Jacob Morres

RAS is some shit other day i was thinking about needing a system to get better at video games because playing irregularly yields low results so i wanted consistent playing on a consistent schedule. sort of like working out. after i had that insight i was open to receiving that info and then i found it literally immediately then today i was thinking about needing friends to play overwatch with because if you play without a duo it is lonely, difficult and yields lower results. so i opened my mind to it and found the results almost instantensouly. weird how the world gives you the answer as soon as your mind begins to genuinely look for it

I think the only way i can handle the problem with my parents it through systems thinking because handling my parents with green values is so trash it gets me nowhere because they dont resonate with it deeply enough... instead of dealing with it at green stage, i have to handle them where they are at instead of trying to bring them up to green

another one is setting boundaries, like what you tolerate/dont tolerate.

@Emerald sorry about that i misread that hard

i think bringing this up in the same paragraph makes it seem like it marginalizes men's issues... like: yeah men have these problems... but women have it worse but thats not to say i dont agree with most of ur points

I realized that mindfulness of my anxiety in social situations can also be applied to my anxiety in all situations Then I realized that my mindfulness isn't strong or powerful enough, and I need to be more focused with its light

One of the issues with advice in overwatch is that the whole underlying problem of good mindset is missing! How can you implement advice without proper structure, good mindset, proper regime and learning skills?? How can you apply without self confidence? It's very difficult to apply advice when your underlying feelings are all over the place If you have an underlying mindset of self confidence, it is much easier to apply advice! Same with social skills! You can tell me what to say, but an underlying feeling of self confidence makes the whole journey 10x smoother. Honestly its a complete lack of awareness of the INNER GAME of social skills

something i notice i do is that i try to do things and give aid and serve others in the way i should give myself i want to be a social anxiety coach and self-esteem coach but really i just want these things solved in myself? idk lets just do it

i do not have the answers you seek unfortunately but are you familiar with the hero's journey? @Leo Gura whatre your thoughts @PureRogueQ dont feed her fear bro. thats not chill

Self-acceptance vs self-improvement Self-acceptance... is being okay with what is. with that struggle. with that pain. with that flaw. with that negativity. comes peace. Self-improvement... is a desire for a higher being. for more love. for a higher power. for a better life. for better relationships. for a better outcome. for more joy & happiness. Develop this idea more

There is a trap in giving advice when you dont understand when that advice is appropriate and when it is not When you don't have a in depth understanding of the advice, your advice will not be accurate in many cases

How do you tailor your game for guys not interested in game A? To be frank, I have a much bigger desire for a relationship than game A. Game A to me seems like too much effort.. like it's not high enough as a value for me How would you go about this? Do you recommend going game A if your only intention is game B?

Funny because you derailed my thread with your gender wars

honestly from a man's side, i could honestly say the same thing but with strength as a character trait. but i dont take it too seriously + i cant do anything about it so i dont blame anyone

https://instagram.com/raydalio?igshid=7byd0hfztfvq Great insights on success, personal development, and on life Very healthy orange/green

Shame is effective in the short-term because it can cause behavior change. Someone shames, the other person feels bad and changes behavior because of it. But the long-term cost can be diminished self-worth and create a shadow for the one on the receiving end of the shaming. And to the one shaming, that person may feel guilt for damaging that persons self-esteem. Both parties also experience a lack of intimacy, and possibly integrity loss for the action of shame. Also another issue, is that shame sometimes does not even cause behavior change, and only includes the negative consequences of it (shame) Another issue is that sometimes, the proper philosophical understanding that is trying to be communicated is not properly received by the receiver of the shame. AKA, the lesson is never learnt, even if the behavior is changed due to the shame. The shamed is not wiser from the interaction.

what is it that you would like to do with that time?

you might like the book creative visualization by shakti gowain

nahm you truly inspire me thank you

Same boat. I would like to have enormous self love, + confidence. Like I want to be confident but simtaneously I don't want to give up myself and my values.

Game sense in overwatch to me currently means, given all the variables what decision you make. and the quality of your decisions, increases the quality of your rank When translated to IRL , the transition creates THIS: game sense in real life is fucking systems thinking . given all the variables given, the quality of your decisions dictate the quality of your effectiveness + results in life

me too

interesting coffee for me is an amazing stimulant. i feel energized happy and more conscious

If you feel yourself stuck or lost, return to the present moment and listen <3