gettoefl

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  1. trust is perhaps the most important thing in the quest who to trust, where to trust trust means i take what you say to be true, but then i endeavor to test it to verify its truth you left some breadcrumbs to lead you to your awakening ... you have to determine if the words your receive resonate or not then go test within
  2. ultimately god wants his charges to be more god-like this is called evolution or as the soul band the o'jays termed it, the Love Train
  3. if you meet leo on the forums have to chop off his head metaphorically i mean he might be leading you down the garden path
  4. let's assume you haven't free will 1. do you accept waking from a dream within a dream is possible, in that you have seen complelling evidence of it? if so you haven't free will but god might choose to wake you up as has happened with others you can't do anything but there are a million things you can refrain from doing so that god might have mercy and awaken you then you can take responsibility ps you might argue but not to do is still doing ... when i say refrain i mean just be, don't do ... free will is mind, to be is to exit mind ... anyone is able to step out of mind and this does not contradict free will since you do nothing you merely refrain
  5. awareness is the only good - (if you have awareness you can kill someone and it be perfectly good and right ...) so don't try to be good or to do good fix you first then love them
  6. how to go back and forth between you and god? look at your hand to be aware of your hand is you to be aware that you are aware of your hand is god
  7. you can live out your allotted three score and ten years on this planet perfectly blissfully alone you only came here for one reason and the 1-person universe is perfect partner and / or friends is nice to have but not have to have when you have done what you came here to do, then go do stuff
  8. self deception is unconscious - since if you knew you were doing it you would no longer be deceived it is the bad you are doing that you don't know you are doing self bias is me acting in favor of me - this can be conscious and unconscious self deception is the extent to which unconscious self bias rules your life ... (self promotion ... conscious ... life) i act on my behalf, yet am unaware of it something to contemplate
  9. Sleep this moment. Wake the next. God surely don't want to sleep eternally. Consciousness is about God enjoying uncovering more of itself. This is inevitable. Unstoppable. Humanity is many times more conscious now than it was a thousand years ago when killing raping pillaging torturing marauding were the norm. The journey is to god.
  10. the truth is its matters not a bit whether we share or do not share it is a nice to do not a have to do if i do so it is 100% my benefit, i clarify and illuminate for my own purpose not theirs i cannot take one shred of responsibility for people in my dream seeing the truth it is all about what i want and love to do depends entirely on the nature of my life purpose which can only be implemented after i saw the light
  11. you failed ... even if they were the devil ... you picked to stay with them who wants to be reminded of their failures? i am the good guy after all, i mean look how amazing i am, yea i know let's spin them as the devil incarnate and hate them for leaving this paragon of excellence but joking aside in my cases, i love every single ex of mine, i know what a jerk and ahole i am and have been, they were dealing with the incomplete article
  12. in other words cares not a jot if this one lives or dies this very moment sure puts a whole new spin on the meaning of love life has become a whole lot more fragile as well ... so much for existence having my back all the time yes thanks ... for nothing
  13. selflessness is on a upward trajectory i suggest and this is by design, god enjoying uncovering more and more of itself when you get tired of repeating you turn towards repairing
  14. a good way to frame this bias deconstruction is in terms of structure vs. fluidity we need some structure e.g. we need to eat something, we need to sleep fluidity is going with the flow, the flow state, functioning in god mode, letting god choose all bias is needing survival ... can i be happy to die when i go to bed tonight, give everything up, sign my will and then wake up and enjoy thenceforth in god mode? kill the structure and let god love what god will i personally am able to do this with food, have no no-no's, i enjoy the inpalatable as much as the mouthwatering, truth told the former makes the later that much better and as far as my lifestyle goes, have incorporated a daily 4-hr block where i do nothing ... something ... anything ... everything ... whatever, is perfectly good
  15. no i meant i am leo just kidding leo has the map but the territory still needs plenty of cultivating thank you for being here leo x
  16. true fix you first then love them however the test of how well you are fixed is how you deal with the less unconscious
  17. to have shed every bias, let god choose everything on your behalf, this is leo
  18. they are fine, it is you that has the problem, they are triggering you and getting you riled up what others think and say and do is none of your business even if it is directed towards you everyone and everything is perfect, your task is to see that it all for your benefit, it is not designed to sink you moods but to heal your wounds that is why osho says don't renounce the world, use the world as your vehicle to wake up so that life can be a celebration a rejoicing a delight
  19. marry in haste repent at leisure, as the saying goes companionship partnership friendship are of course important and can be found in that one special person without the need for matrimonial shackles marry in some shape or form after staying with them for at least a decade i say, provided you are both sure you are willing to stick with the other until their last breath and yes i have been on both sides of this fence, marriage was certainly - unmistakably - the worst of times but certainly - always to be missed and never a second regretted - the best of times
  20. society is foe not friend choose your side thoughtfully if you're awake you are highly capable of running your own affairs your life is play and parties and picnics
  21. why let the state tell you how to run your life why not perhaps sit down and write your own vows rules commitments obligations and put them into some binding agreement both sign up to which is perhaps renewed and entered into freshly and willingly every 5 or 10 years why be dictated to and have society give their tried and tested and failed model of togetherness why not think outside of the box and break the chains that this antiquated institution has imposed just some food for thought ...
  22. being your own fiercest advocate, you only came here for you, do this and you are a god among men, everything else is gravy