Jacob Morres

@PurpleTree appreciate your response. Yeah I really relate. I always felt like for some reason or another the therapist was always lacking some efficacy or helpfulness somehow. My last therapist was an exception . She matched my energy well and really did her best to help me but she was not trained in my issue. I'm eternally grateful for her tho Jungian sounds dope. I always thought a bit about it bcuz I've done a good amount of shadow work and my world view is based a bit in it But yeah thanks for sharing! Gained some insight and helped me feel my exp was normal

@Knowledge Hoarder If she comes back she needs to not take such an inflammatory strategy imo

maybe become a movie director and portray shorter guys as sexy and attractive in them

@FlyingLotus naw thats not a neg thats racist + OD lmao

ryan holiday

She will be back with swords and an army next time ?

I think the pursuit is right for some, wrong for others. Me personally, it's right 1-2%, wrong 98% lol. I think im bored of casual sex unless the girl is super special

nope lol. too mystical for me to share. only if they too are into mystical topics or i can tell their mind is non-judgemental/open-minded i've had some mystical friends ive shared it to fall in love with leo's content. but also simultaneously found them fall into some of the traps of leo's work i've also shared it with some people who think he's a cult leader lol... but since im so passionate about the topic he was open-minded to spiral dynamics and open to listening . even watched a few episodes.

@soos_mite_ah would have to agree a bit with that point. I think making it a goal like that doesn't make sense I think you can have attachment and bonding without the sex. I think the sex is just part of the mix

@Preety_India no bcuz the topic was leo talking about not being wanted/desirable and the only way someone would do it with you is if they got paid

Maybe a better way to explain it would be How would you feel if the only way you could get a boyfriend is if you had to pay them? But then again, maybe to even really understand that you'd have to go through that

Na na I meant what's the real world benefit of it. Is the only benefit getting her attracted to you

If become a bad boy What do I gain from it? Is there any benefits to being a bad boy besides attracting women? I ask because for example, if you advocate for being nice I see a lot of benefits. Like being empathetic and kind makes people feel heard & safe, respectively

my guess is it might have to do something with democrats fighting for policies that support them more often. democrats usually advocate for more social programs and lesser priveleged people are in need of it more

does anyone here even know what coral is

yeah i'd do it for 2-3 years, take my bag then use that bag to pursue other endeavors. if youre at FB youre getting a big bag. you're also going to be in an environment of very intelligent and ambitious and partly green people. seems like my environment then again FB value system is slightly differed than mine. I don't think we'd be fully aligned, but I would learn a lot. I'd do it for a year

Some of the lowest conscious people I initially deemed were the most developed after realizing it through my own development A therapist that I thought was stupid (while true in terms of the training I was looking for) was the most compassionate, emptionally intelligent and human centered person under later reflection A therapist I thought was emotionally unavailable (while perhaps true) was also simtanouesly very comfortable in her own skin which I currently think is high self esteem

Healthy character Integrous Fun loving Spiritual Those are probably my only non negoitables. I think rest I can feel it out

@SamC ik you asked leo but from my exp pua won't fix your internal feelings of self worth and authenticity I actually don't think that traditional pickup helps much with this . Happy to be wrong But, when I looked at rsd juliens latest product (tengame) and also rsd Alex, they both spent time I think into correcting some of the negatives that came with pua. Julien with focusing on authenticity in tengame and then trauma work in his latest work. Then Alex with focusing on self esteem as the core of the game. This is just my understanding

You can do it in a way that such happens

depends on how you do it

it depends on the habit i think. some habits need rest like working out. but some habits dont like drinking water in the morning you can workout everyday too just the workout cant be strenous everyday otherwise like you said, burnout btw burnout is very well studied to my knowledge im sure you can find better knowledge than me https://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2019/01/01/burnout-cause/

By goal-less i think it means outcome independence/detachment, not actually goal-less

Also keep in mind there are more factors in determining efficacy of the therapist skill and empathy https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-a-good-therapist#1.-They-actually-listen-to-you. But careful in being perfectionistic about it

What's interesting is that this can be true the other way around as well. When it comes to sports I found my outer game self correcting as I got proficient at inner game The way I saw it is outer game is like a spotlight of your inner game (like your inner projects outside like a projector). So as you develop your inner game, your outer game just develops through patience and time But I also played a lot so (like sev hours a day). It was like a self fulfilling prophecy where inner and outer are deeply connected