Don Wei

@Preety_India I don't know if putin is a really good example, he is not the leader of russia because he is so good but because of corruption as far as I know

@Preety_India doesn't matter anymore lol I decided to follow your advice and cut my hair mid length I will show you guys a picture but I gotta freshen up i'm literally covered in lose strands of hairs from the barbershop @Preety_India @remember @remember @remember @Leo GurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGu

@GroovyGuru @bejapuskas the reason why I named these three redpill channels is because these guys are honest people, they don't teach men to lie and cheat. They hate men who do that, its the guys who follow them that are toxic. If you really pay attention to his videos you'll see he's not that toxic. They always make sure the women knows they are not looking for a relationship and attract them without lying... So I don't exactly understand what you mean with "you can attract people by being authentic" when they never said you should be a liar. What I do understand is that the community itself is very toxic, thats why you shouldn't read the comments when you watch their videos. Also whats wrong with ams only caring about getting his dick wet ? As long as he doesn't deliberately hurt anybody or let anybody hurt him everythings ok. Not everybody wants to be in a long term relationship. I used to think thats what I wanted, but when I entered one I found out thats not really what I want at all. Back then I believed the ideology that men who sleep with a lot of women are bad and that you can only be happy in serious relationships, I also believed that all women were innocent and nice. Thats the opposite end of the spectrum with redpill, I don't fully agree with any of these ideologies. Some people are innocent Some people are considered normal Others are wilder And others are very slutty and sexually open Some so open that they betray their loved ones for sex. In order to become more conscious you need to see different peoples viewpoints, as you said you can find wisdom everywhere.

@Don Wei@saish shit I accidently tagged myself Thanks for this message, this is real good advice

@saish most redpill groups are very toxic, however there are a few wiser more conscious dating coaches who are different from the rest. FitxFearless AlphaMaleStrategies MJgetright

@remember I did shave my hair off last year when I visited usa..thats the last time i'm ever gonna do that ?. I never turned so many women off. Maybe it fits some people like leo, vin diesel, the rock, joe rogan, johnny sins etc but I really look messed up with that haircut, my mom was the only one who liked it. You know what fuck it i'm cutting my hair middle length today. Its gonna grow back anyway. This extra long hairstyle is so difficult to pull off and look manly. ( Jason Momoa, Johnny depp, Geralt of Rivia from the witcher ) @Preety_India @remember @remember @remember @Leo GurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGu

@Preety_India @remember @remember @remember @Leo GurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGuGurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGu @Member ok but are there any masculine attractive longer hairstyles for men withy hair type ?

@Preety_India @remember @remember @remember @Leo GurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGuGurauraGuraGuraGuraGuraGGurGu (Everybody just ignore this weird thing above this text it won't go away. I don't even want to tag anyone right now...) For the people who said I should cut my hair shorter and remove the dye. I've been doing that my whole life thats why I dyed and grew it. This is my old haircut

@Leo GuraGuraGuraGuraGuraGu@remember Ok ignore the weird text above i'm not able to remove it for some reason. I wanted to tag ypu and them leo's tag came and the text came when I tried to remove to other tag. I live above brazil right now where its almost 33 degrees everyday so I can't wear any real warm clothes. But I'll move back to the netherlands so I will be able to wear clothes like that there. I also don't even have neighbors so since I live in a tropical rainforest. So that could contribute to me not approaching that many women. Or maybe thats just an excuse, I did see a video where leo said you should take responsibility for everything. But i'm not really worrying about that right now i'm moving back to the netherlands next month and I'll live with my older brother right across a mall in a shopping area of the city so if I don't approach women over there i'm really bullshitting myself. I'm not really trying to grow an afro though I actually wanted my hair to hang down but that can be difficult especially when you're black/chinese mixed.

@bejapuskas maybe you're too needy. I have the impression right now that you don't really want a relationship but that you are kinda afraid to be alone and that is a bad way to get into a relationship. I don't know if you have found your purpose. But if you haven't try find it. I'm not a relationship expert, my own last relationship failed and I got dumped on christmas eve but doing so many things wrong like being too goofy/feminine, first watching pickup and believing looks don't matter, believing only looks matter, failing shittests and arguing with women, not being direct enough when approaching women etc made me realise that if you chase women desperately you won't attract any and especially the ones you really want. I still have problems with that. Women you're kinda interested in or women who have a lot of interest in you are much easier to get. As leo said before looks only get your foot in the door so you'll have too improve everything. I think that improving yourself spuritually will also greatly improve all areas of your life. Meditation and the law of attraction have really helped me so you could try that if you haven't, but you probably have I think every person on this forum already knows about the law of attraction, meditation, contemplation, nofap etc. So yeah just improve yourself on the outside and inside. Looks only get you in the door, but if you don't take care of you appearance and only have game women wont even give you a chance so get both. Also watch out who you hang out with. You are the average of the four people you hang around with the most.

@K VIL I have two friends in Suriname (where I live right now), they are both male. But I actually talk to both men and women a lot. Almost equally as much.

