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anger is something we need to get on top of in relationship it is important but has to appropriate and respectful out of control anger is unacceptable fix you first then love me

it is solvable like i said but you have entered the worldly relationship realm now instead of divine relationship ... it is just my opinion for me fights leave scars

after bad words we and they become damaged goods we see each other through new eyes can be salvaged takes time and forgiveness ... but the cat is out of the bag and cannot return

yes

with such words, the 1st time you say them to another is huge, it a watershed moment sometimes it can't be recovered from ... other times it is just a heated argument but relationship has entered new disrespectful territory afterwards

can destroy a relationship imo ... but if you have a vibe where that is acceptable for you to say and to have it said at you ... then there's no problem ... same with the b-word, some folks roll like that

the b-word to a woman is the n-word to a black person is the f-word to a gay person (fa*) is the a-word to a man (arsehole) inflammatory and unacceptable

insanity is the mind running your life, you are not mind is what meditation reveals, you are the one who can instead watch your mind

embody > i'm body

the unawake see the enlightened as sad and lonely ... how can a person not want booze birds benzes the enlightened see the unawake as sad and lonely ... how can a person not walk to escape insanity slavery hostility

if i die tonight, what do i want the world to know

just like when it happened to jesus, one enters that same void then resurrects into one's true nature ... namely there is no self just god in charge haven't gotten that far but if you want to read one who has, bernadette roberts explicates it well

when true self becomes no self, god dies too ... or rather experience of god ... god is not experience ... it is beyond duality

i sit at 3 in the morning by the time i finish it's getting light which is a bit annoying as you are seeing the end on the meditation and wishing it done solution is wear eye pads or tie a bandanna around your eyes stays dark now, much better ... simple solutions are good

anyone non spiritual is in a state of conflict either bashing the world or being bashed by the world and frequently this is unconscious ... they think this is how life is first realize this and have compassion second, the most spiritual person seems the least spiritual ... there is no indication of any spiritual identity ... the work was done on the mat and is no more paid attention to third probably the key component of the spiritual person is impenetrable boundaries you cannot affect them in any way ... everything is water off the duck's back ... they are immovable in the storm with all that said whether another is spiritual or not is immaterial and probably would not need any discussion in getting to know someone or even dating them everyone is in fact spiritual and on their own path to redemption

solipsism is the crossroads of philosophy and spirituality the mental and the mystical awakening 101 the dividing point from which the crowd dare go no further

understand from the highest perspective there are not goals purposes meanings destinies god is just hanging out, looking around, having fun my approach is live each day like it is one complete lifetime grateful to open my eyes in the morning, a fresh new excited child eager to see what existence is showing, leaving it all on the field exhausted each night it is all gravy, it is all grace, it is all glorious

the only master baiting you need

ego is powerlessness you are asking how can i go back to ego and be powerful that's a contradiction god consciously creates reality eternally

better to work on the soul

solipsism is mind claiming enlightenment namely i am everything enlightenment is everything being is knowing but not conversely

love just bid a fond sincere goodbye each night, if you are given another day repeat

god does not know anything even itself god is god doesn't do any doing

you cannot experience god mind is what experiences, you aren't mind even as god you cannot experience god you would need to be mind all experience of god is illusion

have to see that sex / porn / fap is our trying to touch taste trance with the divine ... if we get the right perspective it drops right off recommend osho's from sex to superconciousness https://oshosearch.net/Convert/Articles_Osho/From_Sex_to_Superconsciousness/Osho-From-Sex-to-Superconsciousness-index.html