Diana88

Good day. I broke up with him forever in July 2012. Since December 2015 he is stalking me. Breaking in my house. Stealing from me. Hacks me. Rapes me. This is going on till present moment. He tries that people think I am his gf to talk his bahaviour good. The reason I contacted him in April 2016 was because he claimed to be in srbia and living there. I was trying to proof that he lives in the Netherlands. Once than I never talked to him. I have no need nor desire to have contact. He sometimes also follows me around in a grocery store. I always contact the police when I see him in a grocery store. You don't see me talking to him at all. Camera's don't lie. I can't be with someone in a relationship when you did not ask me. My answer to everyone will be no! Also to him. So how on earth can I be his girl when nr 1. He didn't ask me 2 if he asks me my answer is no! Thank you for reading and commenting.

I always report him. It's over since July 2012! And I am like if you can't accept it you need a therapist. No therapist can help him because he doesn't take responsibility. He is a psychopath. Suicide is the only option for him. So I break in my own house? Really now? That bastard that is I think 50 years old still lives with his parents. It's 45 minutes drive to my house. My attitude was always.. When I don't like you I avoid you on every cost possible. I don't want to be surrounded with bullshit

Yes I keep reporting him. But.. How can I be "his gf" when the last time I talked to him was in 2016 to get proof that he is in the Netherlands? As far as I know you are only in a relationship when both people agree. Even than when he doesn't accept the break up of July 2012 it's still over. Because as far as I am concerned you can only have a relationship when both parties agree. Am I right?

He is a professional bugler. I need answers to my question.

My name is mrvica. This is my first topic. Let me tell you about my situation. I have 2 stalkers.. A "man" and a woman. I dumped the sorry ass of him in July 2012.since december 2015 he is breaking in my house and stalking me and Hacking me. Also my mother's house. In end may if begin June 2016 I asked that woman for help that the police needs recording of him breaking in. Well she did that. But... She is still doing it till present moment. There is no contact between me and her for a couple of years. And I am fine with that. But she keeps breaking in my mothers house. And it's really bothering me. I am hurt. I don't feel safe anymore. I don't feel comfortable anymore. I am very sad but in the same time my anger keeps growing every day just a little bit more. The problem is that I contacted her more than once since a year back and more. Most of the messages were about the proof. She tells the police that I stalk her. But in the same time she breaks in my mother's house. For example. Today she tells the cops that I stalk her and today she breaks in my mothers house. I did had feelings for her like wanting to wife her etc. But I don't care anymore because she continues breaking in my mothers house. I am more than done with her. I hate myself for putting trust in her. It's like killing yourself everyday figurly speaking. I shouldn't have trusted her. I shouldn't have said anything what the cops need to stop that "man" stalker. I feel so betrayed by her. Back stabbed also. It feels like for me she has more faces/masks. I public one and an indoor one. I also feel heavily manipulated by her. I wanted to do witcraft on her that she surrenders the proof about that "man" stalker to the cops. My police officer told me if I do that I get in big trouble. I am like.. How? She is the 1 delivering proof that indeed she was in my mothers house and indeed she is a witness. I want to turn on a magician to get rid of her because I also wanted to magician to force her to get rid of keys. I feel like.. I don't know. I can't ut my finger. So she is allowed to keep breaking in my mothers house and I am not allowed to protect myself against her. I just want her gone and she knows that. But she continues and it really makes me angry. I told my police officer that she manipulates him. Telling lies to him. And it's up to him whether he believes me or not what she does. She has turned everything around me. For me she is sick in her head for keep breaking in my mothers house. It almost feels like revenge because I want nothing to do with her. I am trying so hard to try to understand what the hell is going on so I can give it peace. I try to understand her so I can let it go. Can someone please tell me why is she doing all of this? She tells the cops nothing to do with me but she keeps breaking in my mothers house. It will never cross my mind to say such thing. I will never follow someone on social media when I claim nothing to do with that person. She also stalks me for years on my Facebook page. Does she has personality disorder? Can someone please explain to me that sentence means that.. For example shift blaming. I don't know. The reason I got over that stalker "man" and closing the book is by information

Why does she keep breaking I my mothers house when she knows I want to attack her? Why keep bothering me? She knows I want her gone. She knows I want her to stop breaking in my mothers house. She knows because she continues breaking in my mothers house that I want to attack her. Why does she keep breaking in my mothers house?

Oh sorry. I copied the tekst. No therapist can make her go away! I want her gone and to be left alone.

In quara I have asked this question but there is no answer so I will put it in here. I am trying so hard to grasp. But be warned. This will be very heavy to read. So if I have to delete some text please do that or let me know. But don't delete the topic please. So here is it. Since December 2015 I have a psychopath that breaks in my house and raping me to present moment. I dumped his sorry ass in July 2012.and no he is not an ex but an abuser. Anyway. I asked my twin flame in end of May or beginning of June 2016 if she wants to record the rape in my mothers house and she agreed. Till today she probably has the proof. But since June 2016 she keeps breaking in my mothers house. All those years I thought we will get back together and we will talk things through. Her breaking in my mothers house gave me many years hope that she will be my wife etc. But not anymore. It's true I messeged her all those years and letters. Most of them where about the proof she has. Sometimes my feelings. But those years she claims that I am the 1 stalking her. How? She is the 1 breaking in my mothers house. Fir example. Today she tells the police that I stalked her and today she breaks in my mothers house. What is going on here? All those years I am trying to understand but I don't. It will never cross my mind telling about a person that that person is stalking me while in the mean time I break in their house. I am trying to grasp what is going on. Why is she telling the police that I stalk her while she is the 1 breaking in my mothers house since June 2016 to present moment? Why? All I want her is to stop it. And be gone. I am very angry and very upset and she knows but continues anyway to proceed further. It's not an excuse that she is losing me because I am already gone

No no. You get it wrong. She is a witness that a psychopath rapes me in my mothers house. I dumped the psychopath in July 2012. And yes I had sex with her son. I can't say I had a relationship with her son because all he told me was lies. So I call it a lie relationship. When it comes to the psychopath you have no idea everything I tried to avoid him. Sleeping in my mothers house. Sleeping in my sister's house. Doesn't work. All he does is going after me breaking in. And I have switched phone to many times. It's not working. Somehow he succeed in hacking me and someday I will report him and he will be screwed. I have to many proofs that I am hacked.

She is not stealing anything I think. She has no ties with my mother and sister. I had ties with her in the past. But no matter the reason she is doing it she needs to stop. I don't feel good about it. I don't feel safe. I don't feel comfortable.i can't go to the police now because I have almost no proof against her. Just 2 recorders that you hear her say hey twice. And that she is doing something with her nose and I did send that to the police. But it's not enough

Why is she telling the police that I stalk her when she is the 1 breaking in my mothers house? I need answer to this question. I am not hiding anything. I told that I contacted her in the past. And most of 5he contact was about the proof she has. And sometimes I expressed my feelings for her. I also told how it started that she gets in my mothers house. Ow. This is what I didn't tell. I fucked her son from 2014 to 2015. I also sended her copies of my key a few times. Very strange that she didn't report that at ll to the police.