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Depends on your job honestly if you work warehouse/ low skilled jobs it doesn't really matter from my experience, for high skilled, high income jobs I wouldn't recommend, office politics could be a real problem if things go south.

Have to disagree here hight PLUS a good body on average tens to preform best in night clubs from my experience.

Being concerned about a woman body count often comes down to your own insecurities about having limited sexual experiences. Gaining more sexual experience and having more platonic female friends helped shed a lot of limiting beliefs i had about them. Lets do some math, say in high-school a girl has 2 partners, then she goes of to college and experiments and has 4 partners she graduates and moves to new city and gets with another 2 before finding someone she can have a longer term relationship with. Is being with 8-12 partners over a 10+ year period that bad? I live in a western country so maybe dating culture is different here but there are lot bigger flags to look for in a woman besides body count. I will admit that a woman with a higher body count than 20+ partners is 90% going to have mental health issues that they channel by being promiscuous. This also applies to men, when I was heavy into PUA again 90% of the guys I met were not suitable for long term relationships and had mental health issues they channeled through getting validation with bedding women. Its possible to have a high body count and be mentally healthy but its rare, as pursing a high body count often comes from bad mental health.

Arnt you the guy who got kicked out a bar for saying inappropriate things to girls? Going up to women and showing them tik toks of weird hypothetical scenerios regarding male female dynamics is almost always going to end up awkward, especially if your intent is to build some sort of attraction. You can go down this route once you already past hook point and you can feel a vibe but even then its sub-optimal game, why introduce "controversial" topics to a stranger? You know its weird because it took you multiple replies for you to even explain what you were showing the women. Your line of thinking in this thread represents someone who is bitter about women and if you don't think that is showing up when you show these women your tik tok videos your socially uncalibrated. Also go to a male therapist who has some understanding of dating dynamics and its still "in tune" with younger people. Your therapist should has some life experience solving the problems you've faced.

@tezk You should start your own blog about this stuff as well, synthisize all the information you've learned over the years and talk about different topics, it can also double as a script for your youtube videos.

This is very high quality advice, I knew of a guy when I was in college who was a massive pos and had extremely unethical practices about courting women, many women ended up coming forward after one reported him for sexual assault, the guy would brag about how banged drunk girls and said he still had videos from his high school days. There was an investigation conducted due to the number of complaints and 1 year later we never heard from him. People like the OP described don't really change unless they face steep consequences.

@tezk Thank you for your high quality post

This is very vague do you have unprocessed baggage from your early years in life, bullying, exploited insecurites ect? I'd suggest to make time in finding a good therapist when you can to help unpackage limiting beliefs. There are times you should go to your girl and confide in her about certain things, but what you described isnt something I would cry to my girl about

@Manusia There is no right age, imo the right time to settle down is when your finically stable, have had a minimum of 20 partners, and developed strong self-esteem. This could take anywhere from 3-10 years to accomplish which is why you often hear people in the improvement space say you should look to settle down in your 30's. If you make taking care of your mind and body a priority this shouldn't be an issue, my dad had me when he was 45 and he is still one of the most energetic, hard working people I know

If your really passionate about film you'd be making short films and posting them on youtube tiktok, instagram ect, its 2023 you dont need a degree to have success in more creative based fields. Anything outside of stem in my opinion is worthless in my opinion, (not the subject or area of study but the cost-benefit of choosing an area of study that doesn't give you ROI) if you are going to college for free thats a different story but if your dishing out 10's of thousands you have a problem.

@Someone here Arnt you in a committed relationship with your girlfriend?

@Optimized Life Ridiculous question, you know the answer to this all you have to do is open your eyes you've seen attractive women with broke men before, what you really want to do is avoid talking to women and cope by going "monk mode" which in reality means having pointless discussions about bs ideas, ask higher quality questions if you want to see progress

Don't want to kill your buzz but this doesn't sound like a good idea, theres too much competition in this space, especially with language learning websites starting to incorporate AI into their platforms. You should be learning about sales, content creation, and marketing in addition to programming, creating a software based biz as your first business is not advisable as you don't have the funds or the exp, (this is coming from a software dev btw). Programing is not something you half ass if your trying to make a career or money out of it. If your serious I would suggest learning Python as your first language. Build a small project and see if programming is something you want to take serious or if its just a hobby. You can still satisfy your passion of teaching languages in different ways that don't involve programming.

Vey shallow understanding of these topics, its not a surprise your entertained by incel and different pill content ,low quality thinkers gravitate to low quality ideas. I suggest your keep watching that non-sense until your overwhelmed by the amount regret you will have, you weren't any better before you found that bs than you are now, thats something you should contemplate.

The only money I've ever spent on PUA stuff was on coaches that were already vetted by a local community. The best way to find a good coach is to go on pua forums/ telegrams, share your experiences, add value and eventually you get invited into smaller group chats. From there you can personally ask them for reputable coaches, (none of them be mainstream btw) or you can just go out consistently with your wings and force each other to approach many sets. Essentially the biggest bang for your buck in paying for a coach is that they force you to do massive amounts of approaches, you don't need to pay some dick head $2k+ for that. Local coaches who have years in the game charge a fraction of that price you just have to know where to look.

You should be jailed for this statement, high production, company made, multiple camera's/edits porn feels so fake, from the moans to the expressions, ughh, I'll pass homemade porn is 100x more authentic much better

Back at it again, my favorite poster asking the questions that matter

Fuck yea, way to bet on yourself and stick with your own values, I was under the impression you were a newbie who got struck with what life is actually like and freaked out. If your already covering your expenses with the income from your business and have emergency fund money the answer was defiantly a no brainer, stop living life for others life is to short, go after your vision.

Dam its been a year already sheesh time is going by fast

@Fadious you have an issue setting boundaries with people start there, also look into physical outlets like, martial arts, sports, or weight lifting

@mmKay Insightful video, fuck some people really have no chance, we can debate on the morality of incest but when you get to shit like this it just makes my stomach turn

Bingo, you can apply this concept to any area of life btw not just women, life is easier when you love life who would have thought?

Setting boundaries is important, make sure you leave enough time for you to develop yourself as a person, weather finically, romantically, spiritually. You have to put yourself first when it comes to being in a position of leadership, (not in a selfish way) when your good and taken care of, you can spread that love to other people. Providing doesn't only manifest itself in a financial form

Ive also made this exact point a while ago, this is a pattern he seems to have in his posts on this part of the forum. The problem with him is that he speaks with authority on this subject when he has little real world experience, doesn't even try to have humility considering all of his advice is just low quality ,half baked red-pill ideas mixed in with some woo-woo nonsense. All this theory goes in the gutter when you actually go out and consistently meet women. People with experience can sense this and have every right to call him out, asking women "how their doing" is fine, having women friends is fine, I'm am genuinely confused how he was promoted to moderator status with the replies he often gives, maybe he has higher quality posts in a different part of this forum because its certainly not found here. Theres no problem with being a theory junkie but don't speak from a position of authority when you don't have real world exp, have humility. This is directed at @NoSelfSelf in case it wasn't clear enough. @StarStruck To answer your question, make a light hearted joke about her splitting with her boyfriend and then change the topic, it could be an objection or she really could have went through a split, either way its not a good place to build off of. Keep building rapport and comfort through small talk and look for a hook point then focus on building attraction, by being polarising, humor, kino, sexual innuendos, ect , try to make plans for a potential meeting in the future and go for the number. Thats the frame work me and my wings use when we go out at night, the same process applies for day game but tone it down abit.

There are better subforms on reddit to ask those types of questions r/seduction is pretty good for people who are new to this kind of stuff last time i checked