Jacob Morres

@blessedlion1993 part of me does feel like youre rationalizing hierarchy mindsets similarily to how someone would rationalize racism like ive heard before like 'yes racism exists and we have all have racist biases so it just do be like that'. but it doesnt actually rationalize racism nor does it remove us from the responsibility of working on our biases and working to making change on systemic racism also regarding leadership, some form of leadership is more conscious than others. like you have tiger parenting in asian culture which actually produces high results in academics and the work force. but there are many costs to it. lack of emotional development, happiness, autonomy and a weaker bond between the child and parent i dont think the military is a good example of conscious leadership because of its authoritarian style. nor do i feel like many businesses that are too profit oriented choose profits over ethicalness & meaning to an extreme level. but yeah they work in producing results

i think it's product of social conditioning, but it's the not the most ethical. i still have those biases actually but ive worked through a little of it. i think ideally we'd want to see everyone as equal. like 'humans of new york' if you know that page you might "feel" above that person, but he's an equal to you. hes just like you but unfortunately was given lesser privilege. but also i have a lot of this bias as well so i cant have no holier than thou attitude as that makes me a hyprocite

My therapist has this very unique ability of truly comprehending what I'm saying. She's so adept at it that it's much above my level of awareness. She can read people . she might be a top 1% therapist Socially and emotionally, the wisest ive come across . but she's not perfect

I don't feel afraid to commit I just haven't found one that lights my soul lol

yeah it's how it should be done actually.

I didn't like the habit of ferocity as well. I just felt i got such little wisdom from it I bought the all-access pass and i'mma be real, idk. I tried a bunch, and like the intro videos and a lot of it just felt underwhelming - except for ken wilber's course. I love Wilber, I watched a couple videos of his and felt I got a good amount from it Idk what it is to be honest. I just couldn't resonate with it. I dont think they built enough trust in me

dudes projecting a lot - gary vee cares a lot of what people think of him. he talks about it a lot in his speeches but at the same time he talks about how some of his underlying motivations is to prove people wrong lol. which i think sort of birthed his whole shift towards "empathy" cuz he is sort of speaking from arrogance when he's talking about it id peg him at orange with a little green. i dont think he's a green entrepreneur, he has hasnt embodied his values of kindness and empathy because he rants on ppl soo much in his speeches. idk thats just my opinion

@Terell Kirby I disagree, trying to help people with ridicule is mostly emotionally unintelligent. It's like a short term strategy

@The Rainmaker I agree with u. We must see the human behind the anxiety

thought the same at first then i watched it. i found the busting limiting beliefs part very healing

mark manson speaks in too many absolutes and needs nuance in his work. contrarian viewpoints get clicks - its a marketing strat used in self-help LoA is great. What hes mentioning is a trap in LoA where you can reinforce the negative, if the affirmation is too outside of your reality. but he uses it as a way to discredit the entire thing

Thanks for the post. But a little skeptical, because I don't know if you can eliminate it forever

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM89b1ecG/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM89b2gPN/ These channels have some videos on conscious communication with your partner, they do some mock conversations that I found useful. I have a couple more channels and ill look for their specific videos where they talk about it One thing I do want to say is that your gfs behavior is abrasive and when she says you're no longer needed that does make me on alert a bit

She is wounded? Maybe couples therapy How did you address it when you brought it up?

3-4 uG for me. More sort of makes me more anxious. Interestingly, These very small doses are the best for me More gets intense. Get kinda high I can't find the guide I used when I first started but I did it like 2 days on, 1 day off Edit: found it This is what I used: https://thehustle.co/how-to-lsd-microdose Nvm link is broke sorry about that. But there should be good resources out now. When I first started there wasn't much but it's gotten pretty popular since then

@mmKay i feel u. same w me. but spread across many other games

@Terell Kirby np hopefully it was helpful I'm trying to figure it out with you tbh I really like @Karmadhi s answer I think integrity is a corner stone of healthy relationships in general. Almost like it's the foundation of friendship Like if you're integrous you go in with good intents and no manipulations. Both people would be very happy and it would create a foundation of trust

Resources on where to go for help/professional aid Resources on how to deal with emotions that arise

Would love

Genuine intent to be friends Being emotionally intelligent, and respectful Similar interests/Values I also think friendships can vary person to person. Personally my best friendships also include a lot of vulnerability and understanding

Don't think they're all creepy tbh!! I have friends who have gotten good with girls who partially took the pua route. They didn't *only* stick to pua though. Ton of socializing and confidence practices as well. Among other things

its not black and white - as sometimes the girl might actually be not putting effort into the relationship and that severely amplifies the feelings (ime). like human beings have needs. i think if she is honest , faithful and attentive then there may be some healing on your part. hope you find your answer

Ayo ?

it is such an insane video. ive never seen it mentioned on the forum interestingly. wonder if people didnt watch it, didnt get it, or just didnt resonate with it

There are some communities while large and public, can sti be overwhelmingly kind and compassionate. I'm part of a discord that is like this Did you mean this subforum particularly? Or the whole forum