gettoefl

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  1. The reason we view the world as lying is because we are lying to the world. I would deal with this before thinking of dating.
  2. I prefer old to young. Young is dumb and old is bold. Young you have to listen and follow and believe, Old you can assert yourself authentically and not give a shit. The young have to impress to get anywhere. The old can be true to themselves for the first time. The young cannot love only the old can. Only when you know you have less breaths left than already breathed can you see things correctly, namely tomorrow never actually comes so do everything today or forget about it. Only the old can be grateful for life. Not everyone gets the gift of the second half of life.
  3. Fear is the assertion I can be harmed and thus in looking for it anywhere fear is the tool for awakening to safety. I need to seek out the most fearful situations for example someone who is angry at me and defuse it skilfully. I understand your anger but it is wholly unnecessary since I declare you my brother not my enemy. You anger poisons you and not me.
  4. Everyone in my life are those I warred with in previous lifetimes. You are my enemy and I desire to keep you firmly under my thumb. I raped you brutally and now I carry pepper spray awaiting your attack. The work is to turn the enemy into a brother. Absorb the fear the world is pummeling me with and turn it into love. You are my life lesson and you are no threat to me if seen right. Making everyone brother is called bringing heaven to earth. Everyone in life brings only two attitudes: a cry for love or a call from love. Interpret every interaction correctly and act accordingly to transform the past to the future.
  5. Fear is inevitable since dropping identifying with the body mind after investing a lifetime in it is horrifying My life has been for naught, the person will exclaim. No! You are awakening to what you really are.
  6. Lies is to play the game simply to win the game. Truth is to play the game but to see it as a game.
  7. God is that which experiences supreme joy forever and ever. In this absolute state of perfection, there is nothing that needs adjustment or intervention by God or its creations. Who are its creations? God delights in extending itself, creating expressions of its own infinite nature. To extend itself is to share its limitless being without constraint or boundary. God naturally grants its creations sovereignty and free will, for creation without freedom lacks the vitality of true joy. This freedom ensures a reality that is dynamic and alive, not static or dull. Yet, within this freedom, one of God's creations is free to entertain a seemingly rogue thought: What if I could separate from the Oneness, from the limitless and the Allness? This thought imagines being the creator of a separate, limited reality. It is a fleeting idea, contemplated in the dream of sleep. Yet, as soon as it arises, it is recognized for what it is - a ludicrous impossibility in the face of the perfect wholeness of where one truly resides. The thought is effortlessly dismissed, and the imagined, fragmented universe vanishes like mist under the light of truth. Dreaming, then, is but an innocent and transient misunderstanding - an ill-conceived thought in the mind of one of God's creations. No harm is done, for the dream is immediately seen as unreal. No time passes, for time itself is but an illusion. In truth, the Oneness remains untouched, and all is well, eternally.
  8. Good to incorporate 30 day vacations from both into one's yearly planning and together ideally. Be sure and give everyone a heads up before checking out in such a manner.
  9. They are opposites. Empathy is I feel your pain and therefore I make your pain real. Your pain isn't real and thus you have been harmed by me. Compassion is I carry your apparent pain on your behalf. I take it away from you and thus you have been helped by me. Former keeps you stuck. Latter gets you beyond. Empathy is saying, I acknowledge what you are going through my friend. = pretty much worthless Compassion is saying, my friend there is another way. = pretty much priceless
  10. My take is, anyone who has interest in the world is a fraud. The world is my past coming to life to see how I deal with it. I am not looking to keep on giving it energy. I have to learn that lesson and drop the significance of it being there. I am here for me. My breadcrumbs may be useful for you. But I am not fussed if you don't visit my ashram.
  11. The 1001 things cannot be fully understood. This place doesn't have any logic. When Newton thought he cracked it along comes Einstein and proves there is something completely different in relativity. And as we know Einstein's approach doesn't come close to explaining it all. Nothing here can ever make sense. It is an idle hologram. Do what counts only.
  12. We do spar on the regular. Gloves come off. But it always deepens understanding. We can both take good hits. And hints at the ultimate.
  13. Osho was laser focussed on the one things that is important. Sadhguru is very knowledgeable and therefore teaches those 1001 things that people care about. Choose your path carefully.
  14. Speak kindly but always carry a big stick. - me coining some Churchill aphorisms
  15. I'd say he is far and away the most advanced mind here and if you don't see that, that speaks a lot about your understanding. He speaks from direct experience and explains simply and elegantly. Never needs to quote another source. He gets emotional but that makes him the more authentic since people are too dim to see the pointers and emotion is a way to convey personal things even more powerfully. He writes a lot but is not on the forum that much if you look at his timeline. That makes his contribution all the more impressive.
  16. Actually you are promoting his very well I would say. What he says accords with my lived experience. But I also agree with you, that this does very deep below the surface and it is near impossible for most to access. You would be a good teacher. I think you have a lot of advanced stuff to communicate and you do that well. You should consider formally writing stuff or starting a podcast / channel.
  17. This is true. However you should still enforce boundaries and purchase insurance to stop the fan being hit with shit. You are not to allow yourself to be in evil's crosshairs for evil to unleash. To do so is to cooperate with that very evil. Get out of dodge before that hurricane hits. Everything is perfect but don't take no shit from no one. Only by keeping oneself strong in mind and body can you be the light you came here to be. Mostly for yourself but others may catch some drift too.
  18. Great job. Definitely something to do again. A top-line cathartic process. Glad you sorted out your tooth. Thanks for sharing this. I need to do another of these soon.
  19. I think therefore I am clueless - gettoefl Maybe I need to enter no think more often specially when the solipsism threads come up
  20. Everything here is a lie. Ego only gives to receive more. Contracts don't matter. I do what benefits me. You be damned. By contrast, mystics will smack you as hard as they can get away with to awaken you. Worlds and egos will not accept that. I am the ruling god here not you.
  21. Problem with enlightenment is it can't be taught, it can only be pointed at and nudged towards. You don't know if they have it and they don't know if you have it. One can only know oneself and the progress that one is making I made big leaps under Osho no doubt
  22. When you limit love by saying I love you, you get this. Limited love is an illusion, an idea, an illness, an imposter. How about going back to the unlimited and love it all. Only then god is real You have been making god up your whole life. God doesn't know limited shit. Why waste time on junk. Ignores but Allows You have at it as long as you wish. You are cool, right?