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are these pet peeves deal breakers for you then? if you are sharing personal items in that case each one needs to modify their behaviour, the ideal alternative being just have separate bathrooms ... so find out if they are flexible in their behaviours ... for me i am happy to sleep with them before digging into such details since if i bond with them i am much more happy to compromise how i do things

an --- eeeee --- chaaaa --- the end of an itcher sit don't scratch the name of the game follow the instructions no pain no gain ?

f-eel e-verything a- r-isk is it ok to venture out yet? nah why not wallow here a few more eons

1st half of life LP 2nd half of life balls to the wall enlightenment ... in the first half you are making yourself comfortable so 2nd half you can put your feet up i still advocate plenty of spiritual work no matter what season of life you're in

i sleep at 7 and get up at 3 so the day is won before most are getting up ... best life change ever ... i realised the night hours are utterly wasteful futile unwholesome and turned my life around ... i allow two cheat days per month for say a date or a live sporting event

universe puts two people together all the time, don't fall for the hormonal trap ... ensure you are on the same page with life direction before sleeping with someone or pay a hefty price in wounds conflicts and tears

bless you ?

yes that's in line with what i am saying i am talking the period between 1st date and 1st sex this can be out places, texting, phoning ... just cover all the bases and make sure the person is what you need

the more you go through the school of hard knocks you get more serious and leave the romantic ideals in the dust you change no one, you want to establish a minimum level of compatibility to sleep with someone, it isn't rocket science

certain of the answers for me will mean a hard no to a prospective partner and other answers will be a soft no - something i can work with if other factors are in place

yes the majority of the time together is going with the flow and enjoy their energy charm style ... also recognise there is an agenda at hand and it requires knowing some basic informtaion about the other which each should have no problem sharing and discussing ... it is all about emotional maturity and realizing we have constraints and need to seize the day and not behave like love struck teenagers who want to leave things unspoken and mysterious ... this is a recipie for broken hearts ... it doesn't need to be an interview, you just want to find out the important aspects of their personality

that's how a forum can help, this is a 7 question conversation people could avail of i thought it out long and hard based on experience, it is pretty comprehensive although something may be missing

of course dates need to be fun but it needs to be recognised there is a bigger matter to figure out compatibility this is not to do with feelings, this is to do with people's lifestyle past present future to sleep with someone before knowing this is highly reckless and the reason people get hurt if these issues are covered, chances of being hurt are closer to zero of course people can lie but if they do then that's a reason to cut them off and ghost them

perfect - this kind of contract would save lion's share of the questions on this forum - people be trying to have sex with no idea what they should be looking out for

polite has to go out of the window if you want to win the prize, you have to be ruthless since life gives one chance

it is a serious topic, the rest of your life is in the balance here, we are screening for someone's maturity and readiness to be in relationship dates are interviews until sex pretty much

BETWEEN 1st date and 1st sleeping together, this could take time

my question was the MINIMUM needed to sleep with someone and have a firm foundation to build something deeper these are nice to have not have to have

you misread the question for a second time

how could you not talk about protection if you were sleeping with them

god enjoys looking in the mirror, this isn't bad this isn't good this right here is god

you haven't power but there is tons of it at work, just get aboard the train and enjoy

young and hot is amenable to rich with status, is a tale as old as time the young has lived 1/4 of their life and sacrifices 1/4 ... the rich has lived 3/4 and enjoys the last 1/4 the young has a pampered carefree second 1/4 and the opportunity of inheriting all the loot, in order to really enjoy their second 1/2 it is win win win

yes - i call it the way of existence

gratitude is the barrier, it creates ties and expectations, you owe nothing and you are owed nothing, every action was given and received for its own sake, no other reason, you have a few million breaths remaining in the dream, stay in your lane - forget about others - just do you