Jacob Morres

because things seem to be interconnected, sometimes the solution isnt solving the thing itself, but something that's next to it so you are playing bad at video games might prompt you to think to get coaching but really you just need some coffee and a nice diet that will help you play energized and much better

Why is rsd hyped so much? I feel there are better channels?

@Hello from Russia ahh I actually have that one but completely forgot about it lol, going to dig into now ?

A gem ted talk from tim ferriss, a meta learner who explains his framework about mastering any field

I liked the channels the Fearless man and natural lifestyles

I know the feel I spend like many hours, it's embarrassing to saw how many hahahha. I find that when i have some goals it takes a lot of time away from youtube

@Insightful27 I know, it's amazing. I'm currently doing research in this field and this one was really great @Hello from Russia hey do you happen to have any recommendations for hyperlearning techniques?

Great video on this topic.

I honestly think having connections in the job field is the best thing. if you have a connection it dumb easy. like a referral like a decent/good CV + a good connection is so powerful. its how i got my job and how my friends got good jobs. cuts the process imo i thought about just paying someone in the company for a referral another thing is opportunity spotting, like if there's specific opportunity in the field that you find, it's dope to take advantage of that and do it. i've found that these opportunities can cause anxiety and doubt about the field because the field has not been properly tread, but you have massive first mover advantage also this: Also some more things to note: Getting really fucking clear about what the employer is looking for is important. It's easy to sell yourself when you have a project that depicts the exact need of the employer I know that psychologically for many people, the process of finding a job can be difficult. But having confidence, trust in yourself, and in the process is key just my 2c feel free to disagree or spot errors in my thinking

id invest most of it myself and put some into a business

whats that? like top quality?

Ya I've also heard leo say the most results come at the end

naw pointless is a strong word check out this lady instagram.com/datingbyblaine tons of great insights three that I picked up that I found useful: To understand what a women wants, it's first important to empathize with them. If you don't know what they want it's hard to give it to them. She says this lack of understanding is where most dudes trip up Another one is that she encourages you to not put up with poor behavior by the women and that you deserve good respect in the interaction. If she is being flaky, giving poor responses etc. to not engage and hold your boundaries firm (https://www.instagram.com/p/CLFaz7jp2AS/) She also encourages non-neediness ofc using her only won't let you reach holism, but she has tons of great material. i dont agree with all of it though ofc. i feel like it's unholistic to just stick only to men

Leos video on holism hits different If you don't have holism it's hard to be effective because you are unaware of many variables. Feels like putting lipstick on a pig

@Consept love that idea. I've been using it for years. Careful not to rationalize peoples behavior because of it. I'm learning that just cuz its not personal doesn't mean I should allow it. You might not have any prob with it, just felt compelled to warn you in case

@The_Truth_Seeker the way I define feminine is being kind, generous, loving and empathetic that might be a wrong definition though. How are you defining it? I am defining masculine as assertive, decisive, leader, ambitious. I don't think its one or the other tbh I think it depends on the person and what they need. Some dudes for sure could use the "feminine" qualities I mentioned. But many dudes for sure can use the "masculine"

Yeah i thought about this before too.. if the adage is true and men really are that cut throat about looks, it's definitely unfortunate that it may be more difficult for some girls. but at the same time, i think beauty do be in the eye of the beholder sometimes, and also i've definitely personally seen some mismatches in physical attractiveness happen but as a dude that isn't secure in himself i can tell you that dating is hard as fuck lol and i have to say that i've personally been through some of the struggles and it's not easy at all. the silver lining is that we do have a lot we can work on also there is the point that you dont even need the world attracted to you right? like you just need one SO that meets your criteria. it's chill if the rest are not okay with you, but i think if you non-needy patient and trusting, you will find the right person. me personally, i dont think i'm that cut throat about looks. i personally prefer personality 80% and looks 20% but i do have a minimum need for physical attraction though . ive seen the fulfillment that comes with personality and that honestly is 10x better than looks any day. i definietely need to contemplate this more though

Top overwatch insight: I am gm and everything is part of that. All mistakes, everything. Mistakes don't make me not a gm player

What Nahm said In therapy today I learned it really has to do with stop efforting. My trying too hard really was the obstacle in the road. letting go and just being and feeling my emotions was so much better and allowed for a better place to make change from

next journal iterations: 80/20 the information

@modmyth ah nice catch! I think a better distinction would have been advice giving versus when to listen, but both being empathetic

Topics I want to cover soon: Building strong relationships with friends, family and a SO Self love Self esteem, self confidence, boundaries Mindfulness Career Meta learning Enlightenment Ocd Mastering emotions

We live in a world abundant of resources: Therapists for all disorders Life coaches for all problems People who have done what you've want and can show you the ropes Groups dedicated for singular topics Books, cohorts, courses, videos written directly for your issues Masters in respective fields Tons of people on Instagram, Facebook groups, friends of friends, youtubers, tik tok creators, people in forums (paid and not paid) willing to help Friend groups, communities Meet-ups and groups on zoom Dating apps Entrepreneurship groups Entrepreneurship masterminds And more and more. You don't know what you don't know

How to help someone change: https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/12-ways-help-someone-change.html https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transtheoretical_model

As a human being, we have immense power We have to learn how to control it, to use it, to actualize it, to manifest it