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heart is merely the good part of mind which is good but this is duality and needs transcending

is your ego entitled to play the role of god? your ego in the ways you list is trying to be god of everyone but in completely the wrong way

you have to ask what resonates for you all the people you cite are good and you will intellectually benefit but if it is aimed at men will it be actionable for you you need to find material that you can implement immediately

doing what no one else can do namely doing what you came to earth to do in other words not letting the world drag you around by the nose and tell you its priorities like it does everyone else carve out the life that benefits you and you alone this takes guts vision will power

never a more true statement written

the friend compliments the better friend criticises ... they challenge you they don't just comfort you ... can you take it?

1. know yourself 2. communicate this self's essence in a compelling concise cute way both of which take some deep work

ramped up meditation to 120 hours a month, my meditation goal is to not think about meditation off the mat so when i sit i am meditating as if for the first time without a clue how to meditate, only thing i can say is is that it gets easier, experiences or awakenings are not happening but for me meditation is the end of these not the beginning, haven't any interest in the unearned wisdom of psychedelics

matches what i experience too, thanks

he may be softening but he still buddhist bashes on the regular even in his latest video and that is what we are talking about no?

yea? who? buy yea now you mention it you are right, but this person wasn't found wanting in my direct experience edit: nope isn't leo i am channeling if there is infinite consciousness what will make you think you can plumb its depths

leo has not connected these two dots, in fact as far as i can tell, he disparages the quieting the mind which leads to no mind; he champions what one might call the ever ongoing expansiveness of consciousness and the journey exploring this

no matter what god realization you have you are scratching the surface resist squandering your few remaining breaths admiring the panorama and let go the self congratulatory airs of superiority your work has far to go only you can do it

your scenario is a massive deal with the devil when you wake up, every moment is overwhelming bliss better than any unreliable orgasmic bliss, what you are doing is preventing one from reaching so a hard no from me, no pun intended

doesn't mean you need to up sticks and go elsewhere, you do need a solid comfy base ... get out of your comfort zone by taking cold showers, doing some meditation, improving your diet, writing a journal, entertaining different ideas etc. ... every day of your life you should be doing something uncomfortable

insults are a great spiritual teacher, until you can walk in the room take a barrage of insults and not flinch a muscle you are not waking up meanwhile if you can't take them, you need to get out of the firing line or build a better wall ... your boundaries are ineffective

meditation is true self love where one cherishes cultivates contemplates champions one's beautiful magnificent divine essence note that mind has no interest in meditation in fact it brings stiff and unwavering resistance, meditation is its death warrant after all

the sickness of the mind is dividing the world into yummy and yucky it is impossible for something yummy to make you happy The Great Way is not difficult for those who have no preferences. When love and hate are both absent everything becomes clear and undisguised. Make the smallest distinction, however, and heaven and earth are set infinitely apart. Hsin Hsin Ming, Seng Ts'an

understand that you do need ego to live here so you have to learn when ego is appropriate behaviour knowing your personality and behaving accordingly is ego, you do this for your own sanity don't bash your ego or make enemy of it else the backlash is far worse

any time you want things to stay the same, that's the ego also if someone asks you a question and you give them the same answer you gave someone else, that's the ego so a good exercise is to say, what was different today and did i help it to be different or did i resist it habits can be helpful but also unhelpful, do the same things but do them in different ways, ego wants to do things with eyes tightly shut

this is a very good book https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mathematics-Nonmathematician-Morris-Kline/dp/0486248232

one person if not both of them needs to be mature assertive practical dispassionate and say to the other even after sleeping with them, these are my rules of engagement, i would appreciate any that you have

rookie error was you thought his standards would be the same as yours, next time set your stall at the beginning, live and learn

every person has a different definition of cheating it is a highly unhelpful word due to its ambiguous and hysterical connotations at the start of relationship write down that which you accept that which you don't accept and the consequences of breaches and have the other do the same

the other good one that is a stumbling block is victim all of us bring out the victim card at some time or other, why is the world forever bating me hounding me persecuting me some who know not better attach to this mentality for their whole life the opposite archetype is perpetrator ... which is often used as a judgemental label by those who profess to be the victim osho mentions you will be a victim in this life as karmic consequence of being a victor (perpetrator) in previous life, you are paying for your past sinful cruelty ... of course if you see this message you can terminate the insanity right now