Jacob Morres

some thoughts.. ...could it be none of these options. what makes you happy? what do you want most? what would make you happiest in 5 years time for having picked? ...i had a life coach once tell me when picking a decision, to follow your highest excitement. ...also, regardless of what you pick, you're going to be okay and you will learn: check out the first clip in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDeWToof0fk&t if you need courage to take a route, maybe think about all what you could do to help you take that leap. maybe a coach, maybe listening to inspirational books or videos on the daily, etc.

I used to have a lot of confidence because I had a great job and that status gave me a lot of confidence. However I don't have that job anymore... where does one gain confidence and worth?

hm. are you sure? i believed this at one point but complete blind trust has the downside of them doing shit to you and you being blindly naive. i don't think blind trust is the way at all. your intuition needs to be heard and seen. blind trust has a massive drawback to it... I like maybe blind trust while also being in tune with your intuition and following it when something seems and feels off

Maybe move to "high consciousness resources" ? i'm looking for a nice high conscious book on the keys to an effective and healthy relationship. that'd be cool

For me I noticed this in the sense that my interpretation of event can actually avoid pain.. like a bad thing happening to someone versus me, my interpretation of the event can be completely different Like one person gets depressed because they lose their job Versus someone else who is like great I can finally fucking work on some other shit now/follow my heart etc.

@wakeup what is energetic work? i want to get into this

they're sorta the byproduct of the system too right? like it's the system's collective responsibility almost for the cop ? i'm thinking of like pedophiles... who were abused and are repeating their childhood trauma by parents who didn't have proper emotional support living within a society where preventative therapy was too expensive, stigmatized, and not shown the importance of it.. perpetuated by the common voter who doesn't know this and doesn't vote people into office to get this preventative measures & treatment more popular... everything is sort of interconnected? while simultaneously though living in a society where this

Leo is your shadow

In ego development part 3 he does talk about this

how do you take all these criticisms... this would take a toll on me...

Oops I mean good puas

i would say pickup is very niche

Why not? I'm sure you could Regular puas do it

Next goal: 1 trillion

Maybe someone or a group to keep you accountable? Just a thought

Links?? Lmaooo

@Leo Gura I'm so fuckin dead They didn't even watch it

hmm attraction is a complex topic though

Yale has a popular course on coursera called "the science of well-being" : https://www.coursera.org/learn/the-science-of-well-being?action=enroll&authMode=signup&authType=facebook wanted to know people's thoughts on it

HOW DARE YOU HAVE A HOLE IN UR SOCK thank you for posting this btw, my mother is like this a lot, it is extremely irritating. for me it is too od... she tries to push me into things even when i dont feel ready. she tries to make me do things i dont want to do or give me suggestions to improve my life in ways i dont want to. constant nagging. ugh... but it's nice to hear someone else going through it interesting too though. my mom also picked up meditation too after i told her about it LOL but idk. makes me want to move out. i want to see some different angles about this first though, maybe there's a more conscious approach not sur

ive been sleeping on LoA. ive been doign affirmations now for a few months (very slowly and unconsciously) and seeing the benefits has really showed me how powerful they are. it's like damn... wish i started earlier

What do you want to debate? Which ideas do you not enjoy?

Bit ironic, your tone is definitely condescending Also the way you talk about pickup is black and white. Dating theory is done differently depending on the person It also has helped a lot of people bust limiting beliefs when done right It also includes a lot of unique understanding on the psychology of women, men and dating It also provides lot of tools like building confidence and charisma, attraction, and authenticity Etc. Don't throw the baby out with the bathwater Also, that's good that you have had successful relationships your whole life without any dating theory. However, not everyone is in the same boat as you. Also, I agree with some things you say like not relying on pickup techniques etc. I think a strong inner game is needed as well but some of the pickup theory i find to be very useful

@diamondpenguin but also girls on average are not so horny as guys so its not as important But yeah def way easier ofc. Was def a big insecurity for me for a while

same with me