Jacob Morres

Fair. Though, at a soul level, people may appreciate it. If that makes sense But a good soul isn't enough

@Emerald very interesting thanks for sharing i think thats important for development in general - what's life without those qualities you listed? though have you seen this video? curious on your thoughts. skip to 11:08

What do you define as the feminine? Kindness, empathy, vulnerability, compassion etc.?

i mean yeah dude it's not easy. it takes a ton of work and character development i'm not really talking about shady guys. i'm talking about if u want to be able to get consistent dates, or a good sex life.

this is the one i said i mean yeah i agree with it - most are very picky nowadays. but i also agree with putting in the effort to solve it from the man's POV but i also think it's a complex systemic issue rather than women's fault. there's tons of factors that lead to the dating crisis for men these conservative view points dont interest me so be careful putting everyone in the same bucket

Both leo and frank are right in their respective ways

meh the video doesnt describe my pov

Dude whatever sources you're consuming man change them Most girls will be happy you approached them Watch for any social cues or Non verbal communication if they feel uncomfortable that's all

Yeah i get that fr. When I was a virgin life was hard I wish society destimagtized being a virgin like how slut shaming is largely destimatized now in liberal areas at least There's a TON of shame attached to being a virgin. At least for some ppl

i see what ur saying. is she bad, no. a lot of unethical behavior comes from wounds. personally tho - and id say for everyone tbh maybe - id want a girl who is more emotionally and socially mature is what she did enough to warrant ops response, and ending the relationship? id still say yeh. he responded perfectly imo i used the word socially unacceptable but maybe socially toxic was a better word. but na yeah i get it. shes not a bad person. i see what ur saying

Well said

There's a certain impact you have [on others] with your choices - you shouldn't be unconscious of your impact his reaction was valid. It's definietely quite rude for that kind of behavior. First dates are for meeting a potential partner and it's pretty socially unacceptable to entertain other people while on a date - it definietely speaks to some larger issues within that person I think. While this is true - you should be compassionate towards others and their flaws A lot of girls are low in ethics tho and you gotta have high boundaries and self respect. Perhaps if she was generally a good person and generally showed respect, compassion and a desire to mend/repair I could see it fixing I've definietely tried this with a few girls - problem is some girls seriously lack ethics. It like spoke to a larger issue in the girl every time and they ended up being rude in different ways. This is just my personal exp imo - tho not 100% set - this is enough for me to leave Also isn't the adage that first dates are where the person is trying to set the best impression of themselves? She's doing that, at her best lol.

That's a good insight When struggling try to remember that. But also take accountability

Dude - one thing is for sure. I probably don't have to tell you this - but if girls show weird red flags like this in the beginning GTFO Do not ignore red flags Very happy you stood up for yourself. Keep doing that for life > Hope she enjoys hoeing around she's only got a few years left of being really desirable anyway She's not even desirable rn with that behavior. Flirting with another guy while on a date with u? Red flags 101

Ur killin me dawg..... ?

@Ulax i feel like it cant capture my worldview properly its quite nuanced. but perhaps there is some hostility. i still love women though

Lol 36% hostile 0% benevolent idgi i felt like my beliefs were truth LMAO. why did i get hostile like there was a question that was like women tease men sexually. they do DO this. ofc not ALL women.

Damn I'm sorry you're going through that man. Getting a gf is sometimes not easy those guys are dicks Btw. U dont deserve that treatment A lot of people struggle with this so it's normal

Traditionalist women appreciate gender normed men with very certain and specific roles and characteristics. They don't support the full plethora of men Progressives support men more in general. Though they also have resentment and hate towards men too for feeling/being discriminated/marginalized

??? Perhaps. The worldview I am sharing is a bit nihilistic/viewing the situation glass half empty

I see this thrown around the internet here and there. If this is actually true there's no point in dating lol. But idk it hasn't been true so far with the women I've been with

you can be a leader rn ? your very nature is inherently a role model to others

Na dude it's probably the highest it's ever been now than ever Never has there been a time where most women could just open a dating app, put up some pictures and get hundreds of options within hours/days. The competition is fierce. OLD changed the dating game hard for women

@something_else unless you're conventionally attractive (honestly sometimes probably even then), most dudes that go to nightclubs to find a girl, will get 0 cheeks most of the time, including you But the video was for the guy to find a date, not for sex. But that's irrelevant But my My main point to Emerald was just to say that it's extremely difficult for guys and it's not about Andrew Tate Girls love to give advice like, just be nice, just be yourself, just go socialize, don't be a mysognist. But even doing those things it can be often extremely difficult Def v solvable tho with effort as long as you max out some strategy

@something_else have you ever tried doing this? Also that doesn't disprove my point how challenging it can be for the average dude