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There are many ways to optimize your online dating profiles one that you could try out an get immediate results is running your photos through "Face App" essentially it optimizes your pictures to make them as high quality as possible without looking overly photoshopped. Thats just the tip of the iceberg many people think to get good results online its just "take good pictures and swipe" theres so much more to it

I feel you I used to have this problem when I started Dating, always bring the offer of you guys going back to your place for some drinks. Another important tip is to run your dates short 60-90 minutes top. Keep it around 1hr if your only going to to be at one spot 90 min if your venue hoping. You can build enough comfort/value/attraction within that time. You should also train to yourself to recognize when a girl wants to move somewhere more private, she will never tell you outright but she will throw subtle hints

@itachi uchiha You've read enough books put together a solid actionable plan using everything you learned, and execute consider that you've immersed yourself in all this red pill/dating knowledge and you still aren't getting the results you want. There comes a point where you have to stop with the theorizing and go out and get tangible experience. You could read every book on dating and male/female dynamics and you'll still end up the same none of this thoerizing matters if its not aided with first hand experience. Recognize the failicy. Too many people on this side of the forum forget that.

Just say more than 1 and keep the conversation pushing

Gree 100% This is so important in all areas of life often times the moments that develop the most confidence is when your able to "preform" when your not at 100% it puts you in a new paradigm of thinking

Theres some useful perspectives in RP but as an overall ideology its meh, its not practical to building healthy long term relationships, there's to many games and hyporcracies baked into that world view. From what I noticed redpill is usually an ideology that teens/ppl in their early 20's cling onto as their trying to understand how dating works. You outgrow that type of thinking when you have more experiences, devop more empathy, and stop watching RP content creators. Also the space and people that surround redpill are similar to blackpillers in the sense they have very little empathy and are generally filled with people who hate women. RP people are usually healthier because they dont have a victim mentality but there still low conscious people, theres just better perspectives out there

I still don't believe the hype just yet if he takes out Gilburt i'll be impressed, welterweight division is stacked though crazy how Usman is lapping those guys

He wrote that whole article? Why would he do that, you'd expect a guy with over 15,000 comments on this forum to have some type of loyalty, im surprised he's not banned lmao

Dam right state your intention to the universe my friend

Invite her back to your place and try to make a move its ok to not vibe with someone yet still feel sexually attracted to them, also who says she wants a relationship she could also be looking for casual sex, don't make things more difficult. If you two are attracted to each other or you can feel it, aim to make a move, there's nothing wrong with explicitly asking for sex but such a logical question can ruin the vibe especially if its the first time you guys are getting togther.

Dont worry the odds of that musician trying to put moves on your girl is literally less than 0% just express to her it doesnt sit right with you drooling over another guy like that.

@Jacob Morres You can wear them, some of my wings wear height boosting shoes if it makes you feel more confident do it. As long as your approaching chicks thats all that matters. Just be conscious that you may develop a crutch on these shoes which will lead to another level of insecurity. Btw your at a height where your going to be taller than most girls anyway

Running game in a gym isnt as hard as you guys are making it to be you just have to be smart about it. Im fortunate enough to where my gym has multiple locations relatively close to one another, so one is for me to work out by myself and the other is more of a social workout vibe. If theres a cute chick I make a comment about how much weight shes lifting and have some small talk. If she seems receptive I start going into logistics, her training schedule, her workout split ect and then ask her if she wants to do a leg day workout. (I swear all girls do is workout their legs, you'd be surprised how many variations there are for working out your ass only lol) After the workout I ask if she wants to grab a quick smoothie and take it from there. I have never gotten a negative experience because I can tell when a girl has more time to talk vs she wants to finish her workout. In my social gym I have a good reputation, I usually workout with 2-3 other guys and sometimes others hop into our set. Usually the girls sees all of this so it just looks like your being social not trying to be some player. I even introduce them to my friends, just don't be weird, thats the number one rule in game.

@Illusory Self Been there one thing I suggest is try clean up your foods as much as possible and establishing a good skin care routine. Try to limit your diet to about 10 foods if possible. Try to cook as much as your meals as possible with healthy oils. Cut smoking, alcohol and try to optimize your sleep for 7+ hours. If you have long hair make sure its not greasy wash and condition it properly. What you'll find is that your diet is what causes 70% of acne after you've established a consistent diet fast water fast for a day and then slowly introduce foods back in. In 7-10 hours you will feel if theres any acne irritation popping out and you'll know what foods to dial down. You can still bulk and meet your diet needs just have a day where you fast and test things out. Thats what I did

Just checked out his channel it looks like he made a response video to the buzz going around and does a good job addressing the main points being brought against him. To be fair I am biased in this discussion as I personally benefited from Dr.K's videos and his Mental Health course especially so maybe i'm being blind to certain things but I trust his character and intentions I cannot say the same with Mr.Girl based of what ive seen of him.

