Jacob Morres

And exploitation from men as well too?

Beast quote dude. Pretty inspiring

Not sure Like im thinking really abnormal people, like people with extreme deformities. Like face burned in a fire, or no limbs, being 4'2" stuff like that? I've seen people get into relationships even like this.. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lizzie_Velásquez Or Or Etc. You can find countless examples of this if you google I really do think there is someone for everyone. I'm thinking that if you really set an intention to, you should be able to. Will probably requires lots of healing, changes and action (process will change depending on person) but my guess is it should be possible irregardless

@ColeMC01 sure you can tailor it to whatever goal you want though. If your goal is to just sleep with 1 girl a year or get a gf which is this guys interest, there needs to be some method to make that happen Self esteem work + meeting girls somehow through whatever means

@John Mitchell if you're worried about social norms, you can do it in a socially acceptable way that doesn't fringe upon peoples well beings or make people uncomfortable. You can learn to be conscious in this manner. You can also explain it to people in a socially acceptable way (I have done that many times). My understanding is of what you're saying is: by approaching people you are breaking this social contract constructed by society and that contract cannot be broken. The approach/pua is an inherently not socially acceptable thing that you should be doing. It is a very negative act where you are infringing and hurting people's well being. Imo, no. You can approach people with the intent to have a conversation and flirt and without infringing on anyone's wellbeing

you are constantly going against social norms and survival all the time. if you started a business 5 years ago+, you'd be going outside social norms. and in many circles you still would be following your heart, you'd be going outside social norms not getting a 9-5, you'd be going outside social norms pursuing enlightenment, doing retreats, you'd be going outside social norms doing many types of inner work, you'd be going outside social norms doing some break-through science having a unique and opposite opinion (systems perspective in a green environment) being a leader like MLK depending on the color stage of your environment, doing anything outside of that would be going outside of social norms. for example, doing lsd in a blue environment (this would be an extreme backlash though if they found out. talking to girls is akin to the previous things). many times it's a good thing to go past social norms. social norms won't help you reach your highest potential because the social norm is not at a high developmental level etc. etc. "hey man if you do this you gamble with your survival" yeah man, enlightenment... literally most things that you do that pushes your comfort zone will trigger your amygdala to go bonkers. that's your fear holding you back. that doesn't mean you shouldn't be doing it. lower self tries to keep you safe, higher self tries to look out for you and help you reach your infinite potential this cultural norm you're talking about is not as serious as you think it is. you're not getting naked in public. you're going up to girls + learning how to flirt. you're learning how to be social. you're practicing self-confidence.

yeah i was wrong it was way less than that dude 1-2 girls per year is nothing lmao. cold approach + inner game would solve that so easily for you

it really depends like, if you have very low confidence, social skills, bad life experience, traumas etc. you'll have no choice but to do a lot of inner work and a good amount of outer work to get to an average level. i don't think cold approach is the only way ofc average sex life i don't think is that great anyways? i think the average dude sleeps with 1-2 girls a year? i think that might even be a little above average. edit: https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/average-number-of-sexual-partners nvm according to this article is literally 7 over the course of their lives for the average person

Seems you want empathy rather than advice? Lmk if that's true? Sure, if you don't want to do it the pickup way, which way would you like to do it? I find pickup can be a very effective method of finding women personally. Because when you see a girl you like you can just walk up to her and start a conversation. It makes things a lot easier. Guys with confidence and who are good with girls can do this with ease you could also use dating apps if you want. Clean up, get some pics, do some inner game work and start talking to girls online. I'm pretty interested in hearing a better alternative to cold approach though. To me it seems like: Setting proper intentions and getting the skills/whatever necessary to manifest that intention is key to the process

I want to do everything. now. all at once. how do i boil it down? i'm having a lot of trouble focusing on the highest leverage things? something tells me it's very simple but challenging to know i feel like i backlogged like 40 things. like relationships, emotions, self-love, purpose, diet, organizing my room, hobbies everything. i don't know how to choose, or take action on these things? i just feel so shitty, i have so much to implement but only so much i can do at once??? also ironically while trying to do 100 things im doing none hahahaha

no doubt totally agree, never said otherwise.

guys he's just a human!! let's not demonize him

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careful with incel philosophy. it's very disempowering and victim related. there's definitely truths you can pick up but you need to really be detcahed from the philosophy as a whole and look for the nuggets to understand the worldview your world-view, self-image, experience and intention will take you a longg way i can guarantee you, with a healthy psychology, he would be able to get girlfriends without much problem

Congrats Leo! i have no specific questions just wish you well on your journey

Self actualization (healing. Creating, spiral dyanmics, philosophies etc.) Is a lott easier when base needs are met For me, friendship, money, exercise and direction

“If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.” i find trouble finding a book telling me how to love myself, what it means to love myself, and how to go about it, the benefits also a book for self-transformation maybe they're out there? but i haven't found one that i've resonated with yet

whatre your thoughts on organic?

Limitings beliefs are an illusion: Money beliefs Happiness beliefs Relationship beliefs Root identity beliefs Love beliefs Potential beliefs Fears, uncertainty Wowza

can you share some about these workshops? i'm very interested. if not the specific one, then maybe in that general direction so i know what i'm looking for?

“Problems do not go away. They must be worked through or else they remain, forever a barrier to the growth and development of the spirit.” Scott m. Peck

Judgements underneath breath, laughs at you, looks at you weird, few times competitive to the point of slightly abusive (yelling, screaming, insulting), can talk behind back sometimes, judges green-ness from an orange perspective It's a bit over the top. Definitely stems from some inner wounds Dude is a decent guy though besides that? We've had some intimate conversations, had some fun times and overall decent friends However the former always turned me off. I always wondered if I should talk about it (usually he does change overtime when I bring it up), or just move on where I'm treated better because some things, (like judgements) just are not possible to change. Also granted, it does not seem personal to me, he seems to be this way with other people as well. Wondering everyone's opinions! Thank you

Yeah hes def mentioned it before. I think there's just so much material its hard to cover everything?! Also interesting that he uses the heart as a compass. Recently I've heard also to follow your highest joy, highest excitement as compasses. I wonder how these all mesh, if they do

but people also seldom work on themselves to OP: I've met yellow people on the internet. Have met a few at an eckhart tolle meetup. was surreal. at the time thought they were weird. now i see they were developed much higher than me at the time

"When you treat someone like a person, they start acting like one" "Non-interference is an important aspect of consciousness and love. You don't stick your nose where it don't belong. You don't got derailing the developmental paths of others without good reason." - Leo Gura I want leo to make a video on that. a video on how to love others unconditionally . i think to do that, you have to love yourself