Jacob Morres

I think these are the two biggest buckets that differentiate between success and the lack of it I think there's not much that seperates people inherently from success/the lack of it. there's a lot of tangible things in our control that drastically increases our chances of success So to elaborate by habits I mean: Your health habits, your mindset habits, and your action habits Health habits = nutrition/exercise/sleep/relationship/meditation/nature Mindset habits = inner belief system, things you think and visualize Actions = field related actions that make you successful (so a basketball player will have a good shooting form habit, mixing up moves habit etc. good fundamentals) Then by your environment I think: people you hang around = the people you hang around, their habits, thoughts, mindset, actions will rub off onto you information = so the books/courses/podcasts consumed will also rub off into you as well yeah i think that's a great overview of success in a nutshell. just my pov

@IAmReallyImportant regarding your environment i gotta agree and disagree. i think that visualizations + affirmations are incredibly critical but you when combine that with a good environment, that can really be a massive catalyst + key. also i have to refine this document, it's a bit sloppy

not striking when the iron was hot for my business. i was very early to a market and the market ended up getting very saturated and competitive. missed out on a ton of potential and time. lesson learned

damn that's a great nutshell formula i definitetely dont think it's either/or so it's good that this includes nuance

@Leo Gura homeless?? what am I doing with my life ??? But wait, also what game did u run to make her think u were homeless??

the advice trap by michael stainer

I noticed these models were getting a ton of attention in the past years

???????????? @Ash55 same lmaoooo

@Ulax xDDD you know it

I have the same thing but with life coaching

https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/SeeHearFeelIntroduction_ver1.8.pdf Comprehensive and practical

you were pretty clear haha. but its all good happy youve grown ?

What happened? Didn't you used to insult guys like that

You can definietely find therapists that fit these needs Just a thought but maybe a therapist that has training in life coaching. Especially since your goal you said to self actualize I'd suggest to read people's bios and get a sense of people's style and see if it's a fit (through reading bios, speaking with them (consultation), or doing a session)

Also I just realized that mindfulness is a great tool you can use. When you are mindful and in the moment, such thoughts just get observed in the present moment rather than identified with (therefore reducing the suffering that it causes from them) https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/SeeHearFeelIntroduction_ver1.8.pdf I'm using shinzen young's technique for the time being

?? something something correlation =/= causation

@Raze results r skewed bcuz of the uneven #s lol. If it was even # of ppl both sides the results I'd wager be equivalent

@Raze there is a trap with stats where they dont account for the whole picture for ex: that graph doesnt account for the fact that dating apps have multiples more men than women on the app hmm maybe confirmation bias?

you attract what you are ? LMAO god i gotta stop

this guy was an ex-rsd coach, he talks about a lot of the traps within rsd and pickup. may be helpful to some if it resonates https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl3DQIFqAzhu6nJoyVpf2HA/videos im still pretty pro pickup but noticing its traps can be very beneficial in the long-run

https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Interesting find

i think simultaneously everyone can and also can't

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@Rilles thanks for sharing

Getting back w my ex was the worst decision of my life. Ofc our situations are probably different but I'd check your intuition on this one