Jacob Morres

nope lol. too mystical for me to share. only if they too are into mystical topics or i can tell their mind is non-judgemental/open-minded i've had some mystical friends ive shared it to fall in love with leo's content. but also simultaneously found them fall into some of the traps of leo's work i've also shared it with some people who think he's a cult leader lol... but since im so passionate about the topic he was open-minded to spiral dynamics and open to listening . even watched a few episodes.

@soos_mite_ah would have to agree a bit with that point. I think making it a goal like that doesn't make sense I think you can have attachment and bonding without the sex. I think the sex is just part of the mix

@Preety_India no bcuz the topic was leo talking about not being wanted/desirable and the only way someone would do it with you is if they got paid

Maybe a better way to explain it would be How would you feel if the only way you could get a boyfriend is if you had to pay them? But then again, maybe to even really understand that you'd have to go through that

Na na I meant what's the real world benefit of it. Is the only benefit getting her attracted to you

If become a bad boy What do I gain from it? Is there any benefits to being a bad boy besides attracting women? I ask because for example, if you advocate for being nice I see a lot of benefits. Like being empathetic and kind makes people feel heard & safe, respectively

my guess is it might have to do something with democrats fighting for policies that support them more often. democrats usually advocate for more social programs and lesser priveleged people are in need of it more

does anyone here even know what coral is

yeah i'd do it for 2-3 years, take my bag then use that bag to pursue other endeavors. if youre at FB youre getting a big bag. you're also going to be in an environment of very intelligent and ambitious and partly green people. seems like my environment then again FB value system is slightly differed than mine. I don't think we'd be fully aligned, but I would learn a lot. I'd do it for a year

Some of the lowest conscious people I initially deemed were the most developed after realizing it through my own development A therapist that I thought was stupid (while true in terms of the training I was looking for) was the most compassionate, emptionally intelligent and human centered person under later reflection A therapist I thought was emotionally unavailable (while perhaps true) was also simtanouesly very comfortable in her own skin which I currently think is high self esteem

Healthy character Integrous Fun loving Spiritual Those are probably my only non negoitables. I think rest I can feel it out

@SamC ik you asked leo but from my exp pua won't fix your internal feelings of self worth and authenticity I actually don't think that traditional pickup helps much with this . Happy to be wrong But, when I looked at rsd juliens latest product (tengame) and also rsd Alex, they both spent time I think into correcting some of the negatives that came with pua. Julien with focusing on authenticity in tengame and then trauma work in his latest work. Then Alex with focusing on self esteem as the core of the game. This is just my understanding

You can do it in a way that such happens

depends on how you do it

it depends on the habit i think. some habits need rest like working out. but some habits dont like drinking water in the morning you can workout everyday too just the workout cant be strenous everyday otherwise like you said, burnout btw burnout is very well studied to my knowledge im sure you can find better knowledge than me https://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2019/01/01/burnout-cause/

By goal-less i think it means outcome independence/detachment, not actually goal-less

Also keep in mind there are more factors in determining efficacy of the therapist skill and empathy https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-a-good-therapist#1.-They-actually-listen-to-you. But careful in being perfectionistic about it

What's interesting is that this can be true the other way around as well. When it comes to sports I found my outer game self correcting as I got proficient at inner game The way I saw it is outer game is like a spotlight of your inner game (like your inner projects outside like a projector). So as you develop your inner game, your outer game just develops through patience and time But I also played a lot so (like sev hours a day). It was like a self fulfilling prophecy where inner and outer are deeply connected

Lmao the framing of some of the questions ? Game is supposed to be natural. If a guy is good at flirting you wouldn't even think of him as a pua

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/spirituality

i think theyre intertwined are they not? when you are mastering something, you are still manifesting an end result, but you are just focused on the present moment perhaps maybe the goal isn't super-defined but there is a general direction - the mastery of that subject I don't fully understand the nuances behind the goal-less philosophy though. I'd imagine no goals wouldn't gain you mastery. What if you had no goals when practicing piano and you just learned how to hit the keys as fast as possible lol

We have to get crystal clear of the traps with PuA. We can't throw pua out the window but there are incomplete philosophies that we must be conscious of I think to an extent pickup might diminish authenticity. But at the same time, I think you could pursue pickup with authenticity in mind Leo autocorrects part of this in how to be a man part 2

Hare krishnan groups might be particularly dogmatic. I know very little of it but I've heard it's a cult. Might be some type of green cult. Just speculations But what do I know lol.

I remember being like this when I was younger so I understand u

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