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Plan your next meet ups in person, preferably during pillow talk ex, "what does your schedule look like this week I want us to go check out x place I heard its really fun" Try to lock in a day and then 2-3 days later send a follow up texting conforming if things are still good for the day you guys scheduled things. Ive found typically after I've slept with a girl on 3-4 different occasions she's "locked in." Try to see her once a week at first, if your doing things right she will be the one to ask you when she can see you more often

Ive also made this exact point a while ago, this is a pattern he seems to have in his posts on this part of the forum. The problem with him is that he speaks with authority on this subject when he has little real world experience, doesn't even try to have humility considering all of his advice is just low quality ,half baked red-pill ideas mixed in with some woo-woo nonsense. All this theory goes in the gutter when you actually go out and consistently meet women. People with experience can sense this and have every right to call him out, asking women "how their doing" is fine, having women friends is fine, I'm am genuinely confused how he was promoted to moderator status with the replies he often gives, maybe he has higher quality posts in a different part of this forum because its certainly not found here. Theres no problem with being a theory junkie but don't speak from a position of authority when you don't have real world exp, have humility. This is directed at @NoSelfSelf in case it wasn't clear enough. @StarStruck To answer your question, make a light hearted joke about her splitting with her boyfriend and then change the topic, it could be an objection or she really could have went through a split, either way its not a good place to build off of. Keep building rapport and comfort through small talk and look for a hook point then focus on building attraction, by being polarising, humor, kino, sexual innuendos, ect , try to make plans for a potential meeting in the future and go for the number. Thats the frame work me and my wings use when we go out at night, the same process applies for day game but tone it down abit.

There are better subforms on reddit to ask those types of questions r/seduction is pretty good for people who are new to this kind of stuff last time i checked

@Someone here I remember when you'd make posts explaining how you'd never find sex or a woman, now you have the problem of having to much sex, now thats called self improvement! One thing you can do besides setting boundaries is to build anticipation around sex. Instead of having full intercourse, eat her out, finger her or talk dirty to her while she masturbates in front of you. Sex is much more than physical sensations, taking breaks from intercourse or full on sexual activity makes sex better.

@Emerald Hmmm im not into the idea of being cucked, but what if its just a fetish, like women who roleplay in bdsm or other kinks, I think your take is a little judgmental and narrow minded

I cant believe this thread is going to get over 1000 replies is that a record or something on this fourm? Crazy how Tate has been able to infiltrate every platform, from forums to social media even in jail people still talk about him

If you've consumed porn on a regular basis since a young age and spent years jerking off your dopamine receptors are most likely fried, to the point its effecting other areas in your life. I found out about no fap my junior year of college tried it to various degrees of success, but never stayed consistent. For the summer of that year I decided to quit porn, go on nofap, and practice semen retention even during sex, I probably cummed only 5 times that summer, (while dating a girl btw). One of the most productive summers of my life. The main benefits I experienced, was higher levels of focus, I could sit down for hours at a time and work on tasks that needed to get done. Also my dopamine levels were "reset" as my brain wasn't used to the instant gratification of porn which lead to me getting rid of all instant gratification addictives like social media, and garbage entertainment. This is honestly the best benefit I got. The only analogy I could use would be like an alcoholic finally quitting alcohol and started seeing the world in a sharper way. I also got much much better at sex as I got to practice different ways of bringing the girl I was dating to orgasm without constant penetration, (although something interesting I found out, is that women don't like the feeling of participating in sex and not seeing their partner "get off", this actually led to a few arguments although she understood why I was doing what I was doing) As of right now im not as extreme and will probably jerk off 2-4 times a month and occasionally watch porn or my own tapes as I still have a high sex drive. Ive come full circle to the conclusion that jerking or watching porn isnt bad at all but if you cant quit for at least 30 you might have an addiction or have a fucked up dopamine system.

