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Yea ive never really considered what dating is like from your point of view I know that you can get sex if you want to but that's really not you want you want some type of commitment from a man that can love you and fulfill your needs. I don't know if this was you but im pretty sure you said you were a lawyer clearing over 100k a year would you be willing to settle for an average to below average guy that accept you the way you were? Have you considered plastic surgery to help alter your appearance? Would you be willing to move locations? What does your ideal guy look like? How many new men are you meeting each month? Are you satisfied with your social life in general? Theres a lot of stuff to unpact

Very masculine energy and deep attraction will do it. Its never attractive chicks who cold approach they play more coy and throw choosing signals and then i approach which is much better imo

Just keep meeting new people who cares what 3-4 chicks say about how your socializing, don't form your personality to fit in or please others if you don't align with it. In terms of fixing your game aim to go out 2x times a week minimum, here's a trick you can try, i used to do this in the beginning phases of going out. I used to have one airpod in my ear while I approached and recorded my interactions and would listen to them on my way back home or something. Learning to control voice tonality is one of the most important factors in devloping an attractive personality.

Hedge your bets wisley there's nothing wrong with long term relationships but as others on this thread said try to not get the government involved in your marriage. You can have ceremonies without getting the legal documentation. The problem is very few women will be ok with getting married without the gov involved for security reasons, which is why we return to protecting your downside. Make sure you understand female nature so you can spot toxic women, understand prenuptials, understand how the courtroom works in case there's custody battles ect and make sure the woman you want to marry can be a great mother to your kids. You should properly vet a woman at least a 6 months to 1year before considering entering a LTR. There's so many more checklists you should understand but these are the basics to get you thinking.

@Molaric Do NOT cold approach in highschool you will 100% percent mess up your reputation you want to pay the social circle game. When i was in highschool one of my friends had a car and we would go to high schools near us that had basketball games/football games ect. We would go there make some friends who would then invite us out to gatherings and then from there we approached other chicks. You need to get creative stop settling for average solutions, Ask yourself how could I talk to 50 new chicks this week? Allow your brain to come up with weird solutions and try them out

Humans will always be humans doesn't matter if your enlightened. If you have a village of 100 enlightened people hierarchies and politics will always exist. There must be laws to safeguard against human bias

Find out you maintenance level calories, add 300 calories and get 1 gram of protein per pound, (if you weigh 170 pounds eat 170 grams of protein). Drink 2 high protein/calorie smoothies and 2 regular meals and lift heavy gaining muscle isn't rocket science it about consistency and discipline. Protein powder and a nutri-bullet blender are your best friends in getting fit

Get a job first. Field test everything you learn theres thousands of yt vids explaining how to make money and finances, the biggest trap at your age is believing that you'll be young forever. 15 is really young but start looking around on yt on how to make money find a person whose teachings you agree with save up buy there course and set out with the intention to make it work. Consider it like a project dont even worry about making money. At your age unless your parents are abusive you shouldn't be worrying too much about becoming financially independent If i were you I would save up to buy a car as your first big purchase. Second you should put some intensive thought whether college is for you or not. If it is try to get into a top 25 college on a full or partial ride scholarship thats what i did and don't regret my decision one bit.

@Federico del pueblo Yea definitely agree there i've went out out with some good looking tall wings before and you can see first hand how uncalibrated some of these guys are. They definitely get more attention theres no denying that but some act too meek and dont when to take control of a situation and others are much more aggressive and dont know when to dial it back in an interaction This is true but be careful with this type of thinking its easy to fall down the blackpill/incel hole from this view point. If you take a general look at society most young men are not 5'3 and are pretty average looking, with some self help, a good diet, and going to the gym and learning PUA you can have a great dating/social life no problem Learning how to make yourself more presentable to women and learning to calibrate in a social situation are skills every man should make a conscious effort to get better at. No matter your baseline.

Someone get this guy on some RSD videos

Simple tell your cousin that your interested and would like their numbers, after you get their numbers introduce yourself with "Hey this Jed from work you seemed interesting so I wanted to get to know you more" text back and forth a little to build rapport then ask if she's free to do a quick facetime call or a phone call. After that schedule to meet up in person. The point of the call is to build more familiarity so its not so awkward when you first meet up. Do this with both girls you don't have to choose. Odds are one might flake Lose this mentality never expect a woman to initiate a date or romantic event especially in the beginning phases. You will lose so many good opportunities if you have this mindset be a man and lead.

