Jacob Morres

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  1. have to disagree through this process, you can: - learn to how to be yourself with people, and gain lots of confidence in your character - develop social skills - meet tons of cool girls which can lead to meeting cool guys/people as well - uncover your purpose. for me it feels as though game has to with part of my purpose (helping guys develop social skills and self-esteem) - learn how to attract women because many guys are not able to do this very well - the process is emotionally challenging so it builds a lot of emotional mastery if done right
  2. The Science Delusion - Rupert Sheldrake
  3. @Farnaby talking to hundreds of women is a way you can build confidence and skills with women, confidence in life (that carries over), teaches you how to be authentic, find out what you want in girls and what you don't want, what girls dont find attractive and what they do, help you find a specific girl or get the sex life you want. Complimented with... getting clear on your intentions, reframing rejection in a positive way, letting go of childhood and adult trauma, building self esteem, realizing detachment with women, having focus on other areas of your life as well This how I do it Letting things happen leads to lower success and left to luck imo. There are also lots of great dating coaches, methods, and tools Careful to throw the baby out with the bathwater... dr.k has a partial understanding of game, through a negative lens
  4. Statistically only a certain % of people lose weight & 1/3 are obese 50% have $0 in their bank account The average exam taker, gets low grades in easy classes due to a lack of know how Few achieve a certain rank in a video game even though it requires very basic fundamentals. The top 8% of overwatch players are not doing anything special, they are just applying the basics The way i see it, is that almost all things are very achievable through desire, and the manifestation of the desire (however you describe that into fruition aka. Work) and a willingness to change. it's not random to succeed very well in these things. The average person is not driven enough to succeed at these things, or has limiting beliefs about the possibilities so it never comes to fruition. You are NOT a statistic
  5. You can try Noah Elkriefs videos, he addresses these questions. Since his comeback he changed his direction to self love and worth, inner child work, and healing. I think it is high quality stuff from what I've been watching so far
  6. @ 4:10 he compares a person who takes pure action and just practices the piano just hitting keys til something sounds good with a person who just reads a book and never does anything with it. then he goes the former will get way more results which is true lol but what if the person did both? he would save a shit ton of time lmao. he studies optimal finger placement for efficient piano playing. he learns about popular songs that give good foundations for other songs. learn popular bars that have a foundation in most songs. he learns mindsets from top piano players who teach him how to play with joy instead of anxiety. he learns about common pitfalls along the journey of playing music etc.
  7. I think creep is a shadow aspect all these negative labels we put on people are just a lack of understanding the "creep" can be a judgement/negative label - could be a person with severe childhood trauma could be a person who never got exposed to the opposite sex due to a strict traditional upbringing could be a person who might have had a traumatic event happen to them so they are behaving differently could be a person who has been socially isolated because of corona/mental illness etc. they're just people lol now the partial truth is that they may often not approach in conscious ways that the other person is comfortable and there's also some more nuance because the person on the receiving end has their own trauma that gets triggered when people appraoch them
  8. If you have health insurance you can go see a somatic therapist You can also go see a meditation teacher specialized in this kind of stuff Those 2 I find beneficial and can help you develop grounding techniques: deep breathing and grounding yourself into the present moment with feel, sight, hearing - helping you come to the prsent moment and quieting the thoughts feeling techniques: allowing the pain to arise and feeling them fully with intention of letting them go and acceptance - allows the pain to be a non issue and let go inner child work: speaking to yourself kindly and lovingly. Helps you develop self love and compassion and forgiveness. Love will make you feel good Observing techniques: noticing the thoughts that arise and letting them be without judgement. Will pass with time surrender: surrendering to the issue will cause acceptance and peace with the issue. The fear will pass
  9. "There is so much abundance around, you just need to notice it." When regarding job opportunities, solutions to life's problems, to a significant other, to presence, to happiness, love, good positive feelings . what isn't there?
  10. *When I ask girls how to talk to girls* Be yourself! Be nice! Ask questions! Wtf????? Mm msjsjajnabauaalalakmsjshdbxnxnx Most girls don't have an in depth understanding. But girls with less bias, you can have deep honest conversations with Which I guess might be necessary? They can give you some direct experience and nuanced advice. But I haven't experienced that. I've only gotten flimsy advice so far. But im in the camp of talking to girls who have holisitic, deep understanding for now...?
  11. ive done this with lsd it's another world test it yourself set the intentions and watch wonders edit: on second thought, it's been a while i dont remember exactly. but i know that my gameplay is a lot smoother and i can make a lot of interconnections (insights) about game play. i can also play without ego and mindfully I'm NOT too sure about performance but I recommend doing some research and seeing what people's experiences are this article seems a bit promising: https://furthermore.equinox.com/articles/2018/10/athletes-guide-to-microdosing
  12. desires/needs? maybe. only your dick? nope lol
  13. of 100 or 200 mg?
  14. @kosmo hey i'm super interested about your experience with Tiago's content. Is there anything that resonated with you that you don't mind sharing?
  15. the women is also testing the man in many cases and on many other things. if she isn't the wtf she's about to roll the die and pray to god her needs will be met. i mean if the sex bad asf 2-3x in a row and sex is important to you, imo that's a good thing to not take that relationship as seriously. especially if other needs arent being met either testing if a women meets your sexual needs doesn't mean he's treating her like an object treating her like an object is a very specific thing, it's a distinction where the guy doesn't care about the girl's feelings or interests (which is a universal, excess stage orange (or red) phenomena that occurs in both men and woman and in also many other areas of life (business, relationships, parenting, friendships, government etc.)
  16. @Jacko can it release trauma? I have trauma needing to be released and was thinking this might be a good option
  17. I have purchased a book by Shakti gowain for 2.99 here. Well worth
  18. i know this feeling bro. bro your mind is going hyper drive, you'll be okay in a few days and it will reset. try to be present through this fear and do a grounding exercise if you can this too shall pass brother
  19. I will do it 7x and report back (so i have some ample experimentation and feel as though i can properly let people know my experience) !! been meaning to try it out
  20. Are those 99% of guys (honestly) dating and attracting their dream girl? If so, then I will take their advice
  21. @Consciousone35 may i ask the type /style of therapy?
  22. tbh when i first heard this a long time ago i was so shocked. cuz i would watch his videos and get soooo annoyed by it. i'd be like russell? no fucking way that guy is so rude and weird but then i watched some clips of him on youtube attracting very beautiful woman and them blushing and i was like what the fuck?? that dude has some game man i still dont really understand what's happening tbh but it works (but ive never bothered to understand it cuz ive been away from game for a while)
  23. @Leo Gura is it really that hard? it doesn't seem that hard to me
  24. where do you live? i can't see this happening even in india. maybe in a village. people may think you're weird tho
  25. @Heart of Space thank you. I do have insurance In the past I've not resonated with my therapist.. it makes me wary looking for one that can understand me But I know I will find one Thanks again