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It seems like there's two points being made here, one talking about attraction the other talking about what it means to have a long fulfilling relationship. These are two separate things which both require different approaches, don't know why these threads always end up the same way, ill give it 5 more pages before it gets locked lol.
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Elon Musk is a bad example he is a genius no doubt but his parents were wealthy Dimond miners, his father owned a an emerald mine that helped Elon start off his endevors so that wasn't a good example, but if you live in a 1st world country the least you could do is make an attempt on living life on your terms.
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Dating multiple women means you have options if you ofc some women won't like if you tell them your seeing other chicks but thats what options means, now if your in a committed relationship and your seeing other women thats different, not a good move
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Stand your ground if somebody throws a personal insult address it, especially in an office setting you must have boundaries even if they are joking because it shows them that behavior is acceptable
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Chew the meat spit out the bones, all of these people in some way have provided me with helpful insights so there not completely terrible its just that most people are so unconscious and lack critical thinking they fall for any "get rich quick" product and don't take the time to do there due diligence. Its still an industry with low standards and that definitely has to change and I'm glad for videos like this but lets not act like the people who buy these arnt at fault.
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This is the most simplest path to pickup, 1. Search around yt for pickup advice until you get the concept of what it is to do pickup 2. Go on a massive approach spree to build calibration and work out some kinks The more action you take the easier it is to look for information you actually need. I can give you all the pick up advice you would need and you still would be asking for more stuff. You should only be paying for products once you actually understand what's going on because there so much free value on yt.
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Wouldn't recommend approaching one girl a day if your a beginner cause you'll be fucking up a lot sets and its just going to demotivate you from continuing. I like your idea of approaching just to approach instead of getting sex because it does take a lot of pressure off of you to preform. Plan to approach 5-10 girls back to back 3x times a week. Volume Volume Volume, don't worry about analyzing your sets thoroughly until you make at least 100 approaches. You need to let you mind calibrate naturally in the beginning instead of trying to analyze everything, if you make a goal to approach 100 girls by a certain date your mind will naturally start to auto-correct mistakes you make and then you can go from there. If your worried about developing a "bad rep" go to another town or area from your home base. When I was in uni I would go to another campus to practice, knocking out 15-20 approaches 3x times a week and was never seen as that "pick-up dude." Just don't be creepy and keep your approaches short and you should be good.
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@Yali dude if you want to eat salmon every day eat it, you dont have to take peoples word for it and argue back and forth, 40 years from now if you have brain fog due to heavy metal toxins you'll know your wrong, if not than you were right
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Bando replied to Danioover9000's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Never saw he appeal of the app tbh but by the looks of it it seems to be easy to amass a big following on the platform if you post often enough, 3 of my friends have 100k plus on the app -
@ItsNick I always felt Alex was playing a "role"with all the crazy shit he does, at some point you gotta realize how foolish you are
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Ofc but thats how the game works, there are certain people that I follow who if they decided to put out a product I would be 10x more likely to buy bc they've given me so much value. I almost feel guilty for not giving them my money lol
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Jering off isn't bad lol the porn addiction is, I bet you can't jerk off without watching any porn. Try to go on a porn detox for a week and see how you feel
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Business people are going to be business people if you go to any free training, conference, networking event, expect to be sold heavily into buying something, dont get mad thats how they make their money. There are many degrees of marketing/sales tactics ranging from organic to high pressure, most people are going to use the latter as it converts the most people. The rule of thumb I use when buying courses is simple, has the person I'm about to buy from provided massive value to my life for free? Do I have the budget to invest this amount of money into myself? Will I I take responsibility and massive action if I go through with this purchase? If everything checks out and I do my research and ask questions about the product I'll buy it. Chew the meat spit out the bones, think for yourself. At the end of the day you dont know if the information you get is enough to shift your life completely or not make a difference.
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Bando replied to Someone here's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This brings up the question of reincarnation, when we die wouldn't our consciousness just manifest into another life form? Some spiritual circles correlate reincarnation only to human life but out the trillions of galaxies there must be many other forms we can come back to, trippy.... -
@ertopolice Depends on what your looking for if your looking for a genuine relationships I would defiantly recommend using your network or ask any of your friends if they know anybody thats suitable for you. I wouldn't nessaseraliy recommend to approach random guys because that can have the opposite affect as in reality most guys will find that odd and misinterpret you as "easy" I would recommend you go to pubic spots in your area, (if thats an option), make casual small talk with some people and throw heavy choosing signals. Learning how to flirt and make a guy feel comfortable is also a skill you should learn. I wouldn't recommend online dating for a female unless its just for casual sex as or you set boundaries on what you expect from a man. Some of you guys project way to much of your own bs onto other women and then complain why your aren't getting girls lol
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Ime, the more polarizing you are with a hot chick the more she is willing to engage with you. Pick up artist capitalize on this and actively teach their students on how to create this polarization which often turns into a shallow understanding of dating. I've acted like a douche in the beginning of my dating journey and got great results but eventually girls would realize how untruthful and narcissistic I was and would end up leaving, which lead me to re-frame how I view dating to build better relationships. Most people in their 20's are trying to figure themselves out and can fall into the trap of going after what feels "exciting" instead of compatabilty which leads to the observation you have. This type of behavior is often seen in stage orange people as most 1st world countries are rooted in at this level so it's not surprising. Especially with social media and the content that is broadcasted to people its easy to understand why both men and women can be attracted to materialistic and shallow things. As people grow older they start to realize compatibility is more valuable that raw attraction so they start to screen these traits out
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Lol no advice is going to help you if you don't get experience, stop outsourcing your problems to other people. Make it your mission to ask higher quality questions so that we can actually help you. Go on a few dates, fuck up, tell us your experience and what you should do from there. All your going to get here is mental masterbation. Heres a hint, if you worry that your gf isn't going to enjoy being in your company bc you "ran out of places to go to" you already lost you can take her to the moon and she'll lose interest next week.
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Do you pay a subscription for tinder? That app is literally designed so that if you want results you have to pay a membership. You can't get by without paying for dating apps because there are thousands of other guys in your area competing for women.
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till this day I still don't know if your trolling for not
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Jesus.. just watched the interview, I don't know how someone doesn't go crazy or commit suicide after going through stuff like that. Puts a lot into perspective tho
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Patrick isn't a bad guy and is a good example of a solid stage orange business man. He runs a multi-level marketing business so there's still much devilry going on with him but he does give solid advice on finance and business related ideas.
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Humans only learn through suffering sigh....
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Infields are essentially pointless, all it is that you walk up to a girl without being a creep and speak to her, if you don't meet her threshold of attraction it's game over. Remember for every one infield you see of Tyler he made 75-100 approaches, (his own words) These "in air" theories are gold because when you actually do the work, you naturally come across these sticking points and these videos make that "aha" moment. The only criticism I have for RSD is that its not for newbies as its concepts can only be understood if you are taking action or it can very quickly turn into mental masterbation.
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Life is your greatest teacher all your other gurus and teachers are supposed to teach you how to be a better student of life
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@Findus What would you say to someone who was in your shoes to get them out of their paradigm of thinking? I remember people tried to explain things to you yet you just kept insulted them, what was the aha moment where you released you were deluding yourself?