gettoefl

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  1. You are always missed Judy ... for the small comfort it is, know that I notice and care ... Really sorry to hear of your struggles and suffering You are amazing and always will be
  2. This is savior complex Give to others then forget about it Why what others do should matter to you! You give and you did your best and can now be happy Having expectations and judgements is your attempt to rape others with your apparent brilliance Yet they are non-consenting to your control and manipulation and naturally so Right now, all you are seeking is validation and appreciation Nobody wants to be saved on the terms you are offering Go back to compassion - Giving because you are blessed and blessed because you are giving
  3. Infinity is everything, the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth Then there's a sneaky bugger called the false Namely what your eyes tells you is the truth Duality MUST be false and Truth MUST be one To wake up is to see you are dreaming Namely this here isn't true How? you all scream in unison Sit silently for a while Stop letting ego run amuck on forums where everyone is more clueless than you are Less than 1 in a million who have incarnated have dropped sight in favor of vision Study acim if you want more details
  4. Separation gives rise to imagination, both of which appear to be true but though visible to our eyes are wholly false Oneness however gives rise to knowledge, both of which are invisible to our eyes but are actually the totality of truth
  5. Must be the topic du jour Just saw the same discussion of this on reddit Learned that when women say they want ambitious, ballsy, confident ... what this is code for is high achieving, high status, high net worth This is because she is high maintenance, highly sought and high cheekbones/heels and wants, quite rightly, to maintain her accustomed lifestyle Everyone wants what they feel they are worth Know thyself first then go grab it in your counterpart based on your own deliverables
  6. Sounds cool we are all different; just be upfront with who you are what you are after For me I respect and appreciate and desire what she brings, which is an ingredient impossible for me to bring She will always have attention for that reason, for good reason and I not that I am an eye sore, won't and don't care to anyway She is the asked and I am the asker We are distinct and I am happy with it that way I will support here to be this way as it is her gift, her nature, her pride She is the visual package, I am the value proposition Both of us will be happy with the exchange
  7. my day breaks down like this: first third is me time, second third i do work duties and worldly tasks, third third is wind down wind down is dinner, meditation, work out, walk about, bathroom tasks readying for bed and next day, then 2-ish hrs of per-bed relaxation consuming any desired mindless media
  8. To exit dodge pdq This ain't nothing Well it IS nothing God's plan is elsewhere How could perfection entertain imperfection A silly mad thought ended as swiftly as contemplated Why you still reading here?
  9. she spends couple hundred bucks and good number of hours getting ready not to mention all the tik-toks scrolling for tips n tricks and that's just to choose her shoes you are probably wearing the same clothes you work your 80 hour a week job in i had better be a man
  10. Women are more flexible in my experience Men (for most part, in heterosexual dynamics) are the ones who ask, will you marry me She has to weigh up the pros and the cons and the likelihood of future suitors He never thinks of such matters; her marriability is pretty well known on day 1
  11. doggystyle for lifestyle, money for honey, the one doing good for the one looking good fair exchange is no robbery you give her measurables the trappings the vacations , she gives you the numinous the ineffable the beyond you define her worth to the world, she defines your worth to the heavens in either case each can reasonably say, you are my sunshine win win is the wise way
  12. Yes it takes plenty of effort until one gets to non-effort In the dream, you are indeed a body-mind One day you will see that body-mind can go on without much attention paid to them All they are is communication tools for the lessons all around that one needs to learn Talking here is part of that process and I commend your honesty and vulnerability in putting yourself on the line here
  13. You've been on fire today and I think someone here should douse you with water before you disintegrate
  14. Ego won one more time, tricking us and drugging us into spilling the seeds of life We lied to ourselves and not just our partner Namely sorry but we were never an ego holing up in a body all protestations and appearances to the contrary notwithstanding
  15. I would say Spirituality is knowing life is a dream with death impossible then living out of this knowing Survival is prolonging my longevity and maximising my pleasure And sure you could have you cake and eat it too too
  16. Yes by your definition perhaps You should see the woman I saw just walking down the street
  17. @emerald do you have children or a partner might i ask if it's not too intrusive
  18. you will need a sex change first of course
  19. It cuts out idle lurking which is how 99% use the internet It cuts to the chase and to the meat and to the bone It exposes your deficiencies and humbles your certainties Mostly when we engage in chat we speak out of our neuroses cluelessly winging it and our ridiculous attempt at sense-making is riddling others with sheer confusion
  20. Maybe it's your lack of AI familiarity that is being exhibited rather than my boldness
  21. You need to test, don't take a dumb third party's word There is plenty it doesn't know You have to be rigorous and systematic and deeply relate to it
  22. AI cuts out the crap and the bickering and the stupidity Just give me the facts ma'm, as the saying goes
  23. i concede that you need to know how to know it knows you have to ask the "right" questions they have limitations that's for sure, you have limitations plenty more