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Pride for me is knowing what I am. Gratitude is who told me. I couldn't have done it alone. Pride is the extent to which I choose the real me. Most days are 10/10. Pride is making the ego humble. It's next to nothing but I do need it a while. It does my bidding not me its. It knows its place. It's my favourite pet. I'm grateful for it since without it how could I know me. I'm proud of me. I came a long way.

Of course there is exceptions which is why I said rarely. Anyone awake is beyond silly rules. For most it backfires. Man is lazy, takes a back seat and lets woman wear the pants. Fair play if that's what works.

Anger isn't chosen; it arises automatically or not. If it does, I can either continue it through more interpretation or release it to allow for non-interference. One sustains misperception; while release of anger allows reality to be clearly seen.

I am going to give every cent to my kids. Maybe one day they do same for me. Of course with me gone they will do same for their kids. It's perfect life.

Woman has next to no interest in a man not into her or who witholds interest signals. Life's too short and plenty more fish in the sea. If she makes first moves, she compromises herself since this is the entire foundation of a potential relationship. She makes herself weak and desperate. Yes sometimes indeed rarely she will bypass this for a greater good - take a risk. Fact is that he must do the initial lifting to get it off the ground. Man decides on day 1 if she is right for him. She takes her sweet time deciding. So if she jumps in first beware - its a false flag.

God is what is. God's genius is that it allowed ways to block itself from awareness and ways to resume itself to awareness. This universe is the blocking mechanism. Everything here blocks. Spirituality is restoring awareness. Not many understand alas. Hopefully this clicks for some. I have talked about how to restore awareness elsewhere. I learned from ACIM.

Give up others and thinking of them and learning from them. You have to do the work. Do the work and share what is good. When you share, you share so that you yourself understand. That is the only reason I write here.

Worldview is fixed until one is an adult. Then I don't need to like it or lump it like before. I can leave it and embrace what I please. The world is my oyster. In my case, I lived half my life in UK and half in US. I thus deconstructed the myopic worldview handed me that UK is the Great Empire, the Lingua Franca and Heaven's Choice. The goggles came off and I could find more objective and salutary views, I'm not of the white race but the human race.

What I said was, everything is a choice. Default is fear. Everyone is walking around feeling uneasy. But you can change that. You can choose love. And what's amazing is, you will see only love. First just glimpses. Then it gets more stable. Takes massive intentionality and much practice.

A 5yo can understand this. Which word is difficult?

It isn't what you see; it is how you see. What you see does not change. You decide to see it right. And then all you see is light.

No it is completely ordinary. Our default is to make everything separate and scary. We need to decide to drop this any time we can remember. This opens us up to what is real. Eventually it can be the default.

There are two steps to take. 1 - Nothing can disturb me. 2 - The nothing I believed could possibly disturb me was all the while me.

You don't think you put them there to make you a lovely drink?

My standard farewell to everyone I meet is: Lots of love