You location, environment, biology, experiences, the media you've consumed all ties into what you find attractive this is usually cemented by the time your 15-18 years old and doesn't often change much. Its really not a big deal I grew up in a very diversified environment and went to a diverse school with different experiences so I really don't care about skin color as long as i find you attractive. In regards to the video, (didnt watch it btw) its not to surprising that certain parts of the world are racist when it comes to dating. Take Japan for example there arnt that many black people there and are often negatively stereotyped so naturally you grow up with a dating bias. Certain countries in Africa also have this bias to white people or any other race.

Its not really the number but the person as well, you need a holistic view when it comes down to this. Whats her relationship to her father?, how did her last relationship end?, whats her view on male/female dynamics?, how does she react when things don't go her way?, does she go out clubbing often?, what are her friends like?, what are her trama's?, how did you court her?, whats the type of vibe she gives off? There's no point in straight up asking what her count as she will most likely lie but if you start getting the feeling that she's not gf material you should probably bring up your concerns and see how she responds or just keep it casual nothing serious. You also have to take into consideration your insecurities and limiting beliefs. If you have very little experience with woman any number she gives is going to make you insecure. Most women actually dont sleep around as much as you would expect. Don't want to sound like the redpill guy but most women aren't built mentally or biologically to sleep with many men. Women who sleep around usually have a trauma there trying to overcome with casual sex which never works and actually reinforces limiting beliefs. Anything higher than 25+ is a red flag for me personally

@OneHandClap Your right also these types of channels spend days/weeks compiling film often doing dozens of approaches to get the reaction they want and do a massive edit to get the good reactions and run with it. I have a friend that has a pretty big prank like channel and have learned many things about the "Youtube world" just by shadowing him and recording a couple clips for him don't be fooled by these videos you don't know how much work goes into these videos.

@Leo Gura Didn't you live in an apartment for many years and recently moved to your house, how come you didn't get a house even though you could have easily afforded one?

Not surprising they give good attraction advice but some aspects should be taken with a grain of salt. If you think this is crazy you should see what they used to post on the forum, there was a legitimate reason they got shut down before

I actually disagree if the job being offered pays 4x and its something you can stand doing and your young I would do it at least short term. What are you going to do with that free time thats what really matters

Not surprised 90% of people would do this if they were in their position, I wonder if humans will still act like this 500 years from now, how does a society even begin to correct people who think like this?

Whats his incentive to do so? You don't have to be ripped or muscular to be healthy being a little overweight or underweight is fine as long as you have energy, have decent cardio health and feel good. Be honest most people workout out to look good for others or themselves theres nothing wrong with it but its the truth, mabey owen has no incentive to improve because he beliefs his body isnt going to get in the way of what he wants

I suggest you track your sleep just because your in bed for 10 hours doesn't actually mean your sleeping for that long, you could be only getting 7 hrs of sleep which could be light sleep, not even getting into the deeper stages of sleep. I bought a Oura ring recently that tracks all this stuff and its one of the best purchases ive ever made

Before you can think about fashion you must have a good canvas, whats your body type, do you look good or decent without clothes on? Are you underweight or overweight? After you do that start looking at men who style you like and go down that rabbit hole, start of of with quality form fitting black and white t-shirts and tapered jeans and then build from there. Also without an image of what you look like it would be hard to give you advice some people look much better with shorter hair than longer hair vice versa its all relative.

just go to the club grab a drink sit down listen to music and watch a few people then get up and leave. Exposure therapy is very importat in a situation like this take very small steps. If you approach any girl with that mentality she will sense your energy and it will 100% kill the interaction

Try posting some youtube shorts of you executing a certain workout those usually do good numbers and you can start building your audience

This, another bit of advice it's going to sound woo woo but go into the interaction by "giving off positive energy" imagine your a source of good vibes and you want to share it without any expectations. Mindset is really an important factor to dial in when cold approaching and will often auto-correct your behaviors so you can have a more natural flow

Also check of Todd V his current stuff is alright last time I checked but his old stuff would be great since he's really analytical and it seems thats your style. Just go to youtube and type "How to cold approach girls" and go explore what you see