need to be more proactive, ballsy and take more risk. My other big issue is that I run out of energy relatively quickly becoming groggy. Also on the following day, I am basically knocked out from doing anything productive. Ideally, I would want to go out 2-3 times a week but right now I am just keeping it at once a week due to these energy issues.

I got a HCI batch with >97% purity. I have some experience with plugging 5-meo-dmt, How is Malt different when it comes to method of administration? What is a good dosage to start with? just for dipping my toes and testing the waters.

@OBEler Oke understood Really!? I get so much more productive with a microdose of LSD. I make decisions much easier, It's easier to start a task and to get really sucked into it.

Got a batch, but I heard that taking small dosages will just be disappointing. If you have experience with micro-dosing AL Lad I'd love to hear your experience and advise.

I have noticed this psychosomatic trend when each time a girl flakes I get physically sick for a week or so while also going through the 5 stages of grief. I know you're not supposed to get attached before the sex but I just do. Some girls drive me mad with their flirtatious, cute and "innocent" acting and I know for a fact that they are attracted to me but nonetheless their level of flakiness and not-really-caring is absolutely profound. This one girl I meticulously "courted" for more than a half year and after we agreed to go on a date, she "kinda forgot" and I kinda reacted butthurt out of the frustration. Which is of course a giant mistake. But damn she drove me mad. This other girl (I already had a date with) is very into me judging by the sweet and cute way she texts me. But each time I go for the date she is too "busy". And so I have some more of these frustrating cases. Of course, I realize these girls have incredible abundance. Like it's insane how easy they can get a guy. Anyhow, I just hope these attachment issues will get less severe with time and experience.

This is a front-page article in one of Israel's leading news platform: https://www.jpost.com/israel-news/culture/article-707136 They seem to have mixed up Incel culture with pick up, and equivalate approaching with harassment. Pickup is here really painted as some degenerate loser cultlike activity. Of course, there are toxic and immature elements within the community. But from my experience, most of my pickup mates have decent attitudes towards women. Of course, there is the occasional "guy (shit) talk" amongst ourselves where we basically judge girls and act all macho but that's like every guy (and girls have their own version of that.) Not gonna lie, feel kinda saddened by this article because it will lead to more societal demonization. I myself already struggle mentally with the "societal unacceptability" of pick up, and this is not helping. @Leo Gura) Do you think this article makes fair points or is it a total misunderstanding of the phenomenon?