gettoefl

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  1. mind IS change god is chill which one are you
  2. men want to talk from the head women want to talk from the heart, ask them how that made them feel and what they would do in that situation and what's their language of love and what is their attachment style and random stuff like that
  3. yes what happens is going to happen, you're looking at it or lost in it
  4. to see with new eyes let be you to full be your beautiful
  5. the older you get the more financially secure you get in general at that point should i devote all my resources and energies to kith and kin or maybe i can indulge some agreeable younger person who is not as secure financially my hard won experience will complement their youthful exuberance win win
  6. men want sex women want love, 'tis a tale as old as time happy valentines everyone
  7. better to do them at home without food fun friends else the novelty factor will distract and it could be a waste ... just sit doing nothing one week
  8. once adult on average woman gets less attractive every day once adult on average man gets more powerful every day what one lacks for that one looks
  9. yes open your eyes look around you ... consciousness is nothing more than what 'you' bring to the table
  10. “If a man knows more than others, he becomes lonely.” — Jung indeed our job is to learn how to communicate with both the beggar and the emperor we only understand something to the extent you can explain it to a 5-year old let's stop being so esoteric trapped in the world of jargon and concepts and reclaim being fresh innocent full of excitement like a child again yes the truth is beyond words but if we feel the love we will get the point across you are the one the world has long awaited let existence speak
  11. yes and all i keep asking is why do women always get ever more beautiful and then i remember it's god at work!
  12. god ever perfecting at no point perfection he is the the playa that loves the game
  13. the world is utterly perfect, everyone doing their absolute best per their consciousness level, they don't need help nor change nor intervention you are the only one messed up the world is here to trigger you into awakening but you will need to go in and stop going out
  14. of course this will ultimately end up at the supreme court, currently very conservatively biased so not much hope of this getting adopted unless joe gets real lucky in next year or two that is ....
  15. i define intelligence as saying what has never been said before (as opposed to intellect which is saying what everyone else says) so emotional intelligence is bringing to surface the emotional dimension of communicating namely it is spontaneous, personal, balanced, calibrated, sincere and unflinchingly honest ... it is not conventional, it is unique which makes it intelligent the extent to which one brings this to one's communication is the measure of one's EQ
  16. living is l0ving change the i you think you are to zero
  17. not two not one is the only truth
  18. us is land of the individual for better and for worse, uk is the land of the group, you rise or fall based on which group you're in for better and for worse freedom or community, choose wisely
  19. each is a unique complete unfathomable universe unto herself that even with infinite incarnations you could never be done loving her
  20. trick is, once head lifts up off the pillow don't put it back down again alarm rings, head up to turn alarm off, spring out of bed has never let me down
  21. mentation is the angst of time, meditation is the conquest of time, this is my experience now whatever happens is fine and dandy while before i was a chicken without a head i meditate early each day and then i can forget about meditation, no idea what happens or does not happen, next day rise rinse repeat no goals no expectation no agenda
  22. now i am awake religion and church have a ton to offer me ... the sublime sacred savoring of the transcendental as one family ... that is church the people are not important the eucharist, the communion, the choir... all impossible to be replicated secularly contemplate this statement: this here is my body in a nutshell enlightenment