@Jacob Morres I can get girls, thats not the problem. Its the very feminine super attractive women i'm really attracted to that I find very hard to get. And i'm not even talking about a relationship because I don't want that anymore, but just attracting them the same way I easily attract girls I don't find super attractive

@Arthur I really needed to hear this, maybe i'm less masculine overal, because i'm a people pleaser and I have a hard time saying no to people. But I stopped doing that in 2020. I lived half my life in the netherlands among white people and I did not get accepted, even though I always wanted to because I didn't know anything about consciousness, self help, etc. My parents are from Suriname so when I was about to move to Suriname I though they would love me and accept me fully as one of them. I wanted to live my whole life there even though its a third world country. But they treated me the same and did not accept me because they saw me as a white boy. Pretty ironic. Then I joined to boyscouts to get friends and learn more about the culture. I still did not get accepted, and I did everything to be like people around me. And the boyscouts also had a people pleaser mentality, I was still the only one in the group who actually had a people pleaser mentality. And I then discovered self improvement when I was 11 years old. Now i'm trying to change all my negative traits and heal myself while becoming the best version of myself. The masculinity part has always been difficult though since I never had any real male role models or very masculine friends. I also just saw leo's victim mentality a couple of months ago for the first time.

@Moon the hair dye was an experiment for me, so I will remove that. But I only cut the sides and back of my hair with a high fade because this is the first time in my life i'm allowed to do that. I can't grow a beard yet, the hair only grows on my chin and above my lips

@Preety_India I will definitely try this style when i'm able to rebuild my wardrobe next month, when school has ended (i'm 18 btw) but I won't cut my hair shorter for a while because I have literally been waiting 10 years to be allowed to grow my hair out. The blonde dye was just for fun. I wasn't allowed to do that either so I dyed it right before the quarantaine.

@Leo Gura yes thats true, I often wear t-shirts because I live in suriname right now (in south america right above brazil) but next month I'll move back to the netherlands so then I'll be able to slowly rebuild my wardrobe.

@mandyjw my hair is naturally very dark but I was in a situation where I didn't have a lot of freedom and now i'm free to do what I wanna do and look the way I want to look. I always wanted to grow my hair out and I was wondering what I would look like with a different haircolor.

@Preety_India ok thanks for your reply, but I think I already have enough feminine energy, I really need more masculine energy right now. Its pretty bad, some people that meet me even think i'm gay but i'm not gonna lie I do look a little bit feminine thats why I want more masculine energy, right now the women I attract are not the really feminine ones I feel attracted to...

I know leo said you should maybe try doing pickup up 5000 times, but instead of doing that why not just improve your appearance ? You can go to the gym and improve your body, eat healthier food and get better grooming habits. If you do this you wont have to go out and talk to 5000 women, thats a big waste of time. Its not worth it. Focus on your goal, your passion and your self improvement. Women will come to you and if they dont you can go to them and it will be a lot easier. You don't even have to take them out on dates, invite them straight over. And if they try to play games and waste time, then go to other women. You need an abundance mindset (not only with women but with everything)

I just saw a recent post where a guy questioned wether Leo Gura actually experienced omniscience. Then someone replied that you can't keep the information of the cosmos because the human soul/mind/spirit is too limited. But I was wondering what if Leo took a pen and paper to write the information while he is in the god state ( just for the sake of keeping it, not for survival). Then he could maybe try to keep as much information as possible until he returns back to the human state. After that he could analyse and absorb the information and share the information. The only trick is to do this not for the sake of survival but from a place of love right ? I hope Leo has the time to reply to this and try this out during his next awakening. I'm really excited to see the results of an experiment like that. We wont know the result unless we try this. So if there is anybody besides Leo who has also experienced deep awakenings it would be cool if they could try this too and share the result in this forum afterwards.

@Moon so do you guys think its good to try this or should every person find their own way to enlightenment by themself with a little guidance still in their own unique way ?

@Kross the omniscient state probably does transcend language and its of course way too much information so its not possible to write everything. But there should be some very small fragments that should be able to be written down and analysed. Even these extra small parts are probably a lot to understand. But anyway if we won't try we will never know. We have to at least try different experiments to see what the limits of our physical existence is right ? Thats what we all want in the first place, to live the best most fulfilling life possible and to discover as much as we can in our lifetime. After that our offspring can become even more conscious than us because they then stand on our shoulders the same way we stand on the shoulders of our ancestors. Without them we wouldn't have the tools to become as well rounded and actualized as most of us are here. No democracy = no free information No internet = no actualized.org or any other self improvement group

Hi everybody, I have been doing self improvement for 5 years and i'm now almost 18. I have been improving myself a lot in 2020 specifically, but there is still a big problem that seems almost impossible to overcome. No matter how much information I take in or how much I meditate or work on my purpose I haven't been able to overcome 1 thing. My old impulsive self. Everyday when I wake up I tell my self that this day will be different, that I will finally break my bad habits, lose my addictions and impulses. And often i'm very productive for a few hours in the morning, but then I suddenly get less conscious and get an urge to jog or dance or fight or fap. There is this energy that I feel in my body that I must release somehow. And then I lose control. But that is just one of the problems, other times it feels like games, porn and social media suck me in like gravity and then I feel like I don't have any power over myself. This repeats itself EVERYDAY ! I feel like i'm stuck in some kind of nightmare. Working hard, studying, doing healthy things don't even feel that bad when I get focused, it feels very fulfilling. But I still don't do it everyday the way I want to. I want to wake up everyday at 5 am and do everything thats important for my growth first and then rest for one or two hours but I have never been able to do that in my life. I never post here, but now I don't know what else to do this is absolute torture.

@StarStruck @Nahm ok so if I want to get good grades or a stronger body for example I should enjoy the process to get really good ? It sounds almost like playing a video game. Ypu don't play a video game or watch a movie just to finish it but to enjoy the process.

@Nahm thank you very much, I never thought about it that way.