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What makes a hope and dream sleazy? Is a mans sexual desire for a woman always sleazy? Do you have any non-sleazy sexual desires? It is normal for a single girl earnestly looking. It is strange for someone with a boyfriend to be up to the same.

I think you were both not honest about the situation, and its great that you are open to learning and growing from it. Your current boyfriend of 8 months, is he aware of your friendships with men who you know like you as more than a friend? How would you feel about your boyfriend maintaining a friendship with a girl who he knows wants to be more than a friend?

Left your job. Friends left. No partner. No kids. Things seem to be just lining up for a move to a bigger town.

Which is what life is. You laugh and cry. Its all a dream is saying something else. Its saying there is nothing to laugh or cry about.

Maybe for her being aroused means ready and willing to have sex. Same with daydreaming. Or maybe she is one of those people that just dont think in pictures at all. And maybe she just hasn't seen any porn that does it for her. How about trying a different question: Get two pics, one of a man you consider really good looking, another of one you consider really ugly. Ask her which one is hotter. If she picks the attractive one, ask her how she knew that. Tell her thats what you meant by getting aroused, and you did not really mean like getting always hard and ready aroused... just "i acknowledge good form" arousal. If she picks the other or refuses to play, those are issues. I don't know her, so I wont speculate on what kind of issues.

You could be a more real friend. That means being open and honest with him about the situation. Your not his friend right now anyway, and he is both angry at you, and sad for himself. Being honest earlier on may have just made him sad for himself, and more respectful to you for your honesty (maybe - if not then good riddance anyway). The friendship may have also ended. Or it could have grown stronger, built on top of a more honest foundation (maybe.. some men still pretend to be friends after being knocked back - and I respect him for atleast not playing that game once everything was out in the open)

The "everything is nothing" police in here will tell you that thinking itself is an illusion, so what you are proposing here simply does not exist. There is no negative energy, fear, anger, shadow, self, only one god and consciousness. Its all a dream. Everything is alright, you just need enlightenment to see it all clearly.

Use that feeling more energized and shit energy to level up. There is always the next level, but nothing will ever get you to "God/Super-human". There are thousands of self development practices, who are you using only one? None will be a magic bullet that solves everything. And why would you want to be a totally new person? Also impossible. But being the best person you can be... not only possible, I have no doubt that would be an awesome person.

@Preety_India You have forgotten the context of this discussion thread. It was "Making her come using my dick". I may be a man, but the only man I know how to please, or what they like in bed is myself. I would never assume to be the authority on, or speak for what all other existing men like. Haven't spent any time in bed with one either. With women on the other hand ..

It does help, I agree. But I oral sex or any other form of direct clitoral stimulation isn't a must to make a woman orgasm. The vagina doesn't care about putting effort, if it feels right, it will respond accordingly. For example, when a woman orgasms after pleasuring herself, is it really because she appreciates the effort her fingers put in it?

That can happen during intercourse too, the missionary and similar positions work best for this. The man just needs to position his hips and move in a certain way to hit that spot too.

Not possible!! The dick was specially designed to fit, and give pleasure to the vagina. Not only is it possible, it is its life mission and purpose. The mouth is for eating food. If the mouth was for giving pleasure, dildos would be shaped like human mouths.

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Everything, including science boils down to blind faith at the core. Science just calls it "scientific axioms". Even direct experience still needs a mind to make meaning of it -- one person on 5meo will think they are dying, another will think they have remembered being God. Both are still lying on a mat somewhere, assigning different meanings to the same experience. We are meaning making machines, and like death, we cannot escape that.

Some things are just random. One person cries with low hissing sounds, another wails like an ambulance. They are all still crying. The fight and flight response is either a) running away or b) fighting. Shaking is something else, thought there can be a cause and effect connection.

You are kidding yourself if you believe you felt complelled to write out this very long response because... nothing

@Michael569 I like your profile pic, you studious monkey

You already knew he liked you, and didn't mention the bf in all those talks for 8 months... What do you want from him now?

What is yours? Are you getting it? And what did she say is the girl should be in return? Whatever you do, don't ever be someones doormat. It kills any attraction they have for you. You have value too, and they should act accordingly.

That's just like... your opinion dude. The only one you seem to have. Won't even bother addressing it directly.

For the science of it look mostly into the science of stress and anxiety, though the usual scientific remedy would be some kind of pharmaceutical pill rather than the more natural and remedies like breathing, meditation or just "shaking it off". I've listened to quite a few guided meditation videos and just one of them, for some unknown reason gave me the shakes the first few times I listened to it. I've no doubt meaningful spiritual experiences can trigger the same reaction. The flight or fight response releases a ton of stored up emergency energy into the body to enable the fighting or flighting. With animals, once the danger is no longer present and they still have a bit of that energy left they shake like that polar bear to get rid of all of it and move on. With humans, many of our dangers are usually smaller, social everyday situations (like public ridicule, arguments) that don't really warrant physical running away or fighting, so that anxious energy just stays and builds up over time.

I would not classify spontaneous shaking as a mystical religious experience in of itself. Its religious, but there is no mystery about it. Just like someone breaking down into tears when being prayed for.. it a religious experience, but there is nothing mysterious about crying.

I don't think its something specific to 5meo. I've had the experience of nodding uncontrollably just by listening to a guided utube meditation on emotional release. I believe what happened when you took the 5meo is that the medicine located and unlocked your trauma, and the release of that is what caused the shaking.

It is the body's way of releasing pent up, usually negative energy. All animals do it, humans kind of forgot how.

It is a tiresome, smug, preachy, tone deaf answer. It completely ignores what was asked, and attempts to hijack a conversation thread with the "everything is nothing" mantra. Give it a break. This is like the new age version of the saved christian who responds to every question and discussion with "Pray to Jesus! Hallelujah!"