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a good way to frame this bias deconstruction is in terms of structure vs. fluidity we need some structure e.g. we need to eat something, we need to sleep fluidity is going with the flow, the flow state, functioning in god mode, letting god choose all bias is needing survival ... can i be happy to die when i go to bed tonight, give everything up, sign my will and then wake up and enjoy thenceforth in god mode? kill the structure and let god love what god will i personally am able to do this with food, have no no-no's, i enjoy the inpalatable as much as the mouthwatering, truth told the former makes the later that much better and as far as my lifestyle goes, have incorporated a daily 4-hr block where i do nothing ... something ... anything ... everything ... whatever, is perfectly good

no i meant i am leo just kidding leo has the map but the territory still needs plenty of cultivating thank you for being here leo x

true fix you first then love them however the test of how well you are fixed is how you deal with the less unconscious

to have shed every bias, let god choose everything on your behalf, this is leo

they are fine, it is you that has the problem, they are triggering you and getting you riled up what others think and say and do is none of your business even if it is directed towards you everyone and everything is perfect, your task is to see that it all for your benefit, it is not designed to sink you moods but to heal your wounds that is why osho says don't renounce the world, use the world as your vehicle to wake up so that life can be a celebration a rejoicing a delight

marry in haste repent at leisure, as the saying goes companionship partnership friendship are of course important and can be found in that one special person without the need for matrimonial shackles marry in some shape or form after staying with them for at least a decade i say, provided you are both sure you are willing to stick with the other until their last breath and yes i have been on both sides of this fence, marriage was certainly - unmistakably - the worst of times but certainly - always to be missed and never a second regretted - the best of times

society is foe not friend choose your side thoughtfully if you're awake you are highly capable of running your own affairs your life is play and parties and picnics

why let the state tell you how to run your life why not perhaps sit down and write your own vows rules commitments obligations and put them into some binding agreement both sign up to which is perhaps renewed and entered into freshly and willingly every 5 or 10 years why be dictated to and have society give their tried and tested and failed model of togetherness why not think outside of the box and break the chains that this antiquated institution has imposed just some food for thought ...

being your own fiercest advocate, you only came here for you, do this and you are a god among men, everything else is gravy

this is wise words

i would say looks are one thing appearance is another ... one is variable the other is fixable ... being comfortable fitting in is half the battle and after that you have an opportunity for your true self to shine through so it is not just surface stuff that is noticed ... top looks are not everything

impulsive makes mistakes and has regrets, spontaneous is living your best fullest life, god is in charge

divine messenger, one of god's best, i only say it since i employ it daily no other reason, maybe try it yourself some time

au contraire ... p-ush a-wareness i-nto n-ow #pain

the dream is just your lens of judgement, take off the specs and you will see the sublime perfection, god is nothing but a love machine

impulse is trusting the body spontaneity is trusting the heart impulse is instinct, insight ... spontaneity is inspiration, intuition both can be good impulse you are taking charge and doing the work, the latter your spirit is moving you to action similar to the difference between react and respond how do we know which is better? only in retrospect in reflection will you know if what you did was done on behalf of the body/mind or of the spirit/soul body should be listened to, spirit should be listened to

enemy is inner me peace to you too

no one needs you, not that do good and meddle in people's lives type of love, trust me when i tell you it is unhelpful and unwelcome, save it for those who don't mind you projecting your agenda onto them, here in that way you will make enemies not friends, you don't know when to drop it do you?

you are the one judging who needs help and who doesn't need help take your evangelical narrow minded zeal elsewhere, it is not welcome if anyone needs help they will be sure to let you know i'll call you, you dont need to call me period am i being clear that i am not giving you consent to love me? are you getting the message, is anyone home there i need none of the fixing you are proferring back off and find your so called victims elsewhere

your love sounds one sided and selfish to me, a self help project, what can i do that can help me reduce my judgements today that ain't love at all we don't need no missionaries to fix us in these parts, we good go and save yourself and then we can discuss love

and who do you think you are pray tell me ... did jesus come to the people or did the people come to jesus no need to interfere in other people's lives that is the only sin there is people are good

what i meant above was doing good is not being love, you are already love unlimited and you don't need to go out and show anyone you are love besides a lot of people are not ready for the beautiful love you are ready to shower on them and it will be unhelpful for them to be recipients, love is complicated and is not a one size fits all and it is best directed into the world very carefully, nobody out there needs saving and anyone with a messiah complex for fixing the world has much to learn about love that is why i said there is no need to be a missionary or to meddling in others lives i know you mean the best so i hope this makes my point more clear

and what is this mysterious state of love?

there is no right there is only awareness awareness precludes all sin all error all mistakes all failures all harm the rhetorical question becomes, how is your awareness, where are you at

solipsism is the ego hijacking oneness and then being faced with the horrifying conclusion that i am the only one here it is the existential crisis of going from all one to alone, from all is us to all is me, from you are a figment of my dream to we complement one another