Jacob Morres

i think some people are just in it for the validation, so as soon as you start to make it more serious with some commitment they might just bail. but, it's hard to say what it is exactly, it could be anything. and many things to do with her own issues and not you i can 100% promise you there will be girls that are available and interested sometimes it could be something you did, sometimes it could be nothing you did, and all of the girl's issues instead and even if it was something you did, it means nothing about your worth, character or capability to attract women just a beautiful learning lesson of how the world works and what not to do next time. and maybe a call to love yourself and do a little healing this is just my worldview for this stuff

My arm was also sore for the first one. I had no energy and was decently sick for a day with the second

Systems of personal development: Kaizen method Goal-setting + Visualization == Difference between Good and Bad personal development Quality vs Poor quality personal development Personal development that actually creates results The 80/20 of personal development Relevant (individual) personal development How much is too much personal development? What's the appropriate amount?

https://instituteofyou.org/multiple-intelligences/

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yes it may have happened to you but how you respond to it is your choice and also your responsibility you can choose to be a victim to it or respond in a way that will be empowering, beneficial, transformative, and helpful == between stimulus and response there is a space. and in that space lies your power == "Some spiritual teachings teach that pain is ultimately an illusion, and that is true. The question is, is it true for you? A mere belief does not make it true. Do you experience pain for the rest of your life and keeping saying that it is an illusion? Does that free you from the pain? What we are concerned with is how you realize this truth - that is make it real in your own experience." - Eckhart Tolle (Practicing the power of now)

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@SamC that takes a lot of courage man to say that. Thanks for speaking up

mm idk sometimes. depends on who is asking. you do you tho its not my place to tell u

i agree with you but at the same time you can't tell someone else what is best for them

hmm well i think it's a decent tool you can use to help yourself not crave/need sex from women. i mean it can be really useful, make you a lot less needy..

Bridging the gap between insight and integration

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5%?????? that sounds like peanuts

does biological system count? solar system

Failure hi failure, how do you do? seems you like me, I like you too thank you for showing me what doesn't work thank you for showing me the wrong direction thank you getting me closer to success! i've learnt to welcome you i've unlocked the doors that were covered in chains finally taking a breath of fresh air i release the fear of you you are not scary you are guidance Failure

problem with trying to be self-confident is that you're trying to be someone you're not, denying your original self as not good enough to be someone that you feel deserves love and acceptance instead i propose to be confident in yourself, as you are. good enough as you are. it's an act of self-love

@Etherial Cat ah i remember seeing this a while back. mccain really has some good integrity

me sometimes lol on a real note, the CEO of jubilee, Jason Y. Lee, seems to have high integrity imo. - he is honest, fair and kind with his employees. in his videos he states his honest opinion, listens to their opinion, reflects back to them. he is also not a doormat because though he is empathetic he also is true with his own opinion -how he structures his relationships with his significant other is integrous. he is very value driven with her (he states and lives by the values he states) - his vision is noble (he is trying to create a more empathetic society). he is integrous to his soul in this because he used to sell himself to wage slavery and now he is following his heart I can share the videos where I got these impressions because I think nobody here knows him besides me probably lol. if anyone is interested in the rest i can share here's the one where he speaks about his vision and the steps to getting there. from fluctating between low to high integrity and finding his path along the way i think the main this is that he is very value driven. which i think from leo's video means can mean you are integrous

i think both sides need to be heard and seen and come together. self-bias has too much in play here.. both issues are valid imo. there just needs to be more nuance and not make it black and white. we need to approach this situation consciously both the metoo movement and anti-movement are flawed

doesnt cancel culture depict otherwise? from noticing in the gaming community most people that were accused of something had like a 90-10 in favor of siding with the woman

haha i felt the same thing. i was like wtf yall takin all my shit ahaha

what would be a healthy relationship between two people? Some characteristics i can come up with would be: - stating your boundaries. respecting each others boundaries - stating your feelings. validation of each others feelings. validation of your own feelings - apologizing and taking ownership of mistakes/wrongdoings - being aware of your projections - having good conscious intentions - being emotionally conscious of how your actions impact the other person - being conscious of and voicing your needs - An intention of love and respect (i think this is the foundation) any and all thoughts are welcome. what would you add? what do you find important?