gettoefl

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  1. your idea of surrendering to the "abyss of existence" is a way to dropping the ego ...it is the ego's constant need to probe ideas, create timelines, and build self-images that keeps us trapped in a cycle of suffering and limitation and your idea of "merging with reality" is akin to what acim calls "the holy instant" where we drop all defenses, judgments, fears, and open ourselves to the truth of our being and in such moments, we then experience a glimpse of what it means to be one with everything, to see the perfection in all that is, and to feel the deep peace that comes from knowing that there is no need to control or protect ourselves. i liked your anecdote about the old man passing by, and the invitation to open our hearts to his suffering ... forgiveness is not about dismissing the pain in the world, but rather seeing beyond it to recognise the shared essence that connects us and the illusory nature of the separation that seems to cause this suffering ... to truly "lose our life" is to drop the ego's interpretations, and in doing so, to connect to our true self which is one with all. i agree there are no shortcuts and it requires a willingness to confront and overcome our own resistance, and a commitment to see beyond the ego's illusions ... yet each moment of surrender brings us closer to the freedom you talk about ... and in this state, we not only find our own salvation but will also become instruments of healing and peace for others ... this is spiritual work, the work of remembering who we really are and extending that truth to everyone we encounter
  2. yes ... every form is the infinite finitising itself into time and space and rubbing shoulders with other forms of itself each pretending they are different so they can create some you are not going to believe this - adventures to talk about at heaven's water cooler once one understands this, it loses a little lustre and it is time to pick up the toys and go home to do this, you stop finding any fault with the world knowing it's a silly game that you have been playing for way too long doing this it collapses
  3. peace is i dropped all grievances and judgements in the world since 1. i know i am dreaming this up and 2. non-peace is what harms me keeping the dream madness going
  4. god hasn't a clue you're here and truth is you are not ... how could a perfect god entertain death when all in heaven is simply fab
  5. the problem with thinking is you believe it, i am this right? i am that right? yea sounds about right to me no wrong, thought has you in its clutches and controls your life you are nothing to do with thought leave it alone see who you are
  6. THERE FIXED IT ... YOU'RE WELCOME ... MAKE SURE TO APPEND TO YOUR DATING PROFILES 😂
  7. nice is you call the shots, real is my way or the highway women ime dig the latter since by nature they already bring plenty of nice to the table so they want and need and respect the opposite and a man indeed wants to call the shots since he will be the one who will be making the big decisions such as getting down on one knee
  8. my personal manifesto is definitely leave the world be, maybe god will work through me
  9. yes she's gold, she's the forum wifey
  10. i don't need to monitor his personal life to know he's wise on this topic and speaks with uncommon depth and nuance
  11. it's seen as living the dream though
  12. that's your misunderstanding, he speaks this way at times for those who require such talk
  13. you going to walk down the aisle alone?
  14. knowing is being, there is just one thing, all else is believing and is false truth aka god has no interest need or desire for what is false, heaven suffices on its own merits two is utter impossibility
  15. you lose interest which kills ego, when it is good and dead, you gain interest which unleashes spirit in other words deal with fake you first then save the world with real you
  16. the meaning of this is women in general need a man with a plan, a man who will map out the best life possible for her and him and execute it, that's the only way her dreams can come true beginning with nuptials kids and/or the white picket fence
  17. not the best take either, leo isn't trying to do pick up
  18. kind but can you kick the shit out of someone when needed in the unkindest way possible, just to protect your family though
  19. what i am demands and desires what i am not, the bigger and bolder the contrast and the better the assumed fit nice needs naughty
  20. does your left hand need me in order to know your right hand duality is true false, non-duality is true ... god can't know anything false
  21. yes it is deep, but can't believe it is that simple, been looking for such insight for years, fascinating thread, i bless you Mario ❤
  22. thanks for the CC videos @MarioGabrielJ will give a try to that technique at that next moon cycle in acim which i study, Christ Consciousness is achieved as follows: you first accept the Atonement, recognizing that the visible world is an illusion and gradually through practice you are no longer affected by it. You then give your life to the Holy Spirit, saying, "This world holds no further value, so guide me forthwith according to God's will." In so doing, you become an embodiment for Christ's love and forgiveness, representing the Christ that the world around you needs.
  23. everything you said is correct except the last bit ... sex keeps you a body, it's a trap and dead end ... youi won't reach heaven, uniting bodies is just part of the movie, awakening is about a oneness that does not exclude ... that's the road to heaven thanks for sharing your experience
  24. body is trying to keep you a body - read osho's from sex to superconsciousness - sex needs to be dropped, it is just a taste to convince you that there is something blissful available to you, it is your first encounter with the divine ... there is much more and much profounder available best wishes