gettoefl

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  1. One boy's blast is another girl's blessed.
  2. Does fear exist? No. It is a rope appearing as a snake. I misperceived. I enslaved myself. I limited myself. There was nothing to fear. When seen, it departs. The snake was never there. It was a rope the whole time. This may be realised. That the limited mind is non-existent. Absolute Mind is the causeless source and the true nature.
  3. Was it in the news or in the nows. If the first it is plain lies. If second, when are you going to step up? To veer to the highest truth, you need only heal one other to heal the world. Try it. As Janet Jackson put it, what have you done for me lately?
  4. Conscious relationship is to come to the world with no needs to only give and to be non-exclusive. Others may range from madonnas to murderers. Not a problem what they do or how they respond. You do what you have to. If on the other hand you still have needs, then play the normal game.
  5. Worth a read: https://www.reddit.com/r/immortalists/comments/1tdf6et/maintaining_a_healthy_circadian_rhythm/
  6. No need to limit God. It lives a one-entity life and dreams a short-lived two-entity game. Me against me where we both forget we are me and pit our intelligence against each other. Where do I sign up?
  7. Romance is putting cart before horse. Do a fun activity. If good go for a bite. If good watch something on a screen. If good, cosy up under a blankie and whisper choice sweet nothings. Boom! Romance is a scam invented by Hallmark Hershey's Hollywood to name but 3.
  8. Even A Course in Miracles leaves love well alone:
  9. The 3 cardinal sins are: don't be shorter than her, don't earn less than her, don't appear less smart than her. Then it's green lights all the way to paradise as the song goes.
  10. Women need to be attractive since men are required to ejaculate-to-perpetuate. Women by contrast are thinking ahead to the future. That's why Victoria has a secret but Victor has always been an open book - if you catch my drift.
  11. There is nothing here and nothing begets nothing. When in a desert, don't plant crops and build mansions, they will crack and crumble. Turn back and go the way you came. This isn't home. You know your home but for now you rather fantasize about booty and benzes.
  12. You have to see that anger is self harm. The other is not affected. To see this makes for re-evaluating. Why do I insist on punishing myself for no positive worldly outcome. I should get serious and heal my madness. The opposite of anger is forgiveness. Everyone is doing what I would do in their shoes. They are helpless to do otherwise. I however am not helpless. Because I value truth. And anger is a blockage to truth. Since if I say I am angry. It's a self-deception. I am deluded and as a consequence see not truth.
  13. Good. Sticking to it is the key. Even weekends if I sleep late I still get up same time. Body can handle since it has sleep reserves. I really feel that sleep quality mirrors life quality. If you sleep good, life will be good. All else can fluctuate and not be bothersome. Good sleep is the true self care. I know many struggle with this so I sympathise with their plight. I hope you will get it sorted double quick.
  14. Moving to a new city and adopting a new lifestyle does make sleep particularly challenging and it often suffers as a result. In any case, what has worked for me is to have the same bed-time every day (bar some weekend trips or outings when I will roll with what is happening). I sleep at 10pm and arise at 6am and have done this for many years. I am fortunate to enjoy deep quality sleep but I attribute this to a consistent routine. I am not a fan of naps since I would rather be dead tired at bed time - though I do switch into low energy slow mode after 5pm dinner when I pass time doing meditation, reading, scrolling, stretching and streaming. I feel worn out when I go to bed and am almost right away asleep. I enjoy sleeping as it gives me a good system reset and any body niggles will resolve themselves. My cat usually begins crying as soon as the sun rises which is annoying but I have nearly trained her out of this and if I am therefore awake I will rest peacefully until the alarm goes off. I rate my sleep quality high and feel energized and enthused for the day at hand. Hope some of this may help and wishing you good luck in your new endeavours.
  15. World peace is cessation of hostilities until real peace. Someone is always going to want your stuff no matter how rich or developed they are. Real peace meanwhile surpasses understanding and is a change of eyesight.