gettoefl

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  1. have 10 books on the go, when you reach point where you need to implement, leave it and go to the other 9 dont come back til you have implemented it ... i have some books i have not touched for a year because of this but will get there at some point
  2. religion is good in as much as people want to connect and hang out; it is about making spirituality practical and down to earth i think the salvation army and the unity church movement are good examples of this in action
  3. sex is necessary for both to know any future potential ... sooner is better but this presupposes both are seeking long term there is casual and there is serious i would say 2-3 dates/meetings to decide whether casual potential or serious potential prior to sex, both should state which they are in it for good wisdom here too: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/125h4e1/do_men_lose_feelings_if_you_both_have_s3x_too/
  4. ai curates the past, i creates the future end of it's seed, i'm fruit ai is my co-pilot in this, what it gives me is its end and that end is my beginning
  5. so sorry to hear all this, that you were manipulated and deceived so blatantly and that your dream life ended in tears you are a beautiful transparent inspiring person and i send you so much love and affection and encouragement to keep forging your best future i hope you know that your light is seen and understood and appreciated @Pure Imagination
  6. suffering is misidentification ... i realize if you suffer i suffer since you are just as much i as me is the absolute is fine with suffering taking place but pursues through me a program of suffering minimization as far as practicable the absolute is at work to reduce my and your suffering i wakes up, me and you should suffer less but it might take time
  7. i call this, not letting myself get in life's way. i drop my agenda and pick up life's agenda namely all i see right now is me, i act in its interests not mine; i maximise the happiness of all not mine when i write on social media, it is not for my growth or benefit rather the infinite is using me as a conduit to love the whole
  8. chat-gpt: As an individual, name 5 things i can do to end such toxicity and encourage healthy gender norms give me 5 slogans that express support of healthy gender norms
  9. seems you got a long way then the wheels fell off i would say go back to the basics of knowing nothing and self love there is no failure there is only feedback, no triggers only teachers truth is, you are all
  10. external happiness is ever more realised to be sham; do we replace it with internal happiness or just keep chasing the dragon
  11. friend of mine just wrote a book you might enjoy, take a look https://lovingawakening.net/ she will answer your questions too if you have some
  12. self love is the extent to which one does the inner work, and even being here can be in practice of self love if done in the right way self love will be recognised in another to the degree they are self-aware, non-judgemental, compassionate, sincere, and humble
  13. as you get more evolved you note that what you are exposed to is overwhelmingly BS ... can't be helped key is, have a finely tuned BS detector, and don't allow yourself to get triggered and or side-tracked remember everyone you meet is operating according to their level of consciousness find a good crowd you can learn from, have pity on the ones who are stuck in the mire no need to confront people or try to change them, you just work more on you and in this way you will create a new planet
  14. you are a good man leo gura though your legendary meltdowns are a bot OTT a lot of the time respect and love
  15. for me it is about calming down and no longer being a main player in the movie ... i am the whole not the part
  16. looking outside perpetuates the past, looking inside engineers the future if you want more details, read Dr. joe's Breaking the habit of being yourself chat-gpt:
  17. to override body pain can be a worse curse than accepting it your life expectancy will be shot and quality of life meager best be sensible and allow a body to go its way just like it was designed give it its daily bread so you can be living the dream
  18. we have to permit a certain level of wellbeing and wholeness to a body to make any discussion on suffering meaningful if you cut an arm off that body isn't a body anymore, it is two parts of a body a body has a life force and wants to keep on being that entity until it breathes its last suffering is psychological and conquerable but you have to let the body have some givens that are let be you can't modify the rules in the middle of the game, that is cheating
  19. https://archive.org/details/AutobiographyOfASpirituallyOsho/page/n7/mode/2up
  20. looking outside is repeating the past, contemplate that
  21. summaries are for first graders ... need to question the AI deeply about the content and bring some intelligence to the table
  22. he proposed plenty new ... best source to read is The Last Testament vols 1-6