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meaning is what you seek/find, happiness is what your bring/get meaning is external and social, happiness is internal and personal they are separate pursuits but can overlap, the overlap would be self actualization

mindfulness is a useful tool ... but basically what is needed is disidentification with action ... when that happens body mind seems to lose interest in doing stuff since no fuel is being given to maintain this personna ... then the body mind is free to pursue different stuff

addictions are mindlessness ... bring mindfulness to them ... then you go from being a zombie to a yogi in a nutshell, the path is not letting mind body convince you it is you ... you are not that ... like razard86 says bring attention care love to what the mind body is doing ... ride along with it but don't get drunk on it

dont do something every day, that is slavery, be intelligent and listen to your body, be smart enough to mix up what you need, be thinking always and don't ever be a robot attachment is the only sin

you got to be dead tired when you hit the hay every night ... for me this means good amounts of working out and walking about interspersed through the day

the syntax is just like the letters of the words ... all the syntax makes sense when you play around with it and you realize it can not be any other way ... yes you need to have spent some years around it but then you see that is the best, the most shorthand, the most efficient way to get the ideas across ... you will never forget the letters of the alphabet and likewise the language of maths becomes equally ingrained

re the topic at hand there is peeking, and there is peaking only one of which lasts

i'm pretty advanced at maths ... years back i made myself forget everything so that every problem is solved from first principles i know no mathematics yet i can solve most every maths problem even advanced stuff like the 4-color theorem i determined to keep my mind empty so it was primed for creative insights ... this proved wise and timely as i got some good papers published this is what good mathematicians do in fact it takes minutes to go from zero to the absolute frontier of mathematics if you train yourself i look at it as intuition, i don't need the intermediate steps, i can attack any problem and it makes perfect sense, i get there by a quicker path than anyone has before, people think maths is hard, no your mind is full of lots of useless nonsense that is preventing you from seeing the truth am also perfectly happy to avail of google to collaborate and corroborate ... all about deepening one's insights and mastery

this body rises at 3 sits until 7, doing nothing is a mystifying waste of time and major annoyance for a mind, the rest of the day anything is ok happy to die the way things are

shame is fearing that they will know the real you the antidote is knowing yourself and your quirks and loving your good and your bad and not giving any fucks that others know

nobody wants others to label them a psychopath, an addict, a monster

shame is useful for anyone unconscious (ie controlled by mind) since it holds one in check from running amok on the other hand if you wake up you can go beyond it and be comfortable sharing your totality warts wounds and all

shame is because (almost) everyone leads a double life and doesn't want another to see our hypocrisy and call us out on it we feel shame since we are hiding our lived reality we fear shame when our lived reality is made public in any way we don't live in wholeness and authenticity and integrity and so shame is a constant companion standing ready to pull down our house of cards what is the antidote? drip with confidence about every aspect of yourself and be articulate in selling that version of yourself to the world delight in being an outlier in a world of people pleasers and approval seekers

seriousness is when you stop letting life push you around, the frivolous person meanwhile goes with the flow and wants to fit in and be accepted wake tf up and start living like it you have fewer breaths than you could possibly imagine to get this shit right

conviction is to figure what's right for me bravery is doing it know me, do me everyday my agenda is to plan me and execute me opposite is to adopt another's vision of course every day we have to follow an agenda and schedule set by others, this is the price of living in society to be brave is to be that one in a million who gives priority and energy and commitment to your path to ignore it provided it is pointed out is cowardice bravery is, what have i done that goes against the grain for my own benefit today? a day without bravery, is a waste of a day

use comparison as a tool for healthy pride in your own unique outstanding journey rather than envy as to where another happens to be ... where they are is actually none of your business except as a source of ideas and perhaps entertainment the only question to ask is, what have i done today to benefit my own evolution ... friends are a yard-stick for what i could be working on today

do it with unremitting totality until you see its utter stupidity the sickening shallowness the unquenchable superficiality ... no human in their right mind wants your saggy pathetic member doing vigorous push ups on their poor sweating trapped vessel just be done with it already here is imo osho's best book on sex: https://oshosearch.net/Convert/Articles_Osho/From_Sex_to_Superconsciousness/Osho-From-Sex-to-Superconsciousness-index.html

let me share my insight, mindfulness equals PM, AM present moment, absent memory dump the memory is key to waking up

came to say the same, ego is enslavement and destiny and god is freedom and reality ego has no choice, it just repeats the past god has every possibility, it is creating the future

investigate what is bad for you through direct experience take the attitude that everything is good for you then exclude those few bad things eg food, i like anything and everything so i eat a variety of foods and this is good for me ... a few currys don't agree with my tummy so i steer clear be open minded flexible adventurous

you value staying alive (needs) and you value a good life (wants)

have 10 books on the go, when you reach point where you need to implement, leave it and go to the other 9 dont come back til you have implemented it ... i have some books i have not touched for a year because of this but will get there at some point

religion is good in as much as people want to connect and hang out; it is about making spirituality practical and down to earth i think the salvation army and the unity church movement are good examples of this in action

sex is necessary for both to know any future potential ... sooner is better but this presupposes both are seeking long term there is casual and there is serious i would say 2-3 dates/meetings to decide whether casual potential or serious potential prior to sex, both should state which they are in it for good wisdom here too: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/125h4e1/do_men_lose_feelings_if_you_both_have_s3x_too/

ai curates the past, i creates the future end of it's seed, i'm fruit ai is my co-pilot in this, what it gives me is its end and that end is my beginning