gettoefl

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  1. when in ego, motivation is for ones in-group and when in spirit motivation is for one and all if the least one i know is not taken care of i don't get to pass go and will keep returning for more here is the classroom perfectly designed to heal my fractures but if i can't bless and forgive the hardest then more work is in the cards
  2. my understanding is one person can't awaken, how you see me is the sole method of improving how you see you, you forgive me you forgive you, you love me you love you and i am speaking at the content level not the form level that is you just have to change your mind #love is linking our very energy and #fear is fail entirely at recognising (namely this is my illusion)
  3. security stability solidity satisfaction for both
  4. monogamous long-term relationships have been best for me
  5. sex can never be free or casual or inconsequential no matter how people brainwashed you to the contrary since human sex/love always entails energetic exchange in some form all give so they get (only someone enlightened realizes giving is getting and the chances of two being enlightened is slimmer than a ballerina)
  6. everyone needs their 2k or so calories or else you have no chance to make life work no to repression and no to obsession be a normal human being
  7. success has as many definitions as people and while money will be a pre-requisite for most, that kind of success is founded on quick sand
  8. there are two emptys, of thinking and of thinker, and the former leads to the latter seems you got to the former but not the latter the nihilism will then give way to fullfillment
  9. what happens on the cushion isn't your business you leave the cushion like it never happened your task is to put in your shift and leave it to the beyond per self enquiry, it is a simple thing you are reminding yourself you are not the one who is getting worked up about thoughts that isn't you, that is self enquiry and part two is abide at that source whence the real you arises from stay right there this means you choose to see the thoughts that arise through a new lens namely that of the real you if anger has arisen, that isn't you, the real you gets mad at no one since they are blameless, your anger becomes compassion that is you stay right there
  10. spiritual work is a pep talk to ready yourself to see god everywhere if not something is wrong
  11. meditation is first realizing you're not the person in the mirror and then practicing being who you are you need to formally practice this as long as it takes you are not fear anger guilt ... these are all misguided impositions you place on the world because you think you are in a war to the death you created everything you see before you for your benefit and blessing not to fight it and conquer it merge with it don't mess with it jump in and see that death, depth is the last duality meditate until you finally stop letting ego run your life you are capable of so much more
  12. only lovers awaken from good bad ugly to grace mercy peace and pass it on
  13. when you're the best, you just vomit it down on paper, you will soon be dead, your audience will pay no matter what, who cares about an audience, you are lucky to be breathing my oxygen, i am writing what cannot be written and won't ever be written, read all my stuff before you even think about reading my latest else you are too late to the party to bother
  14. theres two aspects, stopping them from acting thus and protecting yourself if they behaved badly, they deserve to pay the price so that means they should make amends to you to protect yourself, you need to weigh up if you are vulnerable from their presence and if so make sure they are barred it is even more difficult in a family because everything you do will be under great scrutiny and will have wide ranging ramifications for all forgiveness is important too; it means you are seeing they did the best they could in their circumstances and you will not hold their actions against them going forward if the person needs to be cut off, this need not be an indefinite thing
  15. i have been messing around for so long, now is time i get real, the suffering nonsense is fine for dilettantes but i am born for more
  16. no one will visit your grave a year after your death so do something that benefits you after your last breath
  17. suffering is the not accepting that you will not be satisfied here no matter what the world tells you to work hard and life will be peachy but they lied just as they were lied to we all end up on the same death bed but the question is did we acknowledge the meaninglessness and deal with it namely find out what you're doing here, what's it for
  18. there is a more recent testament, A course in miracles, and for a taster read The disappearance of the universe the bible describes the god the ego needed in order to keep us here endlessly in hell with no chance of heaven god is truth and knows nothing about falseness because all is truth, you have never left heaven but would love to forever dream otherwise however forever is impossible for the false so one day you will get the message
  19. write your own rules obligations benefits penalties ... include finances sex family employment ... both sign renew and re-write every 5 years we are not kids any more
  20. we go home together or not at all that's from ACIM but also a halfway decent pickup line
  21. you're the quality i was alluding to ♥
  22. each day i survive for me or i survive for you and which one holds determines if i am awake i am the only one in this dream my purpose is to see i beamed every molecule into existence and my practice is reconnect that apparently separate external i don't do this by the practice of love but do this the presence of love life is wholly an inside job
  23. you know you have reached love when there is nobody who is excluded from your lifestyle everyone around you is equally deserving of all the provisions and the blessings and the gifts that you have if anyone you know is miserable, that becomes your heart-ache and your mission to alleviate like they say of a parent, you are only as happy as your unhappiest child love is when you feel good to the extent that the least satisfied around you feels good and your whole focus is on lifting them higher because you know all is one and they are you and we go home together or not at all
  24. only what is new is true the new is god's messenger all old is memory projection ego false when you go for a walk only what you see for the first time is the truth youtube gurus should understand this instead of insulting everyone with regurgitation
  25. i leave the house every day letting god operate on my behalf i am the enjoyer of the show the conversation part is, over to you now over and out