Gesundheit

The point is that reality might be the exact opposite. Tolle may be the best in bed, who knows?

To taste enlightenment, maybe. But unlikely to reach it.

You haven't seen him in bed, nor the ones you believe are active. It's all imagination.

If that is true, then lower states are not Truth or Love. Therefore, higher states by definition are limited and not the whole truth.

Yeah that's why it's most likely not always. Hard luck for Tolle

At that point say goodbye to the intellect. The girl would be having some naughty fantasies lol and Yellow will not make any difference.

They would most likely secretly bang anyone with enough status tho.

Enlightenment is the recognition of truth regardless of and throughout all states. A high state does not necessarily offer you that.

Which one would you say works most? Considering that most men/women are at Orange, not Green.

Lol do whatever you want but I'm telling you what's best for your well-being, not necessarily what works Anyway it's not about being a jerk per se. It's about not caring for the other person at all. Just doing your own thing and following what you want like they don't exist in the first place. Women will tell you they want a good guy and bla bla bla. They're lying to themselves first and foremost. In bed they want a bad guy. That what turns most of them on. If you're just picking up and don't intend to have a ltr, focus more on acting selfishly with the "jerk" mindset. You'll win either way. If you succeed you get to have sex, and if you don't you know that you don't take it seriously = being a jerk

If you want to keep her around, that is. But if you don't, just be 100% jerk and enjoy.

The question is: do you want a higher state of consciousness? Or do you want enlightenment? P.S. They're not the same.

Is there such a thing as "freedom"? Oh silly humans. Such a sick species.

I can get myself in and out of "sex mode" on demand.

Women are not as men imagine them to be. They're too overrated for just a human being with strategically distributed fat, generally.

Well then you gotta work on unravelling the illusion which you may not be interested in. I personally can operate from both paradigms, illusioned and disillusioned. So it's possible for you too.

@Evil Raccoon dude if you're doing this for these few benefits I would say it's not worth it. You could focus your attention better on the things you want directly instead of focusing it on abstaining from pmo. If you can handle it well without being addicted, then you can consider moderate use while putting other practices in place, like exercising and socializing etc.. Being on a challenge constantly drains your focus. It can be better utilized somewhere else ime.

now that you have said that just lol

I wonder why people have problems with their families. I don't have any problems, at all. It's probably me, because my siblings have problems with each other and with my parents all the time. It used to be like that for me as well, but not anymore. It's been almost two years and my relationship with them is absolutely perfect. I forgot what a fight feels like. Sure problems arise every now and then, but they slide smoothly. Last night my older sister and father had a huge fight. They blasted each other. He's such an angry dad. I don't like anything about him even though I'll probably end up like him, minus the ever-raging mood of course. I'm a very calm person. I use my calmness to solve their problems and make peace, and when I'm bored I go to bed lol. Sometimes I just trigger them for fun. Laughter is a must all the time. I behave like a clown at home. They now are used to it. I repeat certain clichés that I invented, and they have a certain melody to them so they become infective. It's like programming them with bullshit. It's funny cuz they started doing it even unconsciously lol. It's become part of them. Silly me lol. It is said that the final and most challenging attainment on the path is living with your parents. Well, I am God! Life is a play for me. I guess I could make a great ruler. Yet that is the least likely thing to happen, ever.

@beastcookie you set the standards for what enlightenment entails.

Respect Ralston.

@somegirl Hypothetically, even if you were purposely misleading him, it's on him if he doesn't take it well. Everyone is responsible for themselves. And there's common courtesy, which you showed. But I guess I could see things from his perspective. What a lot of women don't know is that how you treat your female friends should be different from how you male friends, you probably act natural and "unfortunately" natural is sexy. There should be extra boundaries regarding males so that they know their place. Yet again I guess I could see things from your perspective. Boundaries decrease the quality of connection and that's your main concern of any kind of relationships. Perhaps you could find a better balance in the future.

She put in the research, I put in the practice. She's a goldmine of information. I am deeply surrendered and I love myself. Thank you for your concern.

Every ideologue likes to exaggerate their ideology. That how they keep themselves sticking to it. Add also that part of the effect is placebo. They imagine the results they want. And lastly advertisers will perfect everything for you to convince you of joining in. I wouldn't.

@Seed good for you