Jacob Morres

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  1. what does your gut say? may not be the end all answer but it could clue you if you do feel like rekindling , try to make sure you can commit to healing and being emotionally conscious of her needs and in my experience, also make sure your needs are met. when i tried to rekindle my old relationship it didnt work because the second time around she went haywire. she became unfaithful and disrespectful
  2. 22:06 - 29:12 What do you guys think about this perspective? Agree/disagree?
  3. Bridging theory and practice Insight and integration Def of intelligence is the ability to acquire and apply knowledge. It's not your IQ, your EQ. At least by Websters definition..
  4. yep. but there's a difference between being okay with it versus doubling down on identification ah yes i am not okay... that that is okay vs i am not okay... this is just how life is (but pattern this too can be accepted)
  5. abundance makes it really easy to be detached though
  6. I just thought of this cool theme. Through chaos, emotional difficulty, pain, challenge... better things are born Being wrong is the pathway to being right Making mistakes is the pathway to getting better Through relational conflict intimacy Is born Pain in the muscles when lifting leads to bigger muscles trying to learn something new is hard at first but gains u valuable skills later Creating a new identity will be very difficult but will lead to a more proserpoerous future Digging into your traumas can be scary but leads to better emotional wellbeing There is beauty in difficulty. Moving through it leads to something great
  7. i think some people are just in it for the validation, so as soon as you start to make it more serious with some commitment they might just bail. but, it's hard to say what it is exactly, it could be anything. and many things to do with her own issues and not you i can 100% promise you there will be girls that are available and interested sometimes it could be something you did, sometimes it could be nothing you did, and all of the girl's issues instead and even if it was something you did, it means nothing about your worth, character or capability to attract women just a beautiful learning lesson of how the world works and what not to do next time. and maybe a call to love yourself and do a little healing this is just my worldview for this stuff
  8. My arm was also sore for the first one. I had no energy and was decently sick for a day with the second
  9. Systems of personal development: Kaizen method Goal-setting + Visualization == Difference between Good and Bad personal development Quality vs Poor quality personal development Personal development that actually creates results The 80/20 of personal development Relevant (individual) personal development How much is too much personal development? What's the appropriate amount?
  10. https://instituteofyou.org/multiple-intelligences/
  11. 7:08
  12. yes it may have happened to you but how you respond to it is your choice and also your responsibility you can choose to be a victim to it or respond in a way that will be empowering, beneficial, transformative, and helpful == between stimulus and response there is a space. and in that space lies your power == "Some spiritual teachings teach that pain is ultimately an illusion, and that is true. The question is, is it true for you? A mere belief does not make it true. Do you experience pain for the rest of your life and keeping saying that it is an illusion? Does that free you from the pain? What we are concerned with is how you realize this truth - that is make it real in your own experience." - Eckhart Tolle (Practicing the power of now)
  13. Context context context information without proper understanding of the factors at play will be inaccurate
  14. @SamC that takes a lot of courage man to say that. Thanks for speaking up
  15. mm idk sometimes. depends on who is asking. you do you tho its not my place to tell u
  16. i agree with you but at the same time you can't tell someone else what is best for them
  17. hmm well i think it's a decent tool you can use to help yourself not crave/need sex from women. i mean it can be really useful, make you a lot less needy..
  18. Bridging the gap between insight and integration
  19. does biological system count? solar system
  20. Failure hi failure, how do you do? seems you like me, I like you too thank you for showing me what doesn't work thank you for showing me the wrong direction thank you getting me closer to success! i've learnt to welcome you i've unlocked the doors that were covered in chains finally taking a breath of fresh air i release the fear of you you are not scary you are guidance Failure
  21. problem with trying to be self-confident is that you're trying to be someone you're not, denying your original self as not good enough to be someone that you feel deserves love and acceptance instead i propose to be confident in yourself, as you are. good enough as you are. it's an act of self-love