Jacob Morres

the critique sounds valid but also sounds like it throws the baby out with the bathwater

I'd have to disagree a little here leo. I think if your intention is strong, and the personality is right, you can do it even when you're young. I've had this when I was 18 and again at 24 It depends on your focus, desires and heart

Nice to see you around. God speed

Yeah this Part of dating confuses the fuck out of me. Selflessness turns girls off? I'd rather have 0 girls then I'm not giving up my soul for any woman make it make sense Edit: @aurum good point ?

always funny when people say, "im just being honest" lol pepega ur ugly as fuckkkk. what?? im just being honest

This is why I developed a thing for integrity, compassion and empathy. If girls do that to me, I just get turned off. It's also a very bad foundation for a relationship. Before the relationship started she's treating you like that? She'd have to apologize for being so flaky idk that's just my thoughts But does sound like inner child work could be helpful. Also to practice detachment and help you clarify which girls are right for you, and what you deserve (attention, time, respect)

@Thought Art just saying sorry for off topic - but in my understanding the spark can be slightly misleading. i think it is important but it's not enough to determine compatability

- Continue developing my email marketing skills to build out high income skills - Continuing body sculpting - Developing self-esteem for social skills that's mine

hahaha my moms similar. she doesn't get it when i try to explain it to her either. immigrant parents L

i think it has to do with giving up control / surrender

I'd bet most of em do

@Majed the closing needs some work js. It feels a bit quick

Both are shitty but i pick breaking up with someone. I Hate to hurt someone but being hurt boy is that painful

I feel integrity does that. It's like you sacrifice egoic benefits but benefit in the soul. Short term vs long term. Lower vs higher self Don't quote me on that lol

...? Bc boosts alone don't get u the matches... ur profile needs to be an S or A tier profile. U gotta watch the video for the strategy Aint no trick or silver bullet bruh

@RedLine Boosts alone won't do the trick, ur profile needs to be fully optimized

Check out this podcast episode though. Dude has a dope strategy to get mad matches on tinder Basically insanely good pics + photo feeler (to get public ratings on ur pics) Then tinder gold + boosts and then make a system/funnel for mass messaging girls Dude gets hundreds of matches in a short time There's some details I missed though

Yeah this was my issue with this. There's like a weird dynamic that comes with it

Check out Noah Elkrief, he has a lot of stuff on healing , self esteem and inner child work

@KoryKat wbu, do u got those things?

the paradox is an illusion, really theyre interconnected. when you love yourself, you still can desire change, it's just the motivation is different. one arises from self-love whereas prior it may have arisen from self-hate

He's just learning the ropes let's be ez lol. But yeah bro asking to fuck doesn't work usually unless the context is right. Like you're on that comfort level with the girl already, or u can tell she's into u like that

Wow what an awesome challenge. I might join you

I like it a lot. For me, humor, kindness, fun and wise. For me. Personally.

you can try r/fitness, they were very helpful in my early lifting days. responses here are good too