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Man this situation is so bad its actually hilarious Youve got bigger issues to worry about then "Drooling Dick" ask yourself why you stay with a woman who clearly doesn't respect you thats the first step. Read what what you typed out loud and imagine that this was your brother or close friend that told you this, what would you tell him?

Do both be aware of the limitations of negative motivation but you can get FAR with negative motivation once youve feel youve reach the point where negative emotions wont drive you do some reflection and think of ways who you use positive emotions to get what you want

Lol college, I sometimes forget how young people on this forum are ofc he liked you no guy grabs another girls waist unless he's trying to establish sexual intent. You essentially rejected him and his boys were probably giving him shit about so he had to save face. It can be pretty humiliating when your advances get declined especially when other people end up finding out, just give him space and dont make a big deal about when others try to bring up the subject to you.

Dont ask let her bring it up from there you can try to continue the interaction, it may be a shit test or you just excuse yourself and move on

The best way to get out of the friendzone is to disappear for a period of time and then reopen with a sexual frame there is no other way unless she decides she likes you all of a sudden. I would gradually peel away from her and keep it to small talk and let er hit you up, your only going to hurt yourself more by remaining her friend tbh. If you want platonic female friends its important to make the distinction in your head whether your going to actively set a sexual frame and see what happens or be friends. Dont be her freind for 9 months and then throw a curve ball thats weird and shows how uncalibrated you are.

@Benton Good video

Therapy, no course can really teach you how to have a proper relationship all they can do is give you guidelines which is pointless if you don't have a good foundation. Having a trained professional help dig out unprocessed emotions/trauma is whats going to make your relationships stronger. This is a good place to start https://www.talkspace.com/ if money is tight theres other basic forms of trauma work you can find on youtube, reddit and other forums but if your going to pay for anything consider therapy.

What does being a "jerk" when it comes to women look like to you? What exactly does your friend do thats gets him the results you want? What does low integrity when it comes to women mean to you? Im pretty sure you already know but theres a difference between being authentic and being a "nice guy." You can be blunt and direct while still being a good person. Try integrating the more aggressive and forward aspects your personality in your day to day life, if your not getting the results you want its time to switch it up, your still young consciously create type of personality that works best for you its going to take effort

This is a sneaky limiting belief, yes logistics are important but you can still pull without them. Frame the pull at her house, use your parents car, isolated areas ect. If a girl is interested enough she will make it easy for you to pull dont forget that. I remember when I was in highschool, I had a friend who would pull consistently in handicapped bathrooms at the mall we used to frequent get creative

Nope doesn't matter as long as your tonality and sub-communications are right you'll be fine. But instead of asking, why dont you find out yourslef approach 10 women with shades and 10 without and compare the responses you get.

Yup this hits the nail on the head this is much more important than who reaches out first, if the quality of the interaction is meh, then you can make an argument that you always reaching out is a sigh of a one way relationship, theres a lot more factors that go into this.

Don't make things weird girls can sense that type of energy and it will make things uncomfortable for both of you. In this type of situation theres no need to do any "game" just treat her like a regular friend and look for activity's to to together like going to the gym. Also use sexual innuendo and flirt when the time calls for it this was a perfect time to do that look for more opportunities like this. But again don't be weird if you sense things are taking a more platonic route respect her boundaries, nobody should feel uncomfortable in their own living space

Dont know why my post glitched like that I re-uploaded what I wrote before I agree there much better things to spend 4 grand on especially since this field is so fleshed out with information for free but hey to each there own

He's legit Ive had wings who gamed with him before also have a friend who bought his products, they're very practical but its not new information if thats what your hoping for. He's not re-inventing the wheel he is only distilling all the concepts on how to run proper nightgame, dates, and online game into a digestible format without the the mindset stuff. You can find all this info for free btw on forums/blogs. One nugget I learned from him is using Face app to enhance your pictures and running multiple online dating accounts. Its a bit over extreme but it definitely works. Theres so much to online dating people don't know about, its not about "take pictures and post them" theres a lot of ways to game dating platforms. Im pretty sure thats how he can make those claims of the results his students get. Id be cautious of him though I really dislike his marketing tactics, and can sense his core values are low conscious but his dating advice is practical, wouldnt say its worth $4,000 though.

@Noahsteelers34 Treat this as a growing experience your a freshman if I remember from a previous post, try out the relationship angle, you learn a lot about yourself, both the good and negatives when in a relationship. Enjoy the experience, worst case scenario things go left and you still have 2+ years left of college to date around

@Leo Gura Yup I agree, there were guys in there that were basically teaching guys how to r*pe women smh, media outlets kept quoting them and writing expose articles then the Julian scandal happened, they had to cut it to move on or they would face actual legal consequences. My question is how did they scrub everything on the forum, I looked on the wayback machine and nothing showed up, did they pay a third party company to scrub all the archives?

Its such a shame Owen shut down the Rsdnation forums that place was a gold mine for game is you knew how to search correctly and took action. Honestly I got more value from the forums than i did with his videos

Use that money to understand Crypto and Online Ventures, buy courses from reputable people who have already provided you enormous free value and join their private communities, the others in this thread are right 30k is good savings but not enough to change your live. Leo has a bad mentality when it comes to crypto, when you understand how these projects work and not blindly throw your money into things you can get substantial ROI. Ive made close to $50,000 with crypto only starting off with 4k because I was apart of private forums and paid for courses. Crypto is only gambling when you don't understand what your doing. It's also a really fun concept once you start to get the hang of it. Pay for knowledge and access to private communities where all the people in the group are focused on one goal thats what i'd do with your $30,000

Welcome to the real world where most people don't care about this stuff, I would try to lead by example and slowly bring in basic personal development ideas. Aligning values goes a long way in relationships if everything else in your relationship is fine and this is the only aspect that could be improved ask yourself if this is something to place a lot of importance on if not consider finding someone who more aligns with you

They do, when women value your attention even giving them the most basic compliment can send them over the moon. Imagine your a really good basketball player everyone says your good and at a certain point you just brush it off when someone says that to you. Now imagine Lebron or a basketball player you admire says that to you. The words where the same it just came from a different person whose attention you value more. Learn to build attraction when talking to women and things will play out naturally

Wow its been a year already? Time flies I remember this exact thread from last year hb

I dont see why this isn't true dont forget how insanely corrupt Ukraine is, you've got a guy who resides in that country making anti- nationalistic takes on the country and getting tens of thousands of views during a war? It was only a matter of time rip...

@Loba Ahh yes my favorite misandrist is back a part of me thinks your trolling and this is a character, theres no way your actually this bitter lmao

Man entertainment politics is so stupid I lump all of them in the same bucket, Liberal or Conservative theres better political sources out there who actually engage in good convo

I guess nobody wants to be your friend...