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every person has a different definition of cheating it is a highly unhelpful word due to its ambiguous and hysterical connotations at the start of relationship write down that which you accept that which you don't accept and the consequences of breaches and have the other do the same

the other good one that is a stumbling block is victim all of us bring out the victim card at some time or other, why is the world forever bating me hounding me persecuting me some who know not better attach to this mentality for their whole life the opposite archetype is perpetrator ... which is often used as a judgemental label by those who profess to be the victim osho mentions you will be a victim in this life as karmic consequence of being a victor (perpetrator) in previous life, you are paying for your past sinful cruelty ... of course if you see this message you can terminate the insanity right now

alas what they do is they seize the credit for the high level of engagement, this is an example of my fine work ... and therapists don't like to lose their finest creations and will do all they can to keep them ... they love being god in other words

therapy is paying someone to converse with you and give you sensitive and informed feedback, and perhaps about very specialised matters if you're equally conscious it's just a normal conversation as with a friend if you're more conscious, the therapist will benefit but it is you who are seeking the conversation not them

i found all the titles beginning with p (which cement in place one's conditioning) also need transcending parent preacher/priest politician psychologist professor pundit etc. if you are these ... all these help keep you stuck

well done, super list all these have to indeed be transcended your posts are super informative, thanks for everything you share here

mind is, the world is out there and i am seeing it rather than the world is 2d movie set perched on my retina, my ear drum etc. which awareness handles not a mind (and awareness is precisely the world you perceive before mind gets its claws into it)

all superiority is your inferiority complex rearing its head

why do you want people under your thumb? because you feel superior and so you deserve to control them

click on where it says books https://www.buddhismuskunde.uni-hamburg.de/en/personen/analayo.html

God is not in heaven - God is in the present moment. If you are also in the present moment you enter the temple. ~Osho

did you even browse if not read one of his over 200 books though ... imagine if you didn't know a thing about him but you dug into one of his extraordinary gifts to the planet https://oshosearch.net/Convert/Articles_Osho/Chapters_Osho.html then tell me if you find a wrong sentence

yea suffering has the aim, to make you get so sick and tired of it that you lean in to learn the lesson it is designed to teach you learning is looking at yourself (sensations) and within yourself (meditation)

glad to hear that, i do go overboard a bit with the inscrutable one liners

hope you're okay and i didn't hit a nerve ... i thank you for your presence here ?

“Ānāpānassati, bhikkhave, bhāvitā bahulīkatā cattāro satipaṭṭhāne paripūreti. Cattāro satipaṭṭhānā bhāvitā bahulīkatā satta bojjhaṅge paripūrenti. Satta bojjhaṅgā bhāvitā bahulīkatā vijjā vimuttiṃ paripūrenti.” (MN 118) “Monks. If mindfulness of respiration is cultivated and made much of, the four foundations of mindfulness are fulfilled and perfected. If the four foundations of mindfulness are cultivated and made much of, the seven factors of enlightenment (bojjhaṅga) are fulfilled and perfected. If the seven factors of enlightenment are cultivated and made much of, knowledge (vijjā) and liberation (vimutti) are fulfilled and perfected.” https://buddho.org/anapana-dipani-manual-of-meditation-on-breathing/

leo doesn't say i am you but you are me, you can know one dream and that's your dream not leo's dream, consciousness does one task at a time, it is unable to multi-task, and thus all else is idle speculation

you fashioned this so you fix it we're all but your long lost limbs

it's too political for me in that i don't follow forum dynamics and discord ... has this user self labelled or has the label been imposed

the god that people are believing in isn't god, osho just like buddha spent his life railing against this quick find quick fix mentality when ramana was asked what is god he said, what is is god you only find this within and cannot see it with human eyes osho preferred words like existence the all i am for the ultimate reality since 'god' could appear to align him with the day's religions

whenever a person crosses your path, whether or not you both communicate, even if you are sworn enemies, they are seeking to love you they want for you the same portion they have for themselves they want you to see feel affirm approve validate corroborate savor their existence this is what love is all is love viewed through a clean lens

when you don't change the world seems like the same ol' messed up hell hole, when you change the world seems like a veritable garden of eden, everyone seems a little softer more relaxed more childish, more pure more worthy more vulnerable you don't see the world as it you see the world as you are

it is fraught with risk that you morph into a hating bitter twisted unbalanced deeply injured money grabbing prima donna making deals with the devil doesn't end well no matter how open eyed and worldly wise you are ... you encounter society's worst and you will not be immune to its contamination when you lie down with dogs you get up with fleas

seems like censored or restricted is the correct word if you fail to toe the progressive line, we don't want to listen to your musings

both is best i'd say ... being an outsider isn't good being an insider gets old, balance is where it's at you can have your cake and eat it too nothing to stop us each day doing 8 hours sleep 8 hours inside 8 hours outside all those domains are important, nothing better than socializing and nothing better than meditating we are lucky in this day and age that we need shut no door, take advantage of this and live full on all fronts