Jacob Morres

maybe i sound too spiritual but a trap could be that you're trying to get it out of your mind? zen teaches us that we cannot control what arises, but simply be its witness. in time it will pass as you continue to observe that being said ive been where you are i think. ive also had a gf where ive felt utterly incompatable, but i still had love for her. in time that shit gets weaker and weaker. My guess! i think you havent not processed it as youve been focusing on your career. now that you have alone time i think your mind is finally noticing the stuff thats underneath -so it may just be an opportunity for healing

Apparently girls really like this, but I don't know what it is tbh? Or how to actualize this Recently I learned how to "see, and hear" people and I thought maybe I can learn this masculine containment thing next

@Tyler Robinson Curious about what you mean by saying, making her feel accepted

How to respond to a girl that is flaky? You don't (Don't take this too srs just shitposting)

Maybe build a social media following (or influencer tbh) of some sort. I know you can attract people of similar interests that way.

Donno about the rest but socializing doesn't make u dumber. Shit is a human need. In fact, good and healthy socializing makes me smarter. Better energy, more happiness, clearer mind, able to focus on other things

As long as it's emotionally intelligent it doesn't matter I think

@Leo Gura how do u deal with false convictions with that swift of a penalty?

Do you respect men? Dude is venting here for feeling used and ur responding not respectfully

Millions

Interesting. Has exposures been too difficult? If you have the insurance for it , I'd suggest looking into an OCD specialist There's also a workbook that I found pretty decent: ACT for ocd. It goes over theory and there's a training program in there that seems good Also there's a YouTube channel called OCD and anxiety you might like that Also would like to mention that healing OCD is a full systemic thing for some people. For some people just doing exposures is not enough. So reducing stress, cleaning up diet, sleeping better etc. Will all help reduce it

But there is def huge capabilities within a community. communities vary at different levels of consciousness

He hits a lot of conventionally attractive qualities... good looking, buff, fighter, rich, charismatic, high status/fame, dominant, leader Not saying I agree with his worldview. His worldview is like from the 1940s Tate is gangster. Like a literal stage red gangster. Dude stole millions of dollars lmao

depends on how you do it. you could do it in a normally socially acceptable way and nobody will care

Imagine not having any water and someone demonizes you for being upset for caring so much about water. Why u care so much about dat water man?? There's so much else to life than water! ! That's such a meaningless existence you live! Sex is a primal need on Maslow hierarchy of need, the base pillar actually Really easy to say all that shit when you're abundant in it Use some listening skills and ull see where OP Is coming from Some yall on this forum too logical. Comes with the territory I guess @Tyler Robinson

@Loba nice

not BC its emotionally unintelligent. its still dominant. u said its not dominant. its just emotionally unintelligent, dominant its impt to see people outside of one characteristtic lol. the judgement is false, doesnt make sense to say who has the time for that. this works for every judgement ever

there are many lines of development they still are being dominant, just being dominant in an emotionally unintelligent way. which is one reason why women get attracted to it in the first place

Lmaoooooooo

All love but beyond 1 or 2 posts like that might be a bit much

link it dawg Lmao

Ite man why u gotta use Indian derogatory like that with the rest of that man thats fucked up

Imo 50/50. Find it weird that guys are supposed to pay for girls. 2 adults there, sharing a mutual experience. Don't know why the men have to shell out of their pocket for it With societal norms, men are sort of expected to pay.

you ever check out leo's video on infinite intelligence?

hmm definietely some self-esteem and trauma work. maybe some therapy too. you're an awesome dude man!! just need to realize it. im sure you have so many great qualities i can relate though. i felt like this from like 16 - 23 through like a dozen small experiences a lot of self-image has healed in this area. still much to go, but not as bad as it once was. these realities are all true for you - - girls are easy to get - you are an attractive person - you are worthy as you are - you can find a great, amazing relationship