@ValiantSalvatore Is that where Pretty went? I always thought she moved on from the forum

@The Mystical Man I personally enjoy the memes you make don't listen to the mooks on this thread, clearly cant understand a joke lmao

@Someone here I love reading your posts you never fail to make me laugh, one story after another btw you can make your dong bigger buy an item called a bath-mate and do jelquing exercises heres a good reddit sub-forum to get you started https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/

Good do that again, handling insecurities, limiting beliefs, learning how to build a "dgaf attitude" is much more rewarding than getting a phone number or a lay. Getting good with women, counter intuitively doesn't come from learning what tactics or words to use in a certain senerios, its by overcoming so much of your own bs you ooze a relaxed authentic aura which women will be drawn to. Remember pick up = self-Improvement, lays are fine but the real juice is the person you become one you build good social freedom

There was a guy on this forum who made a thread about sticking a flesh-light on his mirror, putting a vibrator up his ass and looking himself deep in his eyes whilst going in, he was yapping about ultimate self love or some non-sense, this thread gave me that same energy for some reason

How are you able to use ChatGPT the website is saying its currently down

Gotta cash in on that clout before its gone eh

@Eyowey wtf were you typing up lmao

The only way to find out is by getting the exp, do sets where you stay for a short time and sets where you stay longer than you should even if its awkward. Action is clarity when it comes to game not sitting around theorizing especially for newbies.

@Thought Art Lmao thats my favorite album, cant believe such talent can spew this bs kind of sad when you really think about it

@Someone here Dont know about your approach and if im being honest im pretty sure she might flake but you've definitely got a good attitude, rock on playboy

@StarStruck Just pick her up bro, this doesn't have to be some alpha male vs simp frame battle, if she's really attractive seems receptive put in more effort its not a big deal. You can do generous things for people while maintaining a strong frame. Who knows the date may go so well, you might have a 2nd one, if you do make sure you buy her a coat its starting to get chilly now,

Couldnt have said it better myself

50 likes a day on tinder puts you nearly in the top 5% of men on the app, your own experiences are clouding your thinking, try creating a tinder account as an average man and see what results you get and ask that question again. One of my friends explained to me "a lonley man is like having having a farm with no crops to show for, a lonely woman is like having to sift through many damaged, rotten, crops" In each persons POV they probably feel the same emotional impact of loneliness, but ive talked to some guys who've put tremendous amounts of effort improving their lives only to be essentially invisible to women

@longusername12345 Hold off psychedelics based of your post you still seem immature and unsure of yourself, which is understandable since your 17, focus on building proper life skills such as, building a strong work ethic, putting yourself on a path to avoid wage slavery, pushing your body physically, building romantic and platonic relationships ect. At the end of the day, the effect of psychedelics wear of and your back to living your life, imagine glimpsing alien consciousness and then having to cater to some Karen at a bs job just to put a roof over your head or living a sad life because you have bad mental health and dont have quality people around you. Do light psychedelics every 6 months and plan out for it, but other than that don't fall into the trap of "being spiritually advanced at a young age" or else you'll end up like some forum members here who can explain god consciousness but can't get a girlfriend or make a living.

@Tobia He also messed with underaged girls but they don't mention that part

Not really the best way to get laid in college consistently is through night game no doubt, another way is through school clubs and other social events. Sarging day game approaches are not the best use of your time as that time should be spent building a social circle of quality people that can give you access to events or parties. Another method you should incorporate is online dating even though it gets a bad rep on here. Get one of your friends to take quality pictures of you touch them up a bit and create online profiles. I had one when in college and second to night game it's where i got the most women and i wouldn't consider myself incredibly attractive. Again be careful about sarging on a campus I had a friend in a pickup forum who received a warning letter from his university because apparently a few women reported him for sexual harassment. Another also went semi viral on tiktok because someone made a compilation of him approaching multiple women and added one of those texts to speech edits that made him look creepy asf. Im not saying this is necessarily going to happen but its just unneeded risk considering the low amount of benefits you get. If there's anywhere id suggest doing daygame approaches it would be at college events on campus where it makes sense to be social and go up to many people

I'd be surprised if the families got even a fraction of that money, I suspect they will declare bankruptcy or drag out the payments by years or even decades.