Jacob Morres

I dont think rsd is the move anymore. We need better holisitic forms of game. What are they? I dont know.

yeah this i think a problem with feminism is that it can marginalize men's experiences, not inherently though. but im also very early to this topic i also wish the two groups could come in harmony and work together. if women are being marginalized they need to be heard. and if men are being marginalized, they need to be heard. all people deserve love equally. but it will take decades of progress and healing

@Leo Gura maybe you should just talk about more digestible topics on there? like some orange/green concepts might be useful. in a way that just nudges them slightly to more open-mindedness

im confused, what was the lesson?

It probably is the highest, after fame However, don't underestimate yourself nor the things you can work on. If you look for examples you will find many average-below average guys who do great with women I personally know many. (Ethnic + below average) but because they have some of the things I mentioned, they do fine in the dating world I agree that some people will generalize. I think many will, but it's not nearly as intense as you say it is. And especially since you said you're 4.5/8, you could definietely come to a 6-7/8 if you build out these things And even if you don't, a 4.5 is fine in itself. The average girl (and boy) is also a 4 And also just feeling and believing you are attractive and confident, will make you go higher. And also having self love for where you are will also make you more attractive to some women You're underestimating what's in your control and overestimating/catastrophizing the things that aren't

@Growly blackpill is definietely false you can do many things that increase your attractiveness - embodying your masculinity (and even feminity) - self-love/self-confidence - being happy, positive, joyful - good fashion sense - feeling attractive (gives an attractive vibe) - learning flirt and game with women - building social status - building wealth - clarifying your values and finding girls with similar values (girls like men who know what they want) - being good at sex these things will take you far man. you dont even need looks sometimes. plus if you are 4/8 rated that means you are average. so at the bare minimum you can at least get average girls (if you dont work much on the things i mentioned) blackpill is a toxic ideology, it needs to be deconstructed, seen through and healed through. it will take some time and effort though

how is it anti-feminist? it's not anti-feminist to think men need love

tolle also maybe even rsd tyler.. i remember tyler mentioning he wanted to do a video with you a few times

Ah the perfect thread for this video. This part in this video explains the dark side of feminism 22:06 - 29:12

Small steps lead to big change Big things is often the accumulation of small things? Is this always the case? When is it and when is it not How does this work with 30-90 days challenges? == https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMe4Pfhga/

!! yes!! vishen is very open-minded. part of his business was built from of wilber's integral theory.

my body is ready

Week 1 If I bring more awareness to my life today… - i'd breathe more man. relax a little. show yourself a little love - id see clearly the truth - id try to see why sentence completions dont work - id let go of tensions and stress - id forgive myself - id walk with grace If I take more responsibility for my choices and actions today… - id get a job - id put a little effort into getting a job - id look at options of getting a job - id think about how much a job is important to me - id focus on a goal - id relax getting the job If pay more attention to how I deal with people today… - id breathe love. find a little peace in my day - not be so stressed all the time - show myself a little love - breathe - love my anxiety - watch my anxiety - be the ocean. - flow. vibe. hear. see. love If I boost my energy level by 5 percent today… - act with excitement! - follow what excites you. - no. sleep better. - look into sleep optimizations -talk to my sister. i love her - remember my accomplishments The art of doing sentence completion well is to maintain a high level of mental focus combined with a complete lack of internal censorship. Doing sentence completion on a daily basis as described here is a kind of psychological discipline, a spiritual practice, even, that over time achieves insight, integration, and spontaneous behavior change. People sometimes ask, “How do I integrate the things I am learning in sentence completion?” The answer is that practice itself, done repetitively, brings about the integration. The speed of your progress depends in part on the level of focus and consciousness you bring to the work, both while doing it and later when reviewing and reflecting on your endings. - Nathaniel Brendan ??

wow nice work. i did this a few years ago. have u found it helpful? i only tried it for 3-4 weeks so i dont think i saw much benefit haha

@Emerald if you think you could just roll up and do great on dating apps (as an average guy) you're incredibly naive on the challenge it is for dudes on dating apps , sorry. you're in for a rude awakening do apologize if i come off a bit much

Who do I heal in this scenario? It is so complicated that an accurate answer can’t be given because there are other factors that we aren’t aware of in your scenario. - random dude on the internet

I've come across a few, I don't remember their names but when I find them I will get back to you

ya this. though i think men may have it harder overall. like everyone has struggles. you can say that people in 1st world countries have struggles and so do those in 3rd world countries. everyone has struggles. but there is definitely a clear difference that being said i am not versed well on all the struggles of women in the dating place. that also being said, as leo said, don't look at statistics for personal development work. the average person is not great at survival and shouldn't really be used as a data point as to what's possible. most people are just barely scraping by. it's not as hard as these statistics make it out to be. you can make great results in 1-2 years if you put in the work statistics are not holistic because they track and explain very little of the entire picture

he stopped making viral kind of content and moved more into quality and depth

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No I don't agree with this definition From my personal experience with the people I know this isnt the case..

@John Iverson nah bro i've seen a lot of good spiritual and personal development content on tiktok. i've seen some people even talk about non-duality stuff too. the average tiktok video is just memes and trends and stuff but there is a good niche in there.

there is def a small - medium size spiritual community on tiktok. u need to curate ur page very well though

i've made this mistake hahaha. i this this could be a life principle too more than just for investing

this is an example of invalidating someone's experience