OK that makes sense but what do you think Dr.K could do to avoid this moving forward? I don't see a problem with someone sharing their life experiences and then someone else making suggestions or helping them understand a new perspective. If anything that alone could help someone reach professional help. Does his medical license prevent him from doing this kind of "coaching work?" This is false equivalency, comparing someone who helped 100,000's of thousands through interviews and talking about mental health to someone who kills people doesn't make sense.

Nahm was a great imo we chatted before and he helped me overcome some issues I was having in my life a while back. He's the one who really brought it home for me why its important to practice connecting with your emotions and raising your "vibe", that emotional chart he would link helped with that. Also setting up a dreamboard and using it to properly vision the life you want to create was great as well. Around last year he was giving really practical advice but it has turned into these really cryptic messages as of late. I dont think banning him is the right move but demoting him and making this post to call out his behavior is good. Also him charing you for sessions is not a bad, true value should not be free. If your serious about self development you will have to spend money to learn from teachers you think are worthy. I've also lost money from some teachers I wanted to learn things from but the net positive has always been much higher. Being 100% results oriented, communicating your sticking points and learning what type of teachers to avoid is a skill that must be practised especially if the type your asking for coaching services. If you dish out thousands of dollars and your not seeing practical results and you cant clearly communicate that to your coach you are part of the problem and should not pass 100% blame on them

Tbh I cant really take him serious either can somebody explain in a simple sentence or two what Dr.K is actually doing wrong? I'm gathering that he is too close with the people he talks on stream, he adds spirituality to his principles of psychology or at least concepts that arnt backed up by hardcore scientific evidence and that he makes money from streaming and the reason why this is being brought to attention is because a twitch streamer killed himself. Its unfortunate that that happened to him but anyone with a brain can understand the net positive Dr.K and his team has had on twitch. Mr.Girl of all people trying to cancel him, just sounds so ridiculous. I dont watch Dr.K anymore but I remember when I did he was still giving disclosures and the beginning and the end of his videos, what else could he practically do to address some of his critiques?

@Roy Good post with the way technology is growing toys like these are only going to make men worse of. Having a toy by itself doesn't seem to be the problem but when you add that with a low quality life, social issues you turn into a mess.

You should pull back and and only frame meets ups to your place and try to close. Your attention as a man is the most valuable currency when it comes to women. She already seems to enjoy being around around you so set that boundary. She is leveraging sex against you thats her game shes playing. Honestly since your a newbie I suggest you play this out and learn from the experience, try not to meet more than once a week and always to close. Also make sure you out meeting and gaming other girls so you don't become overly invested with her and mess it up with your neediness.

Oh god i spent the last 5 minutes dying to this joke ??? that was thread was so ridiculous

Mind got clear, stopped treating women like sexual objects, was more motivated to meet new people and take dating more serious, felt more energy/focus, had more time on my hands for self-improvement, those were the big ones. If you watch porn 2-3 times a month I don't see a problem in that but most people who watch it fap daily or have some type of addiction, all because of bigger issues in their life. I tell people to try quitting for 1 month and see what type of emotions or thoughts keep recurring. If you cant quit a stimuli for 30 days you have an addiction and you should ask yourself if its decreasing your quality of life.

I forgot who posted this but a user on the forum said he attaches the fleshlight to a mirror, puts a vibrator in his ass and goes to town ??? he was talking about experiencing ultimate love or something this forum man I swear...

Everyone's different I know when I quit porn a while back my life got substantially better and I also know others who experienced the same. As others had already said in this thread usually a porn addiction is a symptom of something else in your life. There's nothing wrong with masturbation but frequent porn use messes up your mind. Also if you have a gf or someone your seeing frequently how tf are you not getting your sexual needs met? I have a high sex drive and I dont have the issue that Leo keeps talking about

Naw thats not how it works in "real life" i've had some crazy experiences before and what they don't tell you is how it many approaches it takes to get a girl who's willing to escalate that far with a person they just met. You hear how one guy can pull in 5 minutes but don't see the other 30-40 girls who turned down his advances before. A majority of women dont go to clubs expecting to suck a strangers dick or have ons they want to go out with their friends, receive validations from others and enjoy themselves. Most women will try to prevent their friend from escalating too far with other guys so thats another barrier. Most women don't want to cheat on